Ukuze ukuthi ungakwazi uthande intombazane?

Uthando - umuzwa elasiqhubela abaprofethi bakwa esidlule nezamanje ukwenza le migilingwane. Futhi esikhathini esizayo, cishe, kancane zizoshintsha! Ukuze ukuthi ungakwazi uthande intombazane ukuze ngokoqobo "cisha ezintabeni '?

Wonke umuntu ejwayelene izinkondlo Pushkin ezizinikezele ukuba Anna Kern, lyrics Jim Morrison (umholi "The Doors"), asivulela intombi yakhe Pamela Courson. No kancane eyaziwa futhi ukubaza ngu Rodin, ukudalwa elaphefumulelwa Kamilla Klodel. Futhi zabalingiswa Salvador Dali? Iningi lazo nje kwakungeke, aliveli esaphila Gala. Kuyini ekhetheke kangaka ngalezi abesifazane? Ukuze ukuthi ungakwazi uthande intombazane force anjalo? Futhi kungase kube, amantombazane nabesifazane, lawa kwakungamadodana ezivamile? Kodwa amadoda bakwazi ukuthola kuzo okuthile okukhethekile? Cishe, impendulo zale mibuzo ngeke zisinike ubani. Kodwa abafana Namuhla abaningi, abafana ucela ngokwabo umbuzo ofanayo: "? Yini oyithandayo intombazane". Futhi ake uzame ukuphendula! Iqiniso, singahle hhayi ukuchaza. Kodwa kungani kwakungadingeka ungazami ke?

Omunye ethi uyabathanda intombazane yakhe ubuhle. Kodwa ukuthi cishe ngingenalo uthando, nje nomuntu ozozwelana nami, uthando. Nobuhle kungaba enchant ekuqaleni, lapho umqondo "ngamathumba". Kodwa ubuhle okwengeziwe kungaba kwalokho nice kuya nezinye izici 'ladylove ". Kodwa amantombazane, Nokho, avame ukuba enhle, kumnyama kubomvu. Lapha, ubuhle bavame bona ukufana kwamazwi amamodeli ifilimu umdlali waseshashalazini. Kodwa le nsizwa enhle kakhulu kungase kubonakale ukuthi intombazane njengenkulumo "gqamisa". Ngokwesibonelo, nekhala elimile noma isifaca esihlathini.

Abanye bathi, umbuzo lokho ongakwazi ukumthanda intombazane ukuthi imbangela uthando lwabo - Ubuhlobo yemiphefumulo. Futhi ngakho kuba eduze iqiniso. Nokho, umqondo wegama elithi "nokuzwelana" zonke ukubeka ngomqondo ohlukile. Kwabanye kunzima - azithandayo. Kwabanye - inkolelo ethile kulokhu nomunye nokulangazelela ukuba balondoloze injabulo futhi usizi.

Abanye bangambiza imbangela uthando intombazane ngobulili bakhe. Kodwa-ke kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ayibalulekile. Phela, bangaki ngokumangalisayo sexy abesifazane ahlale yedwa?

Kodwa uma zonke izizathu ngenhla azilona iqiniso, bese lokho ongakwazi ukumthanda intombazane ngempela?

Yebo, cishe, hhayi noma yini ethize. Phela uthando - ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ekwenzeni izinto ezingenangqondo ngokuphelele. Futhi, mhlawumbe, akumangalisi bathi uma umuntu uyazi yini ayithandayo ke ngingenalo uthando, kodwa okuthile okuhlukile ngokuphelele.

Strictly ukukhuluma, uyini umehluko, ngoba nithanda intombi; njalo yona wena? Into esemqoka ukuthi leyo mizwa!

Kodwa-ke abantu abaningi abangalawuleki abahlulwa umbuzo omusha: "Indlela ukuhlola intombazane uthando?". Isikhathi esining impela, lolu daba siphathelene labo bantu, nganoma isiphi isizathu sokungabaza ngobuqotho imizwa darling. Abanye babo bacabanga ukuthi ukuthi "uthando" yemali yakhe noma isikhundla emphakathini. Futhi umuntu nje hhayi pathologically beqiniseka. Yini angayenza kulesi simo?

Ungakwazi ukuhlela amasheke, podsylaya intombazane ukuvusela abanye imizwa yothando nabangani bakho, noma ukuqasha umphenyi ozimele oye wacwaninga ukuphila kwakhe konke. Futhi ungakwazi nje ukuzola. Futhi ukuba uzazi kahle wena futhi ubuhlobo bakho. Eqinisweni, uma isilwane sakho okunakekelayo nokumele uma ugula, ubuza umbono wakho (hhayi kuphela ukubukeka, kodwa ngempela) ulalela kuye, nentshisekelo yakho yokuphila amagugu futhi izimisele ukufeza nawe ngangokunokwenzeka - imizwa yakhe, okungenzeka iyiqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlolwa ecophelelayo ngokweqile ungase nje ubuhlungu obukhulu wakhe. Futhi ukwenza sokungabaza ukuthi sasingekho isidingo sokuba ubuhlobo nawe.

Khona-ke kukuhlupha omunye umbuzo: "Indlela ukugcina ubuhlobo nentombazane?". Futhi lapha ngeke ukuhlola! Kodwa le ntombazane owoniwe angase ningathetheleli amasheke, nijabhise ngoba wakhe!

Thanda nomunye futhi ujabulele mzuzu ngamunye wachitha ndawonye! Futhi ukuphila ezohlela konke endaweni yayo!