IzAga ngomunye nomunye, noma kanjani ukufundisa ingane imithetho yaleli ubungani?

Abazali kufanele uqonde: zinikeza siqonda nokuthi ikusasa liyoba ukuthi ingane yabo. Futhi akulona izipho, izingubo noma esikoleni. okubalulekile Okuningi, yini nezindinganiso zokuziphatha nezingokomoya, bazokwazi ukugxilisa Chad yakhe. Phela, zizoba ukuthi inkanyezi eziqondisayo ngeke ulahleke kubo hhayi imvuthu esikhathini esizayo.

Iphuzu elibalulekile ekukhulisweni kwengane ukuthi inikeze ulwazi mayelana nobungane. Phela, ubudlelwano nomphakathi - kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Ngiyavuma, kunzima ukucabanga ingane ujabule ngubani ngokuphelele elingenalo ungakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye. Ngakho udinga ukufundisa ingane yakho kanjani ngendlela efanele ukwakha ubudlelwano zisencane nabanye. Futhi isisho mayelana nomunye mahle le njongo.

Kungani izingane unesizungu?

I enkulisa Kulula kakhulu ukwenza abangane, ngoba ngalesi sikhathi, iningi lezingane musa sinake izingubo, isimo sabo emphakathini, ubudala nokunye. Kodwa nge ushintsho esikoleni zonke izinguquko kakhulu.

Ukubusa nazi imithetho okuhluke kakhulu, futhi labo abangalwazi nabo, ngokushesha bazithola phakathi "losers." Lezi zingane - efana iqhude elimhlophe, into engenamsebenzi ungakujabulisi. Kodvwa lokubuhlungu nakakhulu wukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ziba khona isisulu esilula nalabo abafuna ukukhulisa yabo isimo sabo emphakathini, nijabhise abanye.

Ngemva kwalokho ingane esizingelwayo kuba likhishwa, uqala ukufunda izinkinga, kanye nokholo abantu uyafa nsuku zonke. Indlela yokugwema kuso? Kungcono ukufundisa ingane le mithetho engabhaliwe emphakathini kusukela ekuqaleni, ukuthi, ukushaya iqembu elisha, angayinqoba kalula umjoyine. Futhi ukuze basize kule, njengoba Corny kungase kuzwakale, amazwi ezivamile eziphathelene nabangane.

Kungani usebenzisa izaga?

Ngakho, inkinga izingane avaliwe kuyinto bayazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani esimweni esithile ukuthi musa. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka kusukela zisencane ingane ukuchaza eziyisisekelo imithetho zokuxhumana, okuncike ukuhloniphana nokwethembana.

Indlela ekahle ukuze kufinyelelwe lo mgomo bangaba isaga ngomngane. Kunezizathu eziningana:

• Okokuqala, okuqukethwe kwabo inikeza i siqonde Psychology ubudlelwano. Phela, zonke saga - mthetho kancane, okubonisa izimiso zobungane. Ngokwesibonelo, "walahlekelwa, bese ugcine umngane wakho."
• Okwesibili, izaga ngokuvamile aqukethe nowodwa umusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukugcina kwabo ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu.
• Okwesithathu, ukusetshenziswa abantu art ngeke kuphela ukuthuthukisa ulwazi ingane, kodwa futhi basize ukuthuthukisa ikhono lakhe lokusungula.

Imithetho eyisisekelo ubungani

Manje asikhulume ngobungane iningi Imigomo esekelwe phezu kwayo kusekelwe. Kodwa kumelwe siyaqonda ukuthi uma umuntu omdala kubonakala kakhulu wathi iqiniso elula, ukuthi ingane ehlathini elimnyama. Ngakho-ke, sonke isikhathi uyinqaba wayedinga ukuchaza kahle, bese kuphela uqhubekele esilandelayo.

Asiqale izisekelo ubungani, okungukuthi ukwethemba. Kakade, ubani kungakwenza abangane nalabo abangakwazi kukho? Kuthiwani ngenye isisho ingasetshenziswa njengesibonelo?

1. "Omunye kubo bonke futhi bonke ngenxa yesizathu esisodwa" - ilungele izingane yanoma yimuphi yobudala, njengoba kusolakala kalula.
2. "Abekho abangani - sesha, thola - anakekele."
3. Futhi, isibonelo esihle ukuba usho, "Umngane endala emisha engaphezu kwemibili."

Khona-ke kudingeka uchaze ukuthi ingane ukuthi ubungane kusekelwe nokuhloniphana. Ngaphandle-ke, ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle ngeke zisebenze. Amazwi alandelayo ngabangane afaneleka isibonelo.

1. "UGus ingulube akuyona umngane" - okungukuthi, ingabe uyazama hhayi umngane nomuntu ongafuni ke.
2. "Hay umlilo akuyona friendly" - esinye isifaniso, eqinisekisa isitatimende odlule.
3. Namanje kukhona isisho esithi: ". Umngani engcono usenkingeni akusho baphonse" It silula, kodwa kubonisa ukuthi izinto eziyisisekelo ubungani. Kudingeka nokuba achazele ingane ukuthi uma umngane bakhe bemdumaza futhi, bese cishe, ke kuzophindwa esikhathini esizayo.

Kungani kubalulekile ukuba ube nabangane?

Phakathi nokuqeqeshwa, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ubuza umbuzo wokuzihlola inkanuko: "? Kungani sidinga abangane" Kubalulekile kakhulu okwamanje hhayi ulahleke futhi asinikeza impendulo ecacile, ngakho izinyane yonke into ngendlela efanele.

Lokhu kuzosiza bonke izaga efanayo nomunye. Ngokwesibonelo:

• "Yeka kanzima ke elihlekayo abangane."
• "Ngisho bee esheshayo uju wedwa kakhulu akufanele Umqeqeshi."
• "Omunye isandla akusho zavyazhesh engeyokuqala."
• "Umhlambi Ndawonye kanye impisi ezimbi akuyona ezimbi."

Ngomqondo onabile, inkulumo umphumela izibonelo ezinjalo kungaba kakhulu. Kodwa nonke - ngaphandle abangane akunakwenzeka behlala ngenjabulo ukuphila kwabo. Futhi ukuze okungenhla kumane kangcono wafika engqondweni yengane, sebenzisa it njengoba esinye isibonelo kulokhu, izithombe izinhlamvu ezimaphakathi esithandayo. Phela, ukubona ngeso ezinjalo ngeke kakhulu lula inqubo imfundo yengane yakho.