Kungani ingane akusho ukukhuluma

Ngokushesha kwagcizelelani: uma ingane yakho enqaba ukukhuluma engakayihlanganisi iminyaka engu-eminyakeni emithathu, kusukela iphuzu lanamuhla umbono, World Health Organization, ke kungabhekwa njengophawu zokugula noma abakhubazekile entuthuko. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhathi esiningi sihamba, kunobufakazi ngaphezulu ekhombe yokuthi nje ukuthuthuka komqondo izingane yenza umonakalo omningi kunokuhle kuka okuhle.

Isizathu esikhulu salokhu mkhuba, njengoba zokuchithwa ingane ukukhuluma isakhasa, umbono kolwazi ngezilimi ezahlukene. Isikhathi esining impela ukuthi ukuba khona emikhayeni okuxubile, lapho abazali nezihlobo ngokushesha bakhulume izilimi ezihlukahlukene, kodwa bonke ngabanye kakhulu futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, ezinye izingane ngokwanele ukuze abone isithombe sopopayi ngolimi okungelona lwakubo, ukuze abangele imiphumela enjalo.

Kuthiwa uma, lapho le ndodana wakhulela emkhayeni tour iziqondiso, ukuzijayeza ekhaya ukuxhumana ngezilimi ezahlukene ngezinsuku ezahlukene lwesonto. Ingane wakhuluma kuphela iminyaka emine, futhi ngezilimi ezine kanyekanye. Nalapha futhi, akukho esicacile empikiswaneni iwusizo izindlela ezifana ukuqeqeshwa.

Kufanele siqaphe ukuba zonke izinhlobo bakhohlisi ababiza ikhalise i-alamu futhi uthathe amakilasi (ngokuvamile ikhokhwe) nodokotela osiza abanezinkinga zokukhuluma esimweni esinjalo. Ngokuvamile lokhu be ngaphumeleli wachitha imali, umzamo nezinzwa. ingane yakho Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma lapho kufika isikhathi, futhi, kholwa kimi, iza ngisho isikhathi uma uthi, "Qala bona gade kukuhle, lapho wathula!".

Inkulumo ukusebenza umuntu ubuchopho umsebenzi. Kakhulu zokugula ezingavamile apharathasi ngqo vocal. Akunakusetshenziswa musa ukuphoqelela ingane yakho ukuba ikhulume. Khumbula ukuthi ebuntwaneni kufanele bajabule futhi awanaki, hhayi njengoba kwaba eyakho. Nakekela amangqamuzana ezinzwa, baziwa, kungukuthi abuyiselwe.

Akubalulekile ukubheka nabangane noma omakhelwane abasebenzisa ezahlukene izindlela manje imfashini ukuthuthuka komqondo, ufundisa izingane i-akhawunti bese ufunda zisencane. Ngokusobala, kukhona awokuthi kakhulu ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa olunjalo belungaphelelwa phambili umfutho omningi engemihle. Geniuses lesintu kungaba esandleni esisodwa ukubala labo kwahluka ukuthuthuka komqondo, kodwa izibonelo "ngasekupheleni-ukukhula" - eningi.

Iqiniso lokuthi abazali bengane kanye nomkhulu wakhe bafunda ukukhuluma akufanele kube khona noluncú olusihlanganisa ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-unyaka owodwa. Vele ukunikeza ukunakwa ingane, akhulume naye, tshela izindaba, ukufunda izincwadi, ukudlala kahle okwamanje, kuze ekhathele. Noma yimuphi izimo ezingase zibangele ukucindezeleka kufanele kugwenywe.

Akubalulekile ukuba bangayeki uhambo phesheya, noma hambo e ingane, funa ngeke ukhulume isikha-. Futhi, noma kunjalo, akufanele amvikele ezinhlekeleleni imidlalo ngokuhlanganyela nezinye izingane, ngisho nokukhuluma olunye ulimi. I kancane wena ukugxila le nkinga uyimbudane - ngcono. Ingabe lokho okudingeka - ukudala izimo ukuze umntwana wajabula futhi behleka ngokuvamile, nakho konke okunye kuzolandela.

Uma emndenini wakho kunabantu abakhuluma izilimi ezahlukene, landela umthetho olula: wonke umuntu ukhuluma nengane kuphela ngolimi lwabo lwendabuko. Lokhu kuzovumela izingane zenu ukuba zifunde izilimi eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi ukhulume kubo bonke ngaphandle ngendlela ehlukile. Esikhathini esizayo, kuyasiza wena futhi bayohlala jabula ke.