Wazi kanjani uma ukuya esibhedlela?

Wena ulinde ngakho kudala, kodwa lapho umntwana isizelwe, futhi nalo kwethusa ngoba phambi ukulethwa, inqubo lapho kunzima ukucabanga, kodwa wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kuba buhlungu kakhulu. Hhayi kuphela ingabe scary. Ezethusayo, ukuthi umshikashika uzoqala ngasikhathi sinye, bese uya esibhedlela, ungenayo isikhathi. Umngane, ajwayelekile kanye ngokuvamile konke futhi baphokophelele ukuthi izindaba yokwesaba mayelana nokubeletha emotweni, esitolo kanye emnyango. Bese umbuzo "Lapho ukuya esibhedlela?" Ungena acute ngokungavamile.

Nokho, ucabangisise zonke lezi zindaba akudingekile, inqobo, yebo, ukuthi ulalelisise umzimba wakho bese uba nomuzwa isikhathi sisondela ebeletha. Phela, ngisho ukulethwa okusheshayo - kuyinto 3-4 amahora, kodwa evamile e zokugcina nulliparous kusukela amahora 8 kuya ku-10, i-vtororodyaschih kancane ngokushesha, 6-8, kodwa kakade ukuthi yini okufanele uyilindele.

Lapho ukuya esibhedlela? Kuvamile, egcwele eside ezibhekwa lokuzalwa ngesikhathi 38-42 ngesonto, Nokho, ngengqondo ngoba kufanele ube kakade ngesonto 36, ikakhulukazi uma nokukhulelwa izingane eziningi ngasikhathi. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi ngesikhathi uke wema isikhwama izinto bakudinga ukuletha. Believe me, lapho Kufinyeta uqale, ukugxilisa ingqondo futhi waqoqa iphakethe kuyoba nzima kakhulu, ngisho uma ulifunda ohlwini. Futhi imibhalo (iphasipoti, umshwalense, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ikhadi exchange) kumele uhlale ususondele, ngisho nalapho ungekho ekhaya. Yiqiniso, esibhedlela uzobe ngaphandle kwabo, kodwa, ekuqaleni, akukho exchange ikhadi, odokotela ngeke ikwazi ukwakha isu ukulethwa, futhi bangase baphuthe okuthile okubalulekile, ikakhulukazi lezo ezimithi, kwakukhona abanye izinkinga. Okwesibili, owesifazane ngaphandle exchange ikhadi kungenzeka afakwe block unscreened, njengoba kwakuthiwa kungase kudingeke izifo ezithathelwanayo. Futhi kunzima ukunquma ukuthi iyiphi zombili lezi zici sibi kakhulu. Yingakho, lapho udinga ukuya esibhedlela, into yokuqala kwakuyodingeka ukukhumbula - lokhu imibhalo.

Lapho isikhwama eqoqwe, ihlala yodwa ukulandela eduze kwenzekani kuwe. Ngokuvamile, nakuba ayengafiki ngaso sonke isikhathi, umzimba uxwayisa esondela nokubeletha kusengaphambili. Ezinye izimpawu okungase kuthintwe amasonto 2-3 ngaphambi kokubeletha. Ikakhulukazi, i-predictive noma ukuqeqeshwa iziqubu. I isibeletho siqala ukufinyela kancane, ukulungiselela imisipha yakho. Lezi izimpi ngokuvamile kobuhlungu futhi engaphumi njalo. Lena umehluko zabo eziyinhloko kusukela izimpi yangempela.

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa nje, noma ngokuqondile ngosuku ukulethwa kungenzeka esiswini ptosis: esiswini is abangenamakhaya ngezansi, eshintsha isimo, kuba lula ukuphefumula. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane lithuthela emgudwini wokuzala bese ubeka ikhanda phambi wesibeletho. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukulungele ukuphuma, futhi ukulethwa ungase uqale nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngezinye izikhathi avele osenyameni lwamafinyila oluphuma esithweni sangasese, mhlawumbe ngegazi streaks. Kulungile, kukushiya plug isikhwehlela, okusikisela ukuthi wesibeletho iqala ukulungiselela sokubelethisa.

Uma uzibona usesimweni esifana yinoma yisiphi salezi zehlakalo, kusho ngaphambi ukuqala zomsebenzi wahlala ngezinsuku ezimbalwa noma ngisho amahora. Zilungiselele.

Ngakho lapho ukuya esibhedlela? ngeke Lapho impi yangempela. Bafanele elivamile, okungukuthi, njalo ngezikhathi ezithile, ngokuvamile okubuhlungu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nezikhathi emkhatsini Kufinyeta leso siphela, futhi ufake umfutho owengeziwe zabo ukwanda. Uma ungenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi unayo impi yangempela noma ukuqeqeshwa, kungcono ukuya esibhedlela, akekho owayezobhekwa sola you hhayi ngephutha, uzizwa udlule ezikhathini ezinzima. Ngokuvamile, kuzo zonke izimo uphikise kungcono ukuya kuka hhayi ukuhamba.

Ngokuvamile ku omama ekilasini belulekwa ukuba ulinde amahora ambalwa, bese kuphela hamba. Zikhuthaze umkhandlu yokuthi nokubeletha - kuyinqubo eside futhi asikho isidingo isikhathi esiningi uzihlanganisa esibhedlela. Lo mbono akunembile. Yiqiniso, uma sokuzalwa wena evamile, khona-ke kungani kwakungeke uhleli ihora ekhaya, futhi uma ngokuqondile uma kuyoba ukulethwa okusheshayo? Uma uya kanye, uyoba nesikhathi ayiqinisekile, futhi uma i extra amahora amabili ukuchitha ekhaya, khona-ke kukhona ithuba sangempela sokuba abelethe emotweni.

Kwezinye izimo, ngisho ngaphambi ukuqala zomsebenzi suka -amniotic fluid. Ngezinye izikhathi yonke ngesikhathi esisodwa, bese-ke kusobala ukuthi mkhuba nge lutho akakwazi kudidaniswe, ngezinye izikhathi amanzi nje ukuvuza kancane. Lapho ukuya esibhedlela kuleli cala? Impendulo eyodwa kuphela, ngokushesha. Njengoba ukudabuka we ulwelwesi, ingane yakho iba esengozini yokuthola izifo ezihlukahlukene, futhi ishesha ikulungele ukukhwelwa maduzane kulokhu ozozalwa, ngcono kumama nomntwana.

Kufinyeta, impendulo jikelele umbuzo uma sekuyisikhathi ukuya esibhedlela, cha, kodwa uma uzwa isidingo ke, kungcono ukuhamba.