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Ubudlelwane obufanele kuthomba

ubudlelwane obufanele kuthomba Kwakhiwa esikhathini sezinguquko yabo psycho-ngokomzwelo. Ubusha libhekene ukuqedwa imithetho ngaphambilini osungulwe yokuziphatha nasekutholeni izici ezintsha kanye nokuthuthukiswa komphakathi. Ingane iqaphela bengabakaJehova izwe abantu abadala, nokwandisa imingcele umphakathi, kukhona ukuqaphela ngomuntu siqu nangenkonzo komuntu "Mina", self-actualization iqala.

Zonke lezi kabusha in the psyche futhi izitho zomzimba kwentombazane waphoqeleka ukuthi ashintshe isimo sengqondo kontanga kanye nabantu abadala. ubudlelwane obufanele kuthomba kule nkathi zisekelwe izinto eziningi.

Sekuyisikhathi eside kungase kutholakale ukuthi ukwakheka "self-umqondo" futhi self-ungubani, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo kubaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni isakhiwo phakathi intsha, ukudlala indima ebalulekile ubudlelwane obufanele umndeni wengane. Yizici ezibalulekile komphakathi kwengane: izinga lemfundo usizi olungapheli kubazali, imisebenzi yabo, isimo ngokwengqondo umndeni, ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo, njll Zonke lezi zici abangazazi kusuka ebuntwaneni kusengaphambili ukuthi indlela yokuphila komntwana. Ngaphansi kwethonya lezi zici, kanye ubuhlobo ingane imfundo yayo nezinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni ne ibhukumaka. On the ukuthuthukiswa siqu wengane kangakanani, kuthonywa kakhulu ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali. Ngemibono ukuziphatha kwabo bese ukopishwa ngokuphelele lapho ukwakha ubudlelwane obufanele entsheni. Uma isimo umndeni okungekuhle, abazali phikisana, ayikwazi ukuthola ulimi olufanayo, noma abazali - yotshwala, yezidakamizwa, ukuthi afakwa esikhathini esizayo ngomntwana musha.

Kodwa ngisho imindeni emphakathini, kusiza, imfundo angaya bacondze etindzaweni letehlukene. Uma umndeni wengane ayinakho amalungelo, nokuziphatha yayo ilawulwa imithetho futhi enqabela, bese ikhule ingane Limp, ukungabi isinyathelo, kugcugcutela isidalwa akukwazi ilungu agcwele umphakathi. Kwelinye icala, lapho umndeni intando yeningi ke umntwana angakwazi ukuzimela, sikwazi ukwenza izinqumo eziphusile futhi uthathe isinyathelo womuntu.

ubudlelwane okusebenzisana amantombazane izinhlamvu ziqala ukwakheka ngeenqhema yokuzithandela (abangane) noma ezakhiwe abadala (ezikoleni, amakilabhu, njll). Ithimba, njengoba umthetho, aqale ukuze sibonakalise izimfanelo siqu bonke abantu, futhi uma iqembu yakhiwa ukungalingani isimo senhlalo kanye nenhlalakahle ngezinto ezibonakalayo izingane, ingxabano iqala. Ithimba is zihlukaniswe ngamaqembu enamalungu izinto abazijabulelayo (ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokwakhayo). Ngakho, ngokuvamile, ekilasini kukhona iqembu asocial ukwehla wenyuka intsha alkogoliziruyutsya, intuthu futhi babonakalise izici yokuziphatha ezihlanekezelwe. Kukhona amakilasi namaqembu lamantombazane asemasha ngubani athandwa nabobulili obuhlukile, bavame ukuba yashesha ukuthuthukiswa ngokobulili futhi zithambekele kukhangisa "yokuba umuntu omdala." Indlela ababeziphethe ngayo libhekene ukungabi zehlazo, izingubo egqamile futhi izimonyo. La mantombazane zifunda ezimbi, ungabeki imigomo ukuyothola imfundo noma ukuba abe ilungu egcwele umphakathi.

Kukhona iqembu futhi intsha zihlukaniswa ukuziphatha kwabo ongaphakeme, ductility, ngokuvamile baba yizisulu amaqembu utshwala nentsha ingafaneleki. Njengomthetho, lawa izingane oziphatha njalo ezilungisiwe enqabelo sabazali. Ngokuvamile ukuzenyeza, basuke ivaliwe futhi taciturn, ekuhambeni iyagula koxhumana naye nontanga.

ubudlelwane okusebenzisana amantombazane iyinkimbinkimbi inqubo khuphela izici eziningi, kodwa indima ebaluleke kunazo zonke kule nqubo kungokwalabo ubuhlobo komzali nengane emkhayeni.

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