Kungani uphupha izitimela nokuhamba kuzo?

Labo abathanda imigwaqo emide bayathola injabulo yangempela ngokuhamba ngesitimela. Lona uhlobo lokuthandana, i-adventure: imihlaba emisha, abajwayele ukuzijabulisa, inkululeko ezinkingeni zakudala noma ukuxhumana, ithuba lokuhlala yedwa nemicabango yakho, iphupha. Uhambo ephusheni lungakutshela okungenani uma kwenzeka empilweni yangempela. Ngenxa yalokhu, kufanelekile ukuphendukela encwadini yephupho futhi ukhumbule ama-nuances emibono yasebusuku ngokuningiliziwe. Ake sibone ukuthi isitimela nokuhamba kuzo kuphupha ngani.

Ukubaluleka kwesitimela kubantu abangashadile nabangashadile

Kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi incwadi ngayinye yephupho ingahumusha incazelo yesitimela ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngakho-ke, kwezinye zazo kuthiwa iphupho nale ndlela yokuthutha inengqondo kuphela kubantu abasha namantombazane abangashadile nabangathí sina. Kulesi simo, bheka isitimela eside, ekupheleni kwawo okunye ukude - kubangane abasha abathandanayo. Uma intombazane ikhetha ukuthi imoto ihlala kuphi, kufanele inqume nabalandeli bayo empilweni, yenza okukhethwa phakathi kwabaphathi. Kumfana, isitimela sisho ukuthandana ngothando. Futhi uma lokhu kuyindawo lapho kunabantu abaningi abadala, ama-compounds angalungile, khona-ke amathuba okuhlukana noma ukuhlupheka aphezulu ngenxa yothando olungenakuphikiswa.

Izitimela ziza futhi zihambe ...

Futhi kungani isitimela, esishiya futhi sifika esiteshini , siphupha ? Ukuze intombazane ibambe isitimela sokuhamba - ukufeza isifiso esithile esithandekayo, futhi kumfana - ithuba lokucabanga ngento yakhe ephathekayo mayelana nabesifazane. Uma ungazange uphumelele, bese unaka umlingani wakho: mhlawumbe usebenzisa wena noma akukhohlise. Ukuhlangana isitimela esifikile akuyona isibonakaliso esihle kakhulu, esibonisa ukuphikisana nabangani.

Ukuhamba ngesitimela: kuhle noma cha?

Ubuza: uma ngiphupha ukuthi ngisesitimeleni? Ngingachaza kanjani konke? Lolu hambo luyisimo sokuphila kwangempela. Uma ujabulela, ujabulela imibono evela efasiteleni, uzizwe ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile, bese kuthi manje isimo sakho singabizwa sivumelana. Uthembekile kumlingani wakho, uphumelele emsebenzini wakho futhi uqine ngokuqinile ezinyaweni zakho. Yini enye ephuphayo? Ukuhamba ngesitimela ngaphandle kwetikithi ukungabi nokuzimelela, umuzwa wokuthi awukwenzi ibhizinisi lakho siqu, udidekile. Kuyaphuthuma ukushintsha okuthile ekuphileni!

Abalobi abahlukene mayelana nezitimela ephusheni

Ake sibheke izincazelo zezincwadi ezahlukene zephupho mayelana nokuthi isitimela sibonakala kanjani. I-Freud, isibonelo, ixhuma lokhu ngokumesaba okufihliwe nama-phobias. Futhi uma ubheka isitimela sesidlulile esidlule, khona-ke ngokuzisola okungenakuqhathaniswa ngabathintana nabo abangekho ngokobulili. Ngokusho kukaLof, uhambo olude olude olude lukhuluma ngamathemba okuhlangenwe nakho okusheshayo othandweni. Encwadini yephupho ka-Miss Hossa lokhu kuthutha kulandisa mayelana nezinguquko empilweni. Ukwakhiwa kwezimpahla kumemezela impumelelo nezinzuzo ekuhwebeni, okusheshayo - imiphumela esheshayo nokukwenziwa kwemibono. Uma ephuma emigwaqweni, ulinde ukwehluleka.

Ukwazi kanjani amaphupho ngesitimela?

Ukubamba iqhaza, singasho ukuthi isitimela singumuntu wempilo yakho, ukuziphatha, ubudlelwano. Uma izenzakalo ephusheni zihamba kahle (ukubamba abasebenzi abashiya, ukwenza uhambo olumnandi), empeleni kubalulekile ukulinda izenzakalo ezimnandi. Uma ubheka ingozi, awunayo ithikithi emotweni, khona-ke kufanele uqaphele imvelo yakho, ube necala elikhulu ezindabeni noma ushintshe ukuziphatha kwakho ebuhlotsheni. Futhi khumbula: akubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi isitimela siyaphupha ngani, kubalulekile ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ozithathayo ukuze wenze isimo sithandeke.