Kungani womama ushiye izidingo

Ngokungangabazeki, ukukhulelwa - ingenye nezikhathi abajabule ukuphila kwakhe: lokho ngemva ngempela isikhathi esifushane kuyoba nguwe wena namanje abazi, kodwa ngaphakathi kuwe futhi kuyingxenye wena. Lena okuhlobene cishe wonke nakho nemizwelo: abanye bafuna ngokushesha bajwayelane umntwana, futhi othile asaba kancane nokubeletha okusondela kancane kuhambisana. Kodwa ukukhulelwa - akuyona nje nemizwelo eminingi ebuhlungu nokulindelwe injabulo, kodwa futhi umthwalo eningi emzimbeni. Ngokuvamile ngalesi sikhathi kukhona yezinkinga kobukhulu obuhlukahlukene, ikakhulukazi senyanga nesibongo. Uma e yezinkinga zalo zokuqala ngokuyinhloko emikhakheni nemvelo, enkathini yokugcina esiyingozi ambalwa. Yingakho womama enikeziwe ushiye.

Isikhathi esezingeni sokubeletha - izinsuku 70 ngaphambi sokubeletha izinsuku 70 emva kwabo, kodwa kungase kube ezihlukile, ezifana kaningana, lapho samaholide luyanda izinsuku 194, futhi uma kwenzeka yezinkinga ebeletha - kuze kufinyelele 156. I ikhefu lokuyobeletha esiyolandelwa Kumaviki awu 30 uma ukhulelwe, futhi 28 - uma ababili noma ngaphezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kudingekile noma efiselekayo, ngaphambi noma ngemva kokubeletha, ungathatha i ikhefu abavamile yonyaka noma ushiye ngaphandle kwenkokhelo zokubala umqashi angeke isale isibawo esinjalo.

Sokubeletha kudingeka esigabeni kubalulekile kakhulu ukukhulelwa owesifazane azinikele ngokuphelele ukuba izinyane esizayo. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukugcina umbuso ekhethekile yosuku, namandla eyaziwa: ngoba ukusebenza kanzima ngempela ukuze udle kahle futhi ngesikhathi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ayikho indlela yokubalekela ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka, futhi lokho kakhulu. Futhi, owesifazane okhulelwe, ngisho nalapho engekho zokugula kufanele kwenzeke ukuba uchithe isikhathi esiningi emoyeni opholile, futhi banikezwe yokuthi cishe kwakungekho noyedwa sokukhulelwa akuyona ngaphandle kwegazi, ke isibili ebalulekile, ngoba ingane kudingeka uthole umoya-mpilo ngokwanele noma kungase kube nentuthuko normal .

Enye impikiswano esivuna ukunakekelwa ngesikhathi sokubeletha, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuqala, ukuthi kudingeka alungiselele sokubelethisa, ngoba lapho kukhona izifundo ezikhethekile kanye namaqembu ezemidlalo. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuba ufunde ukuziphatha efanele ngesikhathi sokubeletha bese ukuba isesimweni enkulu - kubalulekile kakhulu ukugeleza sabo esivamile sokuphila. Yiqiniso, nsuku zonke lapho ngisebenza ngangiye ngizitshele, ukuthola leso sikhathi esinzima.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, umsebenzi ngokuvamile uhlanganiswa enifeza semali isikhathi ngezinyawo zabo, futhi kuyinto sekwephuze ekukhulelweni nakanjani contraindicated ngisho yingozi. Ngaphezu nengozi izifo ezihlukahlukene, ezifana varicose emithanjeni imilenze, kukhona ingozi enkulu yisisu. Uma uzwa lolu hlobo lomsebenzi - kulesi simo kungcono ngesikhathi ukushiya ku sokubeletha, kodwa futhi ukusizakala amakhono ngenhla eyengeziwe kanye khulula emsebenzini esikhathini esifishane hhayi kuphela.

Ezinye izintokazi bayazigqaja yokuthi bekwi lebhizinisi nokuthi ikhefu lokuyobeletha, ngakho ngingakwazi, futhi kusukela esibhedlela ngokushesha babhukula bawenza umsebenzi. Lena sengqondo esingafanele esichitha kakhulu hhayi kuphela maqondana ngokwabo kodwa futhi towards ingane, hhayi imbangela ngokuzidla. abesifazane enjalo basengozini sina zempilo yabo, impilo kanye nokuphila kid - azalwe kwesikhathi, bese naye kwesokunxele engenanina kwelinye eyinkimbinkimbi kunazo futhi unzima ukuphila nezikhathi. Ngakho, ningazifanisi kunoma isiphi isimo - ikhefu nje womama kuyadingeka. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi - ke, nika ingane yakho okungcono kakhulu futhi simsize lula ukuba izozalwa enempilo nokuzola.

Ukukunika ikhefu lokuyobeletha, kufanele uhlinzeke isitifiketi umsebenzi kusukela emtholampilo ukukhulelwa futhi ukubhala isitatimende. Njengomthetho, it unikezwa ngaphandle kwezinkinga, uma uke wasebenza kule indawo izinyanga ezingaphezu kweziyisithupha, nakhona kumele zikhokhelwe ngendlela efanayo njengoba uma usebenza, kodwa kungafaki amaprimiyamu.