Akubona bonke abesifazane bayakwazi ukuxoxa ngesihloko ebucayi ezifana ukuphinga. Futhi kakhulu embalwa kakhulu abameleli ubulili fair kungaba ingxoxo ngisho girlish nomunye ukuxoxa abathandi zabo, ubudlelwano nabo, kanye nezinye izinto ngalezo zizathu. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi abanye kudingeka ngempela iseluleko kuzo zonke izinhlobo nezindaba ezihlobene nalesi sihloko. Ngokwesibonelo, yini ukunikeza ngoba usuku lokuzalwa lover. Lesi sihloko kwalotshwa abesifazane abanjalo.
Inhliziyo, njengoba besho, awukwazi lokuyala. Futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi othandekayo wakho lide futhi kahle oshadile, noma wena ngokwakho engengaphansi ubuhlobo obungathí sina omunye umuntu, umbuzo ukuthengwa izipho ngamaholide kuyinkinga enkulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungafuni ukwenza ngaphandle samanje - futhi kufanele kube ongasoze walibaleka, engavamile futhi ngokuqinisekile ngeke zifane into engase ukwethula umfazi zomthetho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungafuni ukudala izinkinga ozithandayo - ngoba ngeke kusadingeka ukusebenzisa into etholakale futhi ngandlela-thile ukuchaza kumkakhe ukubukeka kwakhe. Yini ukunikeza umthandi oshadile kulokhu?
Ukuze ukudala izinkinga yena nayephayona naye kufuneka bazame ngazo zonke izindlela ezingakhona izipho ukuthi sizosetshenziswa usuku lokuzalwa emsebenzini. Futhi njengenjwayelo ngemisebenzi sonke ukuchitha ingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwethu, le nto uzonikhumbuza njalo. Esikhathini uhlu lokukhethwa kukho ka yini ukuthola lokuzalwa kwami lover kungaba, isibonelo, isipho zokubhala usetha brand ezinhle. Kule sethi, ngasendleleni, ungenza i-deed eziqoshwe ibinzana Yiqiniso, nje nobabili. Ngisho ohlwini ezinjalo izipho ungafaka abanikazi ikhadi lebhizinisi, abanikazi ukhiye, paperweights yokuqala, eziyisikhumbuzo okungavamile ideskithophu noma izihlahla bonsai. Futhi uma umsebenzi lihlobene uhambo ozithandayo, uhamba, kuba impela efanelekayo njengesipho okuthile "umngane yensimbi" yakhe. Futhi ohlwini yini ukunikeza lover wakhe ngosuku lokuzalwa, singakwazi ngokuphepha zihlanganisa izinto angase umlingani futhi ufuna ukukhokhela, kodwa ngasizathu simbe ingakahambisani banabo. izipho ezinjalo kulula njalo ukuchaza umfazi umusho kusuka uchungechunge oluthi "wazenzela ezimnandi for the holiday."
Omunye umbandela ukuthi ukunikeza lokuzalwa lover, uma ushadile, akufanele kube lenani eliphakeme kakhulu isipho - kodwa ukunyamalala kwanoma yini isizumbulu semali isabelomali umndeni kungenziwa kalula itholiwe. Enye kuleli cala - ukulondoloza imali yezindleko yabo saziso. Kodwa ungavele ukuxazulula inkinga esebenzisa yokuqala indlela kukhethwa isipho. Ngokwesibonelo, lokuzalwa esithengisa amaswidi siqu wobuciko - futhi ngakho wabayeka lokuthi bakhethe ukuthi bayafuna ukujabulela wedwa, ukuletha ukusebenza futhi ukubungaza osebenza nabo, noma ukuthatha it ekhaya futhi bathi liyisipho lwabasebenzi.
Yini ongasinikela lover wakhe? Ukubuka okungcono kuyokushiya umangele ngokwakho. A ebusuku passion, ebukekayo ethangeni umdanso, isikhathi nje wachitha ndawonye - akulona ukubingelela engcono nomuntu onjani wena, ngeshwa, awakwazi ukuyisebenzisa yonke isikhathi sakho khulula?