Kuyini Hostess? Ukuqamba amanga mayelana nomsebenzi

Ngokwandisa, kumawebhusayithi nasemaphephandabeni mayelana nomsebenzi, ungabona izikhangiso mayelana nesithuba "umsizi". Luhlobo luni lokuthunyelwe yilokho nokuthi luyithini? Ngamafuphi, umsizi womsebenzi uyisisebenzi sokudlela noma isikhungo se-cafe esihlangana nezivakashi - "umnikazi wehholo" no "ubuso" besikhungo. Ngokuvame kakhulu kule posi ngamantombazane. Bangabokuqala ukuhlangabezana nezivakashi, bahambisane nabo etafuleni, basize ukuba baqonde imenyu bese bakhetha umyalo, njll. Ngamanye amazwi, badlala indima yabamakekeli bokungenisa izihambi futhi benze konke ukwenza izivakashi zizizwe zikhululekile kakhulu.

Abantu abaningi abaqondi ngokugcwele ukuthi yini umsikazi, futhi bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi lo msebenzi uhlotshiswe ngokungahambi kahle nobufebe. Kodwa lo mqondo ongalungile ngokuphelele. Uma lesi sikhungo sihlonishwa futhi sihlonishwa, ngakho-ke akukho mbuzo wezingxabano "zokungcebeleka". Konke okudingekayo kwentombazane ukubukeka kuhle, ukumomotheka, ube nobungane futhi ube nomphakathi. Yiqiniso, ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele aqonde ngokuphelele uhlu lwemenyu newayini, qaphela konke okwenziwa yi-restaurant, uqondise ngobuhlakani abalindi futhi uqaphele, ulawule umyalelo ehholo. Futhi kuyinto efiselekayo ukwazi okungenani ulimi olulodwa lwangaphandle, ngoba ezindaweni zokudla noma ezinkundleni zamabhayisikili, ezingakwazi ukugcina abasebenzi basezifundisini zobuchwepheshe, ngokuvamile kunomuntu ongathandayo.

Futhi, umsebenzi we-hostess uvame ukudideka nokusetshenziswa. Uyini umehluko? Okungenani ukuthi abathengi baxoxisana nesimenywa esithile futhi bathola iphesenti le-booze eliyalile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-"cons" iyinkampani yokudansa kakhulu. Umsizi womkhaya akawenzi lokho. Futhi ngisho noma omunye wezimenywa amphatha ngesiphuzo, ngeke athole isithakazelo. Futhi ezinhlanganweni eziningi ezihloniphekile zalesi sigaba, abasebenzi abavunyelwe ukuphuza utshwala. Ngemuva kwalokho, uyini umnakekeli? Empeleni ungumlawuli okufanele enze konke futhi alawule konke. Esikhundleni sokudakwa ngeke kube lula. Eqinisweni, umsikazi wesifazane uyisikhundla esiphethe kahle. Kuncike ekutheni isivakashi sizohlangana kanjani nokuthi sizosizwa kanjani, kuxhomeke ukuthi lo muntu uba isivakashi esivamile salesi sikhungo noma cha.

Futhi yimuphi umsizi ogesi ehhotela? Cishe into efanayo nendawo yokudlela nasebusuku. Umehluko kuphela wukuthi ihhotela "umsizi", lapho ehlangene nezivakashi, abahambisa kuzo izinombolo, ngokuhlela ngokuhlakanipha isevisi. Nguye oza kuqala ekusizeni, uma izivakashi zinenkinga noma ukungezwani. Uma kunesidingo, uzokhipha amathikithi wezivakashi endaweni ephuthumayo, uhlele izinkambo ngeziqondiso zokuqondisa, bhala itekisi. Uma ihhotela linendawo yokudlela, khona-ke umnakekeli ulandelela uhlelo lokufinyelela lalezo zivakashi, okudla okukhokhwe kakade.

Kodwa hhayi emhlabeni kuphela kunomsebenzi onjalo. Kuyini umsikazi ogibeleyo? Eqinisweni, ungumphathi ofanayo, kodwa futhi uchwepheshe owedlula "umphathi" osezingeni eliphezulu. Ngaphezu kokusatshalaliswa kokudla nokuphuza kanye nokuchazwa kwemithetho yokuziphatha ebhodini, "umnikazi wendawo yokuhlala" we-liner kufanele akwazi ukuhlinzeka ngosizo lokuqala, ugcine umyalelo kulesi sikhungo, azi izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, abagibeli abazolile ezimweni eziphuthumayo, abaqondise ngobuhlakani umsebenzi wabasebenzi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala sengathi umsebenzi we-hostess akayinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Kubonakala sengathi kungaba lula kunanoma yikuphi ukubuka okuhle, ukuxhumana nabantu nokuthola imali? Kodwa noma yimuphi umdanso unenkinga. Kuhle, uma usuku lokusebenza ludlula ngaphandle kokudlula, kodwa isici somuntu namanje asikakhanseliwe. Uma ungeke ucindezeleke, ungazi kanjani "ukuxazulula" izimpikiswano ngokuthula, khona-ke ungaqiniseka: enyangeni noma emibili (noma ngisho nangaphambili) uzonikezwa ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa. Uma "izinto ezincane" ezinjalo zingesabisi nhlobo, khona-ke wamukeleke kulo msebenzi omusha.