Imicabango ngalokho igama elithi "umusa"

Abaku kakhulu ngisho nokuphathwa kwegama elithi "umusa" lifudumeza umphefumulo. Kwaba sengathi ilanga kwaphuma ngemuva ifu waphefumulela entwasahlobo. Okwakushiwo "umusa" ezijulile futhi enezici. Kulula ukuba okuhle - kubonakala efika kuqala. "Wenze okuhle ukuze kujabule abantu" - ukuthi is nalapho ingoma ethandwa, futhi lokho kulula: ukumamatheka, yabelana, nika, usizo - yilokho nawe futhi lunomusa. Nokho, ukuhlakanipha umusa ukungathembeli kubona ngokwabo izenzo, futhi kanjani nokuthi kungani zenzeka.

Okwakushiwo lucebe ye izwi "umusa" libhekisela nobuntu umuntu ngokomongo ekuphila nekutiphatsa, zigunyazwe umphakathi. Ukuphendula indawo ngokomzwelo kwenye, kanye nesidingo uthanda ukwenza okuhle elichaza kafushane nokubaluleka kokuba nomusa njengoba umqondo jikelele.

Thanda ngokwakho

I ubuhle wokuqala nomkhulu kunabo bonke - kuba umusa ngokwabo. Ukunakwa futhi izimpendulo azivumele ngokucacile ukuzwa abanye. Ingabe sicabanga okuhle nalowo obheka umhlaba kusukela isikhundla umfel 'ukholo? Promise umhlatshelo "konke abanye, kodwa mina angidingi lutho" has hhayi indalo, futhi amandla akhe okubhubhisa. Umuntu ongamthandi yena, esidabukisayo, futhi ngenxa yalokho yini umusa wangempela, bahlukunyezwa. Yini wayeyobanika kwabanye uma bengelutho ngaphakathi? Mhlawumbe umuntu onjalo ufuna ukuba okuhle, ngisho lizama ukukhiqiza umbono nabanomusa kwabanye, kodwa "uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena" alikho isikhundla, njengoba akuthathi uqobo.

Ubuso somusa

Iphutha uma umusa kubhekwa siwubuthakathaka uhlamvu, noma ngenye indlela - nokuvilapha ukucabanga. Zonke ujabule, akekho esiphazamisayo, futhi bebonke, "ayikho ibhizinisi lami ...". Spineless futhi pandering kubazali kulula ukuphonsa ithawula, ungagxambukeli, bamshaya indiva, ucabanga ngemiphumela "imfundo" yakhe. Ingabe inkonzo enhle zinikeza ezinganeni zabo? Umusa uphela lapho iqala ukunganakwa.

Abasiqondi kahle incazelo yegama elithi "umusa" futhi labo are jwayele ukuphoqelela imibono yakhe uwufanele ukuphila kwabanye. Omunye lifundisa nabo ukunamathela Christian njengeziyingxenye yohlu lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli, esesibili sifana "Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yemvelo ozalwa" isikhwama amathiphu emahlombe akhe, eyesithathu ezisheshayo unikele a senze njalo lapho ucelwa ukuba wenze njalo.

Enye - umusa sekukhomba. Kulesi umusa umuntu omuhle, futhi lokhu akukho ngozi. It yenzelwe ukuhlobisa master futhi bakhe njalo ekubaleni ukuqashelwa nenhlonipho. Lisho ukuthini igama elithi ukwenza izenzo ezinhle, uma akekho owaziyo ngakho? Okukha phezulu futhi fancifully ngokuhunyushwa okushiwo "umusa" ezingqondweni zabantu nge uhlobo uhlamvu sekukhomba.

Ingane encane owaziyo ngempela ukuthi umusa. Hhayi philosophizing, ezingeni imizwa. Kumnandi futhi okubi. Ngaso sonke isikhathi atshele umuntu omuhle ngempela kusuka umuntu ohamba emva imaskhi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kushintsha. Abadala ezingqubuzanayo imiyalezo, a ukungafani amazwi nezenzo kuholele sokungabaza ndoda omncane. Ukukhulela, uzama ukukhumbula noma kabusha bathola okushiwo "umusa".

Amandla umusa

Zonke eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi elula ngesikhathi esifanayo. Lalela uma ezinye ezimbi, ukuzwelana, seduze - kahle. Ungisize uma udinga usizo, futhi okuhle. Kodwa ingabe njalo kunesidingo? Ukuze baqonde futhi bazise, kudingeka emsebenzini ongokomoya futhi nenhliziyo ezwelayo. ukunakekelwa okungenasidingo kungaba yingozi. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba agqoke bese tie izicathulo zakhe - lena bakhathalela sabazali. Qhubekani nibekezelelana ingane ekhula, ukuba bamenzele lokho ukwenza isikhathi eside ngokwami - kuba elonakalisayo, "umusa", wayencisha ndoda omncane ithuba zikhule.

Umusa - iyona zokudala amandla, amandla lokusungula nothando. Uneziqu uyamvulela isandla sakhe, yena ikhanyisa komgwaqo, ke uphefumulela ekuphileni, Usenza sizole futhi aphulukise. Besisa eyenza abantu bajabule futhi kunikeza ugqozi. Elulele like a virus, komunye, futhi kuba igciwane wedwa, ububele nethemba. Futhi kanjani ukuba uqonde incazelo 'komusa ongafanelwe'?