Kanjani ukukhetha ezanele ukubingelela nozakwethu

On-site service njengoba wonke umuntu uyazi, sichitha isikhathi esiningi. Abantu akuzona amarobhothi. Bona ukuxhumana, benamandla uzwela nomunye. Basebenza ndawonye futhi bahlele amaholide. Futhi nanku uza omunye wabo. Kodwa kanjani ukukhetha nozakwethu ukubingelela? Izitembu zivuse isithukuthezi, original kungenziwa Uqaphelile kahle. Ake ucabange ngalokhu iphi segolide kusho.

Yini ebaluleke kakhulu: ebuqothweni noma isifiso ugqame?

Lo mbuzo kuyomelwe aphendule kunoma ubani ifuna bingelela osebenza nabo. Phela, njengoba le ndoda ithi? Kuyadingeka ukuthi lawo mazwi kubo bonke wezwa, wakhumbula, kuxoxwe ngazo futhi uphendule. Lena ukwakheka isifiso esihle. Kodwa bangifihlele isicupho encane kulo abaningi babanjwa. Sanibonani nozakwethu kufanele esekelwe izithakazelo zabo. Shiya umbhalo wakho ukugaya. Okusho ukuthi, okokuqala udinga ukuqonda ukuthi yini bayokujabulela ukuzwa nabasebenzi bakho.

Qala ngokwehlisa ingxenye izifiso impumelelo yimbangela ejwayelekile. Ngiyavuma, lokhu bonke bafuna. Yibe usutshela ngempilo. Kuyinto umsebenzi ngamunye futhi sikufisela kuyadingeka. Yisho mayelana ikhono lokusebenzisa kahle ngezimpelasonto namaholidi, izimpilo lwabantu. Phela, nabo basuke bahlala enkonzweni nakanjani ungasuki abathandekayo. Kule, abaningi bengakhululeki.

A nencazelo ehluke kufanele bafake siyakuhalalisela kodwa ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa uzakwabo. Kuyadingeka ukwenza siqu ngaphezulu. Kufanele uvumelane, kuyajabulisa ukubona ngeso lengqondo ukuthi impumelelo ukukhiqizwa, kodwa kungcono, uma ufisa ukuthola kulesi sehlakalo ingxenye izinzuzo.

imishwana ayalolongwa

Lapho ukusabalalisa umbhalo omkhulu, uqhubekele "ukunqunywa ubuntu." Ufuna kwaba acacile nangenakulibaleka? Kufanele sibonise ubuntu. Ungishiya e izithombe amazwi.

Siyakuhalalisela nozakwethu kufanele washayelwa bebizana nemisho leyo abantu ajwayelekile futhi ezimnandi. Ngokwesibonelo, ungase uthi, "Ngifisa sengathi ngabe impilo enhle." Bakubeke ngenye indlela: "Bayekeni odokotela wake ngizithola kini emahhovisi abo ukusebenza!". Nansi incazelo efanayo, kodwa kuzwakala ezahlukene. Yilelo isigijimi kwabanye. Ngidinga ukusebenza umbhalo, ukwenza kube egqamile futhi eyingqayizivele. Futhi-ke, kuhle abakuyo.

Ukubuka njengoba amakhanda noma abagqugquzeli bathi inkulumo yabo, abantu bacabanga ukuthi Kulokhu kulula. Kahle. Ukukhuluma kahle, ukugwema clichés noma vulgarisms, kudinga ukwenza njalo. Kufana ukufunda ukufunda nokubhala. Ukusebenzisa ngaphezulu idlulisa ingane, ngcono yena uthola. A ukubingelela ingenye izinhlobo ngokunikeza izinkulumo zeningi. Kufanele ukulungiselela futhi phinda.

Siyakuhalalisela ozakwabo besifazane

Isu lokungacunuli, ukunakekelwa kanye ngezilokotho zibaluleke nakakhulu lapho inkulumo yakho iqondiswa wobulili bubuhle. Ulahla wonke imicabango Ukukhululwa. Esikhathini iholide owesifazane ifuna ukuzwa emnandi kuphela. Futhi azibonayo sihlaziye amazwi akho ayoba ngokucophelela futhi ngokucophelela. Nkulunkulu yenqabele ubuhlungu inzuzo yakhe kwambangela singathekiso. Abazisola ngazo kamuva.

Usuku lokuzalwa ukubingelela ozakwabo besifazane ukuqamba ngokucophelela. Uma ungabaza mayelana Ukwanela kwezinto bezibona lamazwi akhe, ngase uzhmite umbhalo, limphonse aphume zikhathi ezibucayi. Ngokwesibonelo: "Sifisa intombazane lokuzalwa impumelelo, uthando, impilo, izinyembezi elimnandi uhleko. Ukuzinza isimo somshado, ukuze umhlaba wonke kwaba ngasezinyaweni zakhe, hhayi kuphela usuku lokuzalwa! ". Kuyaqondakala ukuthi amazwi kokugqashuka akufanele lady ukhuluma esanda ayedlule isehlukaniso. Ukuziphindiselela efanayo.

Siyakuhalalisela uzakwabo wesilisa

Ucabanga ukuthi amadodana ka-Adamu akuzona ngikhetha ngakho? Kuyangabazeka kakhulu. Abesilisa bathambekele unakekele kahle isithombe sabo. Ngakho-ke, bheka ukuthi bayaluthola ezikhulunywa iqembu. Kodwa siyakuhalalisela kungenzeka, futhi kudingekile, ukuze sifake okuthile okuncane abukhali. ndima okunjalo uyobeka isiqhwaga umakhonya, bamshaya indiva ukugxekwa. Kodwa lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ngokuhlakanipha. Isibonelo: "Izinsuku zokuzalwa ufuna ukuya indlela engaziwa. Ukuze amaphiko ezingemuva esekhulile, ayikaziwa kuye ngokuthula. Zungeza wonke encintisana, sibambe izikhathi ubuhlakani. Laba baphathi neze kuhluleka, makube umsebenzi wakhumula phambili! Denzhischi ufisa omkhulu, ukuqonda amaphupho ekugcwalisekeni. Uthando enhle kakhulu Nymphs, iwayini, impumelelo, iholide at emaphethelweni kolwandle! ".

Futhi odlule. Noma yimuphi bingelela ofuna ukuqondisa izithakazelo umuntu. Uma kuyiyo yigugu kakhulu kwemizi lwakubo, akusiyo ubaluleke kakhulu kangakanani ukuba sekhaya travel ezikude kanye adventure. Abaqondi, uyazi. Ngikufisela inhlanhla.