Ubunzima uthando kuqala

Oh, lolu thando! Bangaki nobunzima iletha indoda ngothando. Abangaphezu kwesigamu kubo bonke abantu emhlabeni babe umuzwa wokuthanda umuntu afe esemncane. Othile lokho kwenzeka ngaphambi, kuyilapho abanye - kamuva. Nokho, kukhona cishe kuzo zonke ngumuntu uhlelo olulodwa. Lo mfana wahlangana intombazane, bayibuza ukuthandana. Khona-ke bobabili wagijima elandela ilanga. Uma konke njalo kwenzeka ukuthi indlela! Nokho, ezinye izingane kanye nabantu abasha ezifana labo ungaphenduli nabo ukubuya. Ngakho kukhona uthando unrequited. Ubunzima uthando lokuqala lizoba ukwazana nabantu. Zonke kwenzeke okokuqala. Abaningi bakhononda ukuthi kunzima bavume uthando lwakhe intombazane noma umfana. Kunoma ikuphi, uthando - kulolu vivinyo esithile esenzeka ekuphileni wonke umuntu. Wayemane ukudabula futhi wenze yakho konke lokhu uhlobo oluthile esiphethweni.

Ubunzima thanda ukuhlola ochwepheshe emhlabeni wonke. Ngokuvamile, welithi "uthando" nelithi "uthando" is akukaqondakali ngokugcwele. Ngokuvamile, abacwaningi basikisela ukuthi kukhona uthando e esigabeni sokuqala ubudlelwane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo umzimba othandweni nomuntu umuntu uqala ukukhiqiza intoxicant ethile. Kufana utshwala nezidakamizwa. Umthelela kulo muntu kuzo zonke izimo ezifanayo kakhulu. Lezi ochwepheshe izithako okuthiwa ama-amphetamine. Kwakungengenxa ukuthi kunomuntu okuthiwa yabo, noma kunalokho, ukuthi umzimba womuntu kuphela angakhiqiza kubo. Nokho, eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, ososayensi baye zathola ekhethekile, owawuthi inani amphetamine emzimbeni komuntu uthando lukhula nsuku zonke. Nokho, lapho kuziwa kuyisikhathi esibucayi. Inani la izinto kuphele ukwandisa, abantu aqala ukuqaphela e amaphutha akhe akhethwe kanye nokushiyeka ngaphambili nje akazange athathe. Phakathi nale nkathi, abantu abasanda kufa bayasazi konke okwenzeka kubo okwamanje. Baphetha ngokuthi, bese noma nihlukane noma uqhubeke nobuhlobo babo. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi uthando.

Ubunzima uthando kuqala nokutholakala yabo kuncike ngokuyinhloko ezinye zezici eziyinhloko. Lokhu reciprocity, ukwamukelwa abanye, ukwamukelwa abangane nezihlobo. Isici sokuqala, okungukuthi, reciprocity iyona into ebaluleke kakhulu kulolu hlu. Uma leyo mizwa mutual, intsha nezingane Kulula kakhulu ukwakha ubuhlobo nomunye. Ziyakwazi ivulekele ababamele. Uma lezi ubudlelwano vumela abangane, abangane, izingane ezingaphezu enamathiselwe nomunye. Bahambe inkampani eyodwa, ukwabelana izithakazelo zabo, futhi babe into entsha, ebalulekile esikhathini esizayo. Uma choice lokuqala amantombazane amabili, isibonelo, ayigunyazelwanga abazali babo nezinye izihlobo abazama zonke izinhlobo izindlela zokunqanda ubuhlobo elide, uthando Kuyozwakala iyinkinga enkulu. Banezingane enjalo kufanele akhumbule ukuthi simelana futhi bephika ingane ukuhlangana labo abathandayo, bangakwazi isimo sibe sibi nakakhulu. Uma lezi ubudlelwano kungukuthi kusongela ukuphila kwezingane, kungcono ukuthatha isihlalo emuva, ukwenza abangane nendodakazi yabakhethiweyo, isibonelo, bese ubuka ngentuthuko kusuka uhla close. Ubunzima uthando ngokuyinhloko ngokusebenzisa lezi zici. Abakwazi sinendima ebalulekile ezimpilweni zabo.

Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ngokuvamile uthando wokuqala kuphela sokuvalelisa. Kungenxa omunye amaqembu kungenzeka kakhulu. Esimweni esinjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ngokusekelwa abangane nabathandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuchaza kumuntu ukuthi ukuphila ayikapheli, ayeyithole yakhe uthando lweqiniso futhi bajabule. Nokho, izinkinga eziningi uthando kuqala abangelutho. Lezi abalingani ungaphila kulempilo ngesandla, futhi noma yiziphi izithiyo abawona esabe. Abantu abasha ungathola nokushada. Kodwa, njengoba umkhuba imibukiso, amaphesenti ayisishiyagalolunye imishado enjalo sokudiliza ngokushesha. Isizathu siwukuthi abantu nje-sikhule lezi ubudlelwano, futhi uthando kuqala jikisa abavamile ubungani, uthando. Kulesi simo, abalingani kuphela bayakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obusha nomunye. Kuphakathi kokuthi kuphele ukuxhumana nhlobo, noma babe abangane kakhulu.

Ubunzima uthando kuqala futhi uhlala e izinkumbulo zabantu for a lifetime. ngezikhathi ezithile Cishe wonke umuntu uyakhumbula sikhathi.