Vula ephusheni. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho

Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Futhi abaningi bazama ukuchaza ngendlela ethile konke esikuphuphayo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqala le nqubo, kufanele ukhumbule ngokucophelela isithombe esiphelele sokulala, ngemininingwane encane kunazo zonke nezincane kakhulu. Phela, yonke into encane ingashintsha ngokuphelele incazelo yonke yokuhumusha.

Amabhuku amaningi okuphupha angasisiza ukuba siqonde amaphupho, athandwa kakhulu kulabo abafuna ukuqonda amaphupho abo. Okuthandwa kakhulu manje kuyincwadi yephupho likaMiller. Kungenxa yokuthi ama-intanethi amaningi ase-Intanethi ahlanganiswa ekuchazeni amaphupho. Okuthakazelisayo kakhulu bazama ukuchaza amaphupho omprofethikazi odumile uVanga. Ukuhumusha kwakhe akunakukwenza ukuncintisana okufanelekayo encwadini yephupho likaMiller ngenxa yokuntuleka kwenani elinjalo lokubhalwa kwamaphupho. Kodwa-ke, labo abahle ekuchazeni amaphupho ngeke bahluleke ukubheka kuVanga.

Iyini iphupho mayelana nokujula?

Kungani iphupho ligcwele umshanelo, umshanelo? Abaningi abahumushi abahumushi bahumusha njengezibonakaliso ezinhle, ezifanekisela umnotho nenhlalakahle. Kubonisa ukuthi unamandla amakhulu futhi usulungele ukugoqa izintaba ukuze uphumelele.

Kodwa ukujwayiswa ephusheni kuyisimangaliso kakhulu, futhi kudinga ukuhunyushwa ngesisekelo sezimo ozenza ngazo.

Umhumushi wephutha likaVanga uxhuma ngokukhushulwa ngokunyusa emkhakheni wezemisebenzi, uma ungavumi ukuphikisana nabaphathi bakho.

Uma othile ekuvimbela ukuthi ungaqhubeki, lungela umsebenzi onzima, ulandelwe umvuzo omuhle.

Uma ngesikhatsi uqhubeka usuthole isikhathi eside esilahlekile, into ebiza kakhulu, njengendlebe, khona-ke uzobona ukuthi izitha zakho ziziveza futhi zibeke endaweni engafanele.

Vula emgqeni wephupho

Umshanelo usezandleni zakho - uphawu lwezinguquko ekugcineni kwakho, futhi umshanelo uthembisa ukujabulisa, okugcwele kokuzijabulisa nokuphila okumnandi. Uma uzothenga ithuluzi elikhukhulayo ngaphambi kokuhlanza, khona-ke ulungele ukuba yingxenye yesikhalazo sezezimali. Ukufaka umshanelo womunye umuntu uthembisa ingxoxo enhle. Iphupho lapho ususa khona umshanelo ngenkathi uqhubeka nokufakazela ubufakazi bokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa okuhlukahlukene kuvela izitha zakho. Kodwa-ke, uma uphatha ukuqeda ukuhlanza nge-broom ephukile, ungakwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkathazo zabadlali futhi uphumelele ngokuphumelelayo nebhizinisi elihleliwe.

Naka indaba yethuluzi lakho lokuhlanza. Ukugxila emgqeni wephupho nezinsimbi ze-birch - uphawu oluhle kakhulu lwezempilo nokuphila isikhathi eside. Ithuluzi labasebenzi elinempahla emibi - ezinkingeni zempilo.

Vula ngomshanelo

Kungani iphupho lokushayela ngomshanelo? Uma unomshanelo esandleni sakho, khona-ke kukhona ithuba lokufunda ukuvikela umbono wakho futhi uqinisekise abanye ngokufaneleka kwakho.

Futhi, qaphela izinga lempahla yakho yokusungula. Inani elikhulu lamahlumela lisho inhlanhla kunoma yikuphi ukuphikisana, futhi uma kunalokho, uzochitha imizwa eminingi nempi, uzama ukufakazela ukuthi iqiniso lamagama akho liyiqiniso.

Njengoba kubalulekile kithi ukuthi sivuselele yonke imininingwane yesithombe sokulala kwethu okuhlukile kokuhumusha, kufanele sibheke ngokukhethekile indawo yokutshala.

Ngena endlini

Ukuhlanza ekhaya lakho kuyisibopho sokuseka ubuhlobo nomndeni wakho. Umgcini we-hearth uzoqala ukuwazisa futhi uzokuzama ngazo zonke izindlela ukusiza endlini. Wonke amalungu omndeni azoba nempilo futhi abe nempilo futhi azofinyelela ezindaweni eziphakeme emkhakheni wabo. Uzokwazi ukubhekana ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa okuncane kakhulu nokuhlolwa okunzima kakhulu.

Uma uqala ukushona ephusheni endlini yomunye umuntu, khona-ke wazi ukuthi othile usebenzisa ubuhlobo bakho nesifiso sokusiza wonke umuntu. Uvele ukhokhele izinkinga zabanye ukuthi uzikhohlwa ngokuzibandakanya ngokwakho. Ulungele ukwenza konke ukusiza ngisho nabantu abangajwayelekile, futhi abanye bayisebenzise. Futhi uhlupheke kulezi zindaba, okokuqala, izihlobo zakho. Kodwa futhi ukuhlukumeza abangane ekhaya kungaba uphawu lokuxabana okukhulu nabo.

Futhi uma uphupha ngokushisa endaweni yomphakathi, ukunyundela namahemuhemu maduze kuzoyeka.

Ukugxila phansi ephusheni emsebenzini kudinga ukushintshwa kobuchwepheshe.

Vula egcekeni

Uma igceke liba yindawo ekhulayo, ingqondo yakho engacabangi izama ukukunciphisa futhi ibonise ukuthi konke kuhle, uvikelekile kuzo zonke izinkinga futhi ugweme kalula noma yiziphi izingozi. Ukugcina igceke ephusheni kuyisimangaliso esihle esinika ithemba esikhathini esizayo. Ukufakwa enkantolo yomunye umuntu kubonisa ukungaqondi kahle.

Vula emnyango

Uma indawo yokutshala iba umnyango, khona-ke ulungele ukunyundela nokuhleba ngemuva kwakho. Izitha zizozama ukwehlisa igunya lakho emehlweni abanye, kodwa ungaphelelwa ithemba futhi uzame ukungayithinti. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukubonisa ukubekezela nokukhuthazela, kanye nokugwema ukungqubuzana okuqondile nezifiso ezimbi.

Indawo enobungozi ekuchazeni okufanele ukulala ngokuphathelene nokuqhuma ithathwa yizinto ozitshela ngqo: phansi, emgwaqweni, njll.

Vula phansi

Uma kwadingeka udilize phansi ephusheni, thola: ukuchuma kulindeleke kuzo zonke izindaba. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokuqala kweqembu elimhlophe. Zonke izingxabano emndenini ngokuqinisekile zizophela, futhi kuzoba lula kuwe ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nengxenye yesibili, izingane nabazali.

Vula umgwaqo

Ukugxila emgwaqeni kusebenza njengesibonakaliso sokuthi unesifiso nethuba lokuthola ubudlelwane obuhle nabanye, ukwenza izilungiso zezenzo ezedlule bese ukhohlwa ukulimala okubangelwa abanye abantu. Futhi ukufaka umgwaqo kungaba uphawu lokuthola okungalindelekile kwefa, ukuthola izinto ezibizayo noma ukunyusa izinga lezemisebenzi. Ukususa umgwaqo ephusheni, ungahlangana nomuntu othakazelisayo oyokusiza ngento ebaluleke kakhulu. Uma ubona omunye umuntu ehlanza emgwaqweni, ubuhlobo nabangani buzophuthuka.

Eminye imininingwane ebalulekile

Ukuhlanza ngokucophelela nokushisa kwekhabethe kufanele kuhunyushwe ngokuthi isifiso futhi kungenzeka ukuba umuntu athuthele ekhaya elisha. Futhi futhi ungaphefumula ukuphefumula, ngoba i-carpet ekhishwe nguwe ibonisa ukunyamalala kwezinkinga zakho.

Ukulondoloza isiteji ngephupho lithembisa wena ithuba lokukhokha izitha zakho eziye zonakalisa impilo yakho ngenhlebo nokunyundela.

Isici esibalulekile futhi yilokho ophupha ngakho. Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi uma abanye abantu beza kuwe ngamaphupho, kumele ubatshele ngakho, ngoba iphupho lakho lizophazamisa izimpilo zabo.

Uma ukuphupha amaphupho owesifazane

Yini enye okuzokwenzeka ukuthi le ncwadi yephupho isitshele ngalokhu? Umshanelo ephusheni intombazane engashadile iveza ukuthuthuma okuphuthumayo kumuntu othandekayo. Umbhangqwana oshadile - ithuba kanye nesifiso sokushintsha kakhulu ikhaya. Ukulala lapho uphoqeleka ukuba ulahle khona, uthembisa ukungezwani emndenini.

Ukushaya amaphupho omuntu

Sifaka encwadini yephupho. Insizwa emadodeni iphupha izindaba ezibalulekile eziphuthumayo. Kodwa uma indawo yendoda ekhulayo iba ingeniso, kumele ilungiselelwe ngokwengqondo izihlamba ezingathandeki nokuhlukunyezwa nabantu abona nsuku zonke. Kungenzeka ukuthi lezi zinkulumo zingabangela izinkinga eziningi.

Ushayela umuntu, hhayi wena

Ukuqaphelwa kwe-sweeper kubonisa ukugcwaliseka okuphumelelayo kwamacala akho ahleliwe, futhi kungabonakalisa impumelelo yabathandekayo bakho ezindabeni zabo, ozozifakazela. Kodwa uma ngesikhathi esisodwa yonke uthuli luqhuma ebusweni bakho, ungamangali uma kwenzeka ukuhlekwa usulu nokuhlambalaza okungenangqondo ekhelini lakho.

Ushayela oshonile

Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uphuphe ngokushayela umuntu ofile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uzizwa uhlobo oluthile lecala olungakuvumeli ukuba uqhubekele phambili. Ngakho ungaxhasi, zama ukuxolisa. Lephupho lingabonisa inkathazo encane, kodwa ungakwazi kalula ukubhekana nayo.

Uhlobo luni udoti?

Eminye imininingwane, khumbula uthuli olushisayo. Ngempela, kuyinto enzima kakhulu ekusebenzeni kwayo yonke incazelo. Mhlawumbe, kuyinto enzima kakhulu kuwe ukuzama ukukhuluma okungaqondakali. Ukugcina udoti wesayizi omkhulu kubonisa isifiso sakho sokushayela umuntu ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho.

Ukuhlunga isanti kuhloswe kakhulu. Liyini iphupho? Ukugcoba isihlabathi emaphupheni akho - lokhu kungase kube yi-harbinger yomhlangano ozayo nomngane omdala, izivakashi ezingalindelekile emnyango wendlu. Kodwa futhi isihlabathi esivuthayo singasho ukuchitha isikhathi ezintweni ezingenalutho ezingenayo ukuziphatha okuhle noma kwezezimali.

Ukuhlunga amaqabunga ephusheni kubonisa ukubonakala komuntu ophikisayo. Uyozama konke okusemandleni akho ukuheha wena. Noma kunjalo, ususe ngempumelelo indawo yonke yamaqabunga, qiniseka ukuthi maduzane uzokwazi ukukhipha ubuhlobo obukhulu.

Ukugqoka izinwele eziboshiwe kufanekisela ithuba lokubuka izinkinga zakho ezivela emajukeni ahlukene futhi ushintshe iphuzu lakho lokubuka esimweni.

Ukuthola imali yamaphepha emfucumfucu kuwuphawu lwemali engenayo enkulu. Kodwa uma usuqeda isisindo, uzothola izindleko ezingalindelekile noma uzolahlekelwa imali enkulu.

Uma uchitha, futhi inani lemfucuza aliyinciphisi, khona-ke ulungele ukuzibophezela okukhulu. Zizowela emahlombe akho, futhi ngeke ube nesifiso sokuzigcwalisa, kodwa, ngeshwa, ngeke ukwazi ukuzinqaba. Ngakho-ke nje thobekile futhi ngokuziqhenya wenze yonke imisebenzi.

Utholaphi udoti?

Ephusheni lakho, uvele uphonsa udoti esikoleni, bese ungahambi noma kuphi? Lokhu kusho ukuthi empeleni awukwazi ukuqeda imicabango engadingekile, engathandeki. Kodwa uma ususa udoti ngaphandle komnyango, uzokwazi ukukhulula okwedlule ngaphandle kokuzisola.

Ukuchithwa kwemfucumfucu emgqonyeni owodwa kusithembisa isisombululo sokwanda kwezinkinga eziqoqiwe. Futhi ukufaka isikwele esihlanzekile kungukuchitha isikhathi ekuphileni. Futhi, ukwakheka kwenqwaba yezidumbu kuveza ingcebo, futhi ukuphuma emgodini wekamelo ukulahlekelwa.

Kukholelwa ukuthi ukususwa kwedoti eqoqiwe esikhathini esizayo kuyisignali embi kakhulu.

Isikhathi esishisayo sinendima ebalulekile

Yini enye okuzobe isetshenziswe kuyo incwadi yephupho? Ukushaya indlu ephusheni, lapho abantu begubha okuthile, kusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele alindele inkinga nokudumazeka kubantu abaseduze.

Uma uphuthunyiswa ngephupho, ungesabi ukucela usizo empilweni yangempela, uzodinga kakhulu.

Ukuhlala ngesikhathi esifudumele kusho ukufuna ukwenza okuhle kumuntu othandekayo. Futhi uma usuhlaselwa yisimo sezulu seqhwa, ubuhlobo obude obuhlile buzoqala futhi.

Ukulinda ngaphambi kokushona kwelanga kusithembisa inzuzo enhle yezezimali, kanye nokugula okulandelayo nokulahlekelwa impahla.

Ukuhumusha kuyisayensi eyinkimbinkimbi

Ngokwemvelo, kunezindlela eziningi zokuhumusha iphupho mayelana nokujula. Kodwa ungasheshi nhlobo. Ngempela, kubalulekile ukucabangela yonke imininingwane kanye nezenzo zakho kulophupho. Enye into engabanjwanga - futhi umbhalo wakho uzoba yingozi engqondweni yakho. Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzama ukungaphuthelwa lutho. Amaphupho ayikwazi ukubikezela izenzo zabantu. Ukulala - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso, okufanele sinikezwe ngokucophelela. Ungasikhulula engozini, ngakho akufanele neze sihlale singamkhathaleli. Ngaphambi kokuba ugijime ngemuva kwencwadi yephupho, kudingeka uqiniseke ukuthi ukhona yini iphupho. Thola ukuthi ngabe iphupho lizogcwaliseka noma cha, ikhalenda yenyanga izosiza.

Amaphupho ethu awahluleki kulokho okushoyo. Babonisa umfanekiso ophelele wezwe lethu langaphakathi noma ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yethu yangempela. Ngemva kokubuka lesi sithombe esikhanyayo ebusuku, ekuseni sizama ukuzala lezi zihluthulelo. Kodwa umgomo wethu oyinhloko ukuqonda ukuthi yini amaphupho ethu azoletha.

Ukuxazulula incazelo efihliwe yokulala, sizama ukubikezela ikusasa futhi siqagele ukuthi yini esizosilungiselela yona. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu sifinyelela ekujuleni komhlaba wethu ocebile, ngakho-ke qagela uphinde uxazulule amaphupho akho.