Vilena. Incazelo yegama, noma Indlela yokuthola ngomuntu ngegama lakhe

Asikhethi igama, sithwala, kepha awuzange ucabange ukuthi igama lakho lithinta umuntu kanye nenkambo yokuphila? Sikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi igama esinikezwe ekuthwalweni kokuzalwa kuthonya isiphetho sethu. Wake wake wazibuza mayelana nemvelaphi yegama lakho nencazelo yalo?

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha igama elifanele lomntanakho, njengoba lokhu kuzoba ingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwakhe. Ngezinye izikhathi sikhetha amagama adluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane emndenini, ngezinye izikhathi abazali abasha banganikeza igama kumdlali wezintandokazi zomntanakho.

Igama likaVilena lafika kanjani?

Igama lezinsikazi zeVilena linemvelaphi eminingana, owokuqala nokusabalalisa kakhulu yiyona inguqulo igama likaVilena lwenzeka ngokushesha ngemuva kokuphela koMhlahlandlela ka-Okthoba, nokwakhiwa kwe-fusion yesibongo, igama kanye nomuntu ohlonishwayo womholi wale mpuquko, konke okuyaziwayo uVladimir Ilyich Lenin. Inguqulo yesibili iwukuthi i-Vilena ivela kumuntu wesilisa uWilhelm. Kunezizwe lapho igama elithi Wilhelm libizwa ngokuthi uWilma noma uWilema.

Isici seVilena

Owesifazane okuthiwa uVilena akahlali phansi. Amathalenta akhe kwezobuciko nezemidlalo angamholela ezenzweni ezingenangqondo. Ngokwezemidlalo futhi ejabule, uVilena uheha abanye njalo, kepha uma kungekho abantu abanjalo abangammisa ezenzweni zakhe, uVilena angashukumisa wonke umuntu nge-anti-crazy yakhe engenziwanga wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke, kwezinye izimo, intombazane idinga usizo nokusekelwa kwimbuthano yakhe yangaphakathi. Umngani omkhulu kaVilena akufanele abe othembekile kuphela, kodwa futhi nomeluleki omuhle ongakwazi ukulalela nokusiza ngegama lomusa. Ngabantu abalungile, intombazane izokwazi ukufeza imiphumela efunayo kanye nempumelelo enkulu.

Inhlanhla leyo ntombazane, abazali bayo babiza igama likaVilena. Incazelo yegama njalo ayithinti isiphetho sethu kuphela, kodwa futhi uhlamvu lomuntu. Intombazane enegama leli ihlukaniswa ngumlingisi onomusa nangomusa. Kwezinye izimo, u-Vilena uzwela futhi usengozini, kodwa kwezinye izimo angamlahla ngokufanele umuntu, nakuba yena ngokwakhe ephendula kabi ngokwanele kunoma yikuphi ukugxeka ekuqondeni kwakhe. Vilen kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umngane omkhulu kunazo zonke ongathembela kukho konke. Uyesaba kakhulu ukwethemba, ukukholelwa, bese ekhohliswa futhi aqonde ukuthi umuntu oseduze naye akuyena umuntu obone. Ngenxa yalokhu, uVilena, okusho okusho ukuxazulula, akesabi ukuxhumana nabantu, ngakho-ke unolwazi oluningi.

Indlela uVilena aziphatha ngayo ekuxabaneni nabantu

Intombazane enomusa nesibindi ayithandi izingxabano nokukhathazeka kokubili emndenini nakubangane bakhe. U-Vilen kungcono ukuyeka ukuxhumana nomuntu kunokuthola ubuhlobo. Ukubuyisana kungabakhona, uma ezwa sengathi unecala, noma lowo muntu uyothandeka kakhulu kuye. I-Vilen ibaluleke kakhulu ukuzwa ukuthi kukhona okudingekayo, ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi ulungele izenzo ezokusiza ukunqoba ukubuya nokuqaphela abantu abaseduze naye. Imibono ehamba ekhanda likaVilen ayilethe impumelelo, kodwa ngeke ilahlekelwe futhi izoqhubeka iqhubekela phambili ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakhe.

UVilena yigama lomntwana

Inani lamagama kaVilen wengane lithi abazali abanikeza ingane yabo leli gama bangaba nokuthula ngekusasa lakhe. Njengengane, uVilena ungumntwana onomusa futhi omuhle. Uhlale ezolile, futhi ngemva kokukhula kancane, uba intombazane enengqondo futhi ehlakaniphile. Esikoleni, ngaso sonke isikhathi ungumfundi oyisibonelo, okuncane okufisa, kodwa kungase kuphele ngokushesha njengoba kubonakala. U-Vilena, incazelo yegama okuzohlala eyingqondo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngisho kusukela ebuntwaneni kakhulu kuyoba nesithakazelo emvelaphi yayo.

Umndeni weVilena

Umndeni intombazane ngayinye ibaluleke kakhulu, futhi uVilena akahlukile. Ukuphila komndeni kuye kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokusho kukaVilena, indoda kufanele ibe yinhloko yomndeni, kodwa le mibuzo kufanele ixoxwe ngaso sonke isikhathi (ngisho negama lokugcina lizoba ngowathandekayo). Uma uVilena ezwa ekhululekile futhi ezolile, wonke amalungu omndeni wakhe ayozizwa afana. Umndeni uyisibuko sesimo sawo sangaphakathi (kwezinye izimo umuntu angasho ngisho ukuthi lokhu kungumlingisi wayo). Ku-Vilena, umndeni usuqala. Uyakuthanda kakhulu izingane futhi uzimisele ukuzinikela sonke isikhathi sakhe samahhala kubantwana nomyeni wakhe.

Incazelo yegama likaVilen yisimiso sesifazane somusa nesihe. Abesifazane abaningi baphupha ukufana naye. Abesifazane abadumile njengoVilena Paterba, uVilena Bryleva noVilena Shamakhan, bahluke kubesifazane abaningi abanekhono labo kanye nokuma okuhle kokuphila, okungaba nomona kuphela.

Amagama amadoda afanelekayo ku-Vilna

Ukuhambisana kwamagama omuntu kubaluleke kakhulu kuVilena, ngakho uhambela ngokucophelela ukhetho lomlingani ozayo. Nazi amagama abalulekile afanelekayo emshadweni: UDmitry, Andrei, Ruslan. U-Vilena, incazelo yegama lomuntu okubaluleke ngaye, uzohlale eqaphela lokhu lapho ehlangana.