Indlela nentshisekelo indoda: iqoqo imithetho

Ngisho noma owesifazane ogqoka stylish, ezethemba, babe ukuzethemba, akusho ukuthi bonke baphenduke imbuqa bonkana ekuphileni kwakhe siqu, futhi uyakwazi ukuvusa isithakazelo indoda, ukuze ekugcineni bajabule. Indlela yokuthola eyiyona futhi uwine othandweni lwakhe?

Impendulo yalo mbuzo sisobala: udinga nje ukuthola indlela ukujabulisa indoda. Uma awela yithemba kusukela lo mkhandlu ke siphakamisa ukuthi uzijwayeze imithetho kuzokusiza ukuxazulula le nkinga.

Ngakho kuqala kukho konke ukuvusa isithakazelo indoda, kubalulekile ukuqonda into eyodwa: abesifazane futhi amadoda - khona abaningi polar, bona abafani nanoma yiziphi kwangaphandle nangekhatsi. Ngakho-ke, ukwazi ukuthi angamjabulisa kanjani wena, musa qiniseka ukuze omele wobulili obuhlukile kungafaniswa nokuthutha, kakhulu, kanye. Khumbula ukuthi stylish yakho (ucabanga) nentombi noma umthengisi wesifazane ezitolo imfashini ungase ubonakale samuntu ubuhle nomusa, futhi le ndoda Babukeka njengezihlahla phezu izidalwa engenangqondo. Into esemqoka - musa ukulalela iseluleko womuntu (ikakhulukazi labo nezintombi), bese zonke uthola. Futhi thina kuzokusiza kule ngokunikeza uhlu ezinye imithetho, indlela yokuvusa isithakazelo indoda. Basuke bonke bahlanganiswe esisodwa: "iphisi-inyamazane." Hunter - yebo, yena, kahle, isisulu - wena. Futhi hhayi ngomqondo ongokoqobo. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuthi indoda uthanda ukunqoba, futhi lona wesifazane kumelwe bazinikele kuye lelo thuba. Ngakho:

1. Into yokuqala kufanele sinake owesifazane - kungcono ukubukeka. Kufanele kube ezikhangayo komunye oyikhethile. Abesilisa uthande ngamehlo abo, futhi lokho - eqinisweni. Phela ungabona ocebile emhlabeni kwangaphakathi, uma owesifazane akanandaba? Wavele ngeke ukhulume futhi abaqondi inhlangano yakho ezicashile ngemilingo ofihla ezicashe a "grey igundane". Nokho, into esemqoka lapha - ungathathi ngamawala. Khumbula ukuthi owesifazane ebukekayo - lokhu akulona umuntu ngendlela engahlanzekile noma antule ukuzithiba. La madoda sengqondo esinjalo, futhi ungakhethi lezi ukuba nobuhlobo obungathi sina. Ngakho, ukubukeka - kungokuthile ezingaba kube nentshisekelo indoda lapho uwubona okokuqala. Futhi lapha isizotha nento okufanele kuvumelane ubuhle nokuyenga. Khona-ke umuntu ofuna ukujabulisa owesifazane kanje ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi niyixazulule, isikhathi ngasinye ekutholeni izici ezithakazelisayo.
2. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi amadoda sengathi nabesifazane abangabafundi abakhuthele njengabesifazane, hhayi wesilisa. Okungukuthi, owesifazane kufanele abe ummeleli wobulili fair kweqiniso. Ngakho impendulo yombuzo indlela kuthakazelise ndoda kuleli cala yikhono ukuba ababaze ukuvelela ababuthakathaka futhi njalo ukuze amandla umlingani. Udinga amsize ezimnandi, akuvikele. Futhi lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ukuze isinyathelo lalivela kuye. Futhi umsebenzi wakho - ukubonga ngobuqotho futhi bahlonipha ukuhlakanipha kwakhe. Kubalulekile ngobumnene ukunikeza indoda ukuqonda ukuthi ngaphandle-ke usuke elahlekile futhi ungalilinganisi nazo zonke lezi ubunzima emhlabeni. Kodwa ukukwenza Akubalulekile njalo asesebenzisa izinyembezi. Uma ulifunda njalo, indoda nje bakhathala ukuziphatha kwakho, futhi ngeke uthole omunye.
3. Umthetho wesithathu okukhulunywa unesithakazelo kumuntu, ukuthi awukwazi ibe ngufakazi ukuthi ukwehluleka kwakhe noma miss. Ngisho noma kwenzeka, lokumjabulisa amazwi anjengokuthi "wena yingcweti kahle, okungenani angizange kwenzeke."
4. Ungakhulumi ngalo nalo muntu imali, mayelana nomholo wakhe amancane namathuba okuncane. Une ubunyoninco kuye, hhayi imali yakhe - ke izipho ezibizayo kanye Villas ukunethezeka aqinisekisiwe. Nqoba ubumsulwa umphefumulo wakhe, ngoba edinga kakhulu.
5. Ungabi Ayindida kakhulu futhi engaqondakali: khuluma ngqo mayelana izicelo kanye izintandokazi zabo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma uthanda igolide, isiliva, kungcono ukuba amtshele kanye ke ukuba kwakungafanele ukuthukwa engenangqondo imishwana enjengethi, "Awuzange uqonde ke?".

Futhi ekugcineni, ake sithi ukuthi umdlalo muhle kuphela kuze kube iphuzu. Yakha ubudlelwano - kuyikhono futhi yilowo nalowo kithi owaziyo ukuthi bathole ukuthi iyiphi inkambo efanele Lezinyathelo ngokwabo. Iba nguwe, futhi aphumelele!