Indlela athokozise bona ngokwabo kanye nabanye?

Isikhathi esining impela thina uvuke futhi unomuzwa wokuthi akunjalo, njengenjwayelo, ukuphila akumnandi, ukuya emsebenzini ungafuni isithombe esibukweni akajabuli nhlobo futhi ngandlela-thile wadumala lapho inhliziyo. Ngiyavuma ukuthi isimo sengqondo esinjalo ekuqaleni kosuku - ithemba ngokuphelele ongenayo injabulo! Yingakho kukhona izindlela indlela athokozise ngokwakho nabangani bakho, uma ufuna ngempela ukubasiza banqobe ukucindezeleka okuncane.

Iqiniso liwukuthi uma ubheka, isizathu isimo sakhe sengqondo esiphambene, ungakwazi bakhombe futhi uqede ngokushesha. Ake nje ichaze kulezo zici, usebenzisa okuyinto, usuke okuqinisekisiwe ukuzizwa kuqubule isibindi.

Eqinisweni, indlela yokukhulisa kwemizwa, kungcono ukusiza abangani (Yiqiniso, uma ngempela). Kudingeka kuphela sithathe ucingo, ubameme ukuvakashela noma iya ndawonye ukuze ujabule - nokudabuka yanyamalala. Abangani kusukela nje ezenziwe athokozise, kahle, noma, kanti okubi, vele ukusiza sokuphumula. Phela, ingabe khumbula ukuthi uma sibona intombi noma isoka in isimo esifanayo, baphuthuma wokutakula. Futhi comrades yakho uzokutshela ngokuphindwe ngekhulu, unganqikazi! Into esemqoka - hhayi ukuba zigcwale amanzi, ungaqali ukuzidabukela, ngoba kuphela eshubisa isimo. Khumbula ukuthi ukahle - kuba ezandleni zakho. Uma ungafuni, akukho muntu futhi akukho lutho azoshintsha ukuba le "Igagasi elilandelayo".

Nokho, kufanele futhi sazi ukuthi singaphila kanjani athokozise umngane, ukuze ukwazi ukumsiza. Ungathatha ucezu ushokoledi noma isiphuzo 'esiphundu kahle ukumphakamisa kwemizwelo, wehle ukuvakashela. Ngisho uma yena ohlezi ekudleni, awukudla kancane esikhathini esinjengalesi ngeke nje kuphela kukuzuzise. Hhayi lesikahle - utshwala. Ungakwazi get wathumba - noma into stupid, noma angene ku-isimo esibi. Futhi akungabazeki ukuthi utshwala umonakalo sisasebenza! Lokhu akufanele ilibaleke.

Uma ungazi indlela athokozise umngane, uze futhi ngixoxe naye. Khumbula ukuthi e Ngezikhathi ezinjalo azivamile ukuba ngedwa. Ngisho ingxoxo elula "mayelana lutho" kuzosiza ukudambisa isimo futhi sithuthukise neyengqondo.

Ake sicabangele izimpendulo zemibuzo amathiphu eziyisisekelo oluyokwenza odokotela bengqondo kulabo abantu abangakwazi ngokushesha ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo ucasukile :

1. Zama ukumomotheka wena esibukweni bese ugcine ukumamatheka e Ngemizuzwana. It ngempela eyenza digress kusukela imicabango emibi futhi athokozise.
2. Cabanga ukuthi ngemva kwenzekeni sekudlule iminyaka eminingi, bese uzama ukubheka konke ngamehlo ezahlukene. Nakanjani omunye: inkinga ngeke kubonakale kuyindaba engathí sina kangaka futhi kudabukisa. Ngakho kungani kube buhlungu manje, ngenxa yesimo samanje?
3. Indlela athokozise, kusiza umuntu ithuluzi efakazelwe: akufanele neze bacabange mayelana ezimbi. Khumbula ukuthi imicabango imizimba. Ngenxa kuphela limelela ezinhle, futhi ukuphila kuyoba ngcono ngokwayo.
4. kusiza Njalo ukuncokola, uma kungekhona ukuthi sisebenza kakhulu kunamanye hlengi. Ngaphandle nje kwalokho, amaphesenti ayikhulu.
5. Bheka indawo ekuzungezile: izwe ligcwele injabulo. Izinto ezinhle imvelo usinika, omkhulu ukuze izinkinga zethu uma eqhathaniswa naye - kuphela grey namatshana encane.

Omunye ongakhetha kungenzeka ukuthi ukuze bajabule up, uma kukhona akekho - ufuna ukuveza imizwa yabo ephepheni. Uma nje methodically ukubhala, ubuchopho sizoshintsha ngokuzenzakalela enye umsebenzi futhi kuzongena esikhundleni sokunye kahle yakho. Ungase futhi udwebe into nakho yakho, baveza kuye ku-umthambo engokomfanekiso noma satirical. Inqubo ngeke zikuphazamise, futhi umphumela kuyajabulisa.

Futhi kunezinye izindlela eziningi ukusiza okukhulu kuze bona ngokwabo kanye nabanye. Lena ingxenye encane nje kuphela wabo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi abantu baphelelwe ithemba izinhlobo yithemba. Ngakho aziphumi izinyembezi, kubalulekile ukubheka omuhle emzungezile. Futhi uthola it, uhlukile!