Yini sokulala ukulungiselela kithi: yini uyaphupha ukuxabana?

Ngeshwa, izingxabano, ukuxabana, eziyihlazo zokufumbathiswa ngokuxabana - kuyiqiniso yezimpilo zethu. Sonke baye babhekana futhi namanje nazo ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa empilweni yakhe nezimo ezingajabulisi esicindezelayo ezinjalo. Kuyacaca ukuthi akukho okuhle ke ngeke kuholele, futhi yilokho i-agumenti iphupho, ucabangani? Yilokhu sizoxoxa ngani kulesi sihloko.

Kungani baphupha ukuxabana? dream Miller

Gustav Miller uthi ukuchazwa eziyisisekelo amaphupho lapho ubona ukuxabana, amahlazo, uthi ngalezi noma ezinye izinkathazo, izingxabano esizohlasela, ukungavumelani esingalindelekile.

1. Uma iphupho ukubona amantombazane asemancane, empilweni beqala umugqa omnyama, okuyisona imali sasivumela eningi isikhathi.
2. Uma iphupho enjalo ukubona abesifazane abashadile - kungcono ngoba isehlukaniso ekuqaleni, ukuxabana nomndeni okuphakade.
3. Ucabangani, ukuthi uyaphupha izingxabano sabantu ongabazi, ngoba bani ukubukela? Musa akhohlisa ngokwakho! Nalapha - lokho Putnam! Lezi amaphupho kukhona eyandulela ukwehluleka emsebenzini, alichithe ukwehluleka kwezamabhizinisi ...
4. Amaphupho lapho amadoda asekhulile ukuxabana, bethi unomona ngoba nakhu! ukuxabana zabesifazane - kuya inhlebo okubi aqondiswe wena. Uma ingxabano izingane - ulinda kumnandi nomdlandla. Ukuxabana ambalwa ephusheni - izindaba ezinhle.
5. Miller ingenye Abahlaziyi ambalwa echaza lokho amaphupho abazali ingxabano. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi empeleni kuwena ngokungentando yakho uzobe zinengxenye kwezinye uhlobo ehlazweni. Mhlawumbe uzozisola ngoba ubuwula yabo noma ngenxa uhlamvu okubi yalabo abaseduze kwakho. Mabangasho bayakhohliswa, ungabi yisisulu sezimo eziwubala!

Futhi kuthiwani lokhu, ngeke sikwazi ukutshela abanye abahlaziyi, ezifana Evgeny Tsvetkov?

Kungani baphupha ukuxabana? Dream Ukuhunyushwa Tsvetkov

Evgeny Tsvetkov ecabanga yimuphi amaphupho lapho sibona amahlazo, acebe izingobe, ngokuxabana izingxabano, kubi.

1. Nezixakaxaka nabantu obathandayo - ukulahlekelwa nokudumazeka.
2. Uma ephusheni lakho ufakaza iyiphi ingxabano ukungenela okwalandela kuwo, bese ucabanga emhlabeni kwawo kwangaphakathi. Iqiniso lokuthi wena kudala impi ngaphakathi phakathi izici ezithile zobuntu bakho eziphikisa.
3. Uma ukulala, kodwa kusobala ukuthi ukuzwa ebusuku iziqalekiso elikhulu - ulungele isimo ucishe evumayo ngawe. Uzokwazi ukuya phezulu isitebhisi umsebenzi, ngokwengxenye ukuqeda lezikweletu. Lona omunye ukutolika ambalwa omuhle uMnu Tsvetkov.
4. Nezixakaxaka nabangani bakho ungasho into eyodwa kuphela: unokuthile ukulahlekelwa empilweni yami.
5. Ukuxabana nabantu ongabazi - amapulani entsha, imibono kanye nemibono. By endleleni, hhayi iqiniso lokuthi luzoqala ngempumelelo.
6. Girls amaphupho ihlazo ukubikezela kwesikhathi kwenhlupheko, izintokazi oshadile - izingxabano emndenini nesehlukaniso. Zonke ngendlela efanayo njengoba lowo of Miller.
7. Uma dream nixabana nomngane oseduze, khumbula ukuthi uhambo lwakho kuhlelwe (uhambo) kungaba engenamsebenzi, kodwa umhlangano obalulekile okuhleliwe - ke limane Saze sadlala ngesikhathi.

Ngakho, abangane, sabuka nencazo ezivamile lokho agumenti iphupho. Kwezinye izimo, amaphupho ihlazo kungaba nje kwelivi ejwayelekile nezenzakalo zangempela: Wena kwadingeka ukuxabana nomakhelwane, futhi kwadingeka kungamanyala omkhulu nge boss! Ngikufisela inhlahla!