Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Kuthiwani uma umfana ayithande guys? Izincomo nezeluleko njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
Kwamanye amazwe, iphesenti bantu bayizinceku ongqingili, ongafinyelela afinyelela ku-30%. Emadolobheni dolobha, isibalo sabantu abangakwazi iziveze ezincane ngokocansi, okuningi kakhulu kunalokho ezifundazweni. Ngenhlanhla, eRussia aphansi. Kusukela kulolu hlu, kuphela labelwe Chelyabinsk, lapho inani ongqingili kuziwa 4.1%, kanti e Moscow, 3% kuphela. Namuhla, amantombazane ngokwethukela ecabanga ukuthi yini okumele uyenze uma umfana ayithande guys? Lo mbuzo, yebo, kungaba amazwana fair, "Kungani gay, ngokuvamile, kudingeka kowesifazane '? Nokho, ngokuvumelana iningi sexologists, kukhona umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama amaningi.
Indlela ukuqaphela ua guy?
Okokuqala, umuntu angeke ngisho ukwazi esikuthandayo. Ezimweni eziningi, non-bendabuko ukubuqonda ngisho phakathi nenkathi yokuqhuma kobusha, kodwa ngokuvamile umuntu ungahlala ebumnyameni kuqhubeke isikhathi eside. Isinqumo sokugcina kungathinta omjwayele, le falling in love, eside ukucindezeleka lokuqala ezicindezelayo noma isikhathi eside.
Kuthiwani uma umfana ayithande guys? Nquma e namadoda angongqingili akulula kangako! Lokhu kungenzeka kuphela ngokususa imitha okuyisipesheli uyakwati kubona degree of inkanuko. Doctor-sexologist ebonisa imidwebo esibonisa izimbali, amadoda, abesifazane, futhi inquma isiguli kulokho izigaba ukuqhanyelwa. Thina psychoanalysts kukhona ukwamukelwa besikhathi eside, uma omunye libhekisela ubungqingili uphambene kakhulu, akufanele nokhishwe ngokuphelele kwababusi gay ezifihliwe. Cishe, lokhu umfana ukuziphatha kungaba uyaqaphela saxosha kusukela akuqaphelayo izintandokazi siqu.
Indlela liziphathe nentombazane abakhethiwe uma uyinkotshane?
Yiqiniso, ukuphoqelela lover wakhe ukuhlola ukuma we engenangqondo kakhulu, kodwa kuthiwani uma kuvela umfana ayithande guys? Okokuqala, ungakhohlwa, uma oyikhethile othile ohlangothini, nokuthi umuntu konke okunye namanje futhi indoda - kabusha ahlaziye ubuhlobo bakho. Ubulili ohlangothini - ke noma kunjalo ukungathembeki komuntu oshade naye. Uma ngemva kwalokho uthando lwakho ngokobulili kudamba, ubulili wazibonakalisa duty uyize leze, ngakho ethandekayo usekukhohliwe futhi ongatjhejisisiko ... Kungcono ukuhlala ngokuhlukana.
Ngenxa yethonya lezingane Amathrendi Western, eziningi Bakwethu zesifazane babé abaqotho ukuba asabele yokubakhona amadoda gay kwezokuzijabulisa, kodwa ukujwayela yokuthi kungase kube sengathi uhlamvu ekuphileni kwakhe siqu, kuba cishe engenakwenzeka! Nokho, amanye amantombazane Yonke iyafana kungenzeka ukuthi uyazibuza: 'Kuthiwani uma insizwa Ngiyakuthanda, abathanda guys? "
Okokuqala, ukuze ahlazise nsizwa, akudingekile ukuba ngiphikisane naye ukuthi ubungqingili - kuyinto isifo. Lapho umuntu uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi gay, kunzima kakhulu ukuba sibekezelele lo mbono, futhi okokuqala kungase kudingeke ukuqonda kwakho kanye nokwesekwa. Okwesibili, ungalokothi naye bamcela e wrongness, futhi bamshaya owenza yonke into ihlaya. Sizoba ukuthatha lolu lwazi kalula.
Kungenzeka yini ukwakha umkhaya nomuntu gay?
Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi yini okumele uyenze uma le nsizwa okuthandayo, njengoba kunjalo nangezinye guys, impendulo akulula kangako. Zama ukukhuluma naye ngendlela enomusa, cela mayelana isizathu iziphetho ezinjalo. Kodwa ungasoli guy futhi ubonise isimo sabo sengqondo ophambene isimo. Uma intombazane iba umngane oseduze naye indoda singamethemba ngokuphelele, khona-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubuhlobo bakho kungaba mnene nakakhulu futhi efudumele.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuqaphela ukuthi lokhu umfana kungenzeka udinga ukudala umndeni. Nokho, uma lowo kudala ke, kungenzeka kuphela ukugwema emphakathini nomphakathi futhi aqhubeke abathandi entsha. Ngokwesibonelo, kukhona uhlelo emhlabeni. Ongqingili, njengabo bonke abantu, futhi, ungase uthande izingane, kodwa owesifazane akekho kubo abakwazi ukwenza lokhu. Kuqondane ukuthi izitabane lokushada nowesifazane nezingane ngamabomu.
Isixazululo zezinkinga siqu yobungqingili
Manje asikhulume ngalokho okufanele ukwenze mayelana umfana uma bathandile guys kwakhe? Ekuqaleni, udinga ukwazi ukuthi uzodlala, yingakho uqalise. Kungenye into uma intsha akhangwa kakhulu amadoda kule nkampani, ngoba uyise ngizinake ke, noma zazingekho. Sekuyinto nesimo esihlukile lapho umfana esetshenziswa ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba ngu ubaba noma umama ilulaze Pope in phambi kobuso bendodana yakhe. Kuyini nakakhulu - othile zabantu abadala emdlwengula.
Ukuxhumana - isihluthulelo ebuhlotsheni
Khumbula, akufanele ukuhlukanisa ngokwayo, futhi ukuxhumana nomngane oseduze eyodwa kuphela. Qiniseka ukuvakashela nezinye izinkampani kanye nezindawo zomphakathi. Ukuxhumana nenkampani kwesokudla singancipha kancane kungaholela yokuthi imizwa nozakwenu kuyoncipha futhi mhlawumbe unesifiso sokuthola lokho ezisifundisa indlela yokwakha ubudlelwano kanye namantombazane.
Man - angumtfombo isixazululo inkinga
Uma uthinta isihloko umsebenzi lubucayi kakhudlwana wedwa, umuntu kumelwe yena ekuqaleni bafuna ukudalula umthombo izinkinga zabo futhi ushintsho. Udinga uzithole yomuntu eyokwenziwa ibe ukuba ziyakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nalolu ngenxa yokuntula kwenu ukuxhumana uyise, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nopapa kufanele babe nobuhlobo. Ngakho umeluleki angeke nje kube isihlobo, kodwa futhi abe umfundisi, noma ngisho umpristi. Into esemqoka ukuthi lo muntu akazange ukukulimaza.
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