Kuyini ukubhula unezinduku na?

Sekungamakhulu amaningi eminyaka, abantu njalo bakhangwa imfihlakalo futhi lomkhuba engaqondakali. Imibuzo ukuthi abakwazi ukuthola izimpendulo bebelokhu ixazululwe ubuthakathi nokubhula. Kungenzeka engokwesayensi, kodwana mhlawumbe iqiniso langempela, kodwa umqondo ukuthi abantu ngizibuza, futhi uzoqhubeka ukukwenza. Ziningi ezihlukahlukene izindlela sokubhula, ezinye zazo zichazwe lesi sihloko. Lezi zihlanganisa: ukubikezela inamathela eziyinkimbinkimbi ukubhula, inhlanhla izingane futhi elinamanzi amaningi nenala abanye.

Ukuqagela induku - indlela ukuthola izimpendulo zayo yonke imibuzo ejulile, nesuka emakhulwini eminyaka adlule e-England. Ngu le ndlela lokubhula esetshenziswa kuphela uma kwenzeka ukuthi cishe kwakuyihora udaba kubaluleke kakhulu.

Ukuze isiko kudingeka izinduku ekhethekile noma Amahlumela ahlukile ngobukhulu - kwenza umehluko inqubo lokubhula. Zintathu izinto kumele kube ezifana uqondane umunwe kancane womuntu. Ezinye izindaba zika-iqoqo izinti yokubhula kumelwe kuvumelane izilinganiso umunwe womuntu phakathi. Uma unethalente konke, ungaqala kumnandi.

Kuyadingeka ukubeka induku thickest, okuzoba indlovukazi, phansi. Ngemva eduze amehlo akho. Manje, ukuthatha zonke izinduku okungenzeka unayo ezandleni zakho, kanye nesithupha kuwo, you khumbula udinga ukubuza umbuzo. Ngemva nokujikijela izinti ezinhlanu kuya phansi. I isiko uphelele. Manje kubalulekile ulichaze. Omunye uthi, kusezandleni, ukukhetha okunengqondo. Ngenxa yalokho, phansi kuyoba eside nofana isikhathi esifitjhani izinduku noma eside. izinti iDemo kusho "cha" embuzweni wakho, eside, esikhundleni salokho, amelela "yebo." Yilokho ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukubuza amabutho engaziwa futhi uthole impendulo.

Ukuqagela induku kungabangela uhleko phakathi abagxeki, kodwa abantu abaningi basikisela ukuthi zonke bacela kwagcwaliseka. Lokhu kwenza le ndlela lokubhula eyodwa yezindlela elula yokuxhumana namabutho engaziwa. Ukuqagela induku Akudingi amakhambi akhethekile noma iziphonso, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuyiqonda.

Inxanxathela ukubhula izinti uwuphawu imigca ephepheni. Ngemva kwalokho, wonke Amabha ziyasuswa ngendlela ethize, futhi nenombolo esisele zahumusha.

Ukuqagela ku izinti, ukubaluleka inqubo

Phakathi ukubhula yakho izinti noma amathambo angawa e inhlanganisela ezahlukene. Ukuze amabutho engaziwa wanikeza impendulo naitochneyshy kufanele uhunyushwe yi awile kahle. Impendulo ithi "yebo", kuzoba umcimbi ukuthi iningi ngeke baphume izinduku ezinde. Uma ubude ingaphansi esifushane, impendulo "akekho." Ngenxa yalokho lokubhula kungaba izenzakalo ezingaqondakali ngempela. Ngokwesibonelo, uma yonke imikhawulo izinduku bheka kolunye uhlangothi kusukela main, "Queen", kulesi simo, zonke izinkinga zakho eyoxazululwa ngokwabo. Uma amathambo abalale nomunye, kuyokusiza ekuxazululeni izinkinga. Uma uhlangabezana ukwahluka eziyinqaba, kungcono ukuba baphonse die futhi nge umbuzo ofanayo.

Ukuze leyo eye yabuthana ngaleyo ndlela uthole izimpendulo zemibuzo yakho, kukhona amathiphu ambalwa. Okokuqala, ungayisebenzisi ukubhula inamathela izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, kanye ngosuku tando suffice. Kungenjalo kungase ethukuthela amabutho futhi ngeke ukunikeza impendulo eqondile. Okwesibili, kufanele ngeke ukholwe abakushoyo izinti, njengoba lokhu ukuqagela nje, futhi ungakwazi ukulalela, kodwa kufanele ohlakaniphile akamane akholelwe indlela enjalo. Ngokuvamile, kuyafaneleka ukuthi yikuphi ukubhula - okungukuthi, okokuqala kunakho konke, self-hypnosis. Endoda ngokwayo izinhlelo impumelelo noma ukwehluleka, nokubhula nje izenzo kulethe ukwamukelwa of izinqumo, futhi okubaluleke kuleli cala - ukwazi kusho segolide phakathi nokubhula ingqondo.