Yokuzibeka - yini lokho? ifomu yokukhuluma

Kulesi sihloko sikhuluma yokuzibeka. Lena sihloko ezithakazelisayo kakhulu esithinta ezinkingeni ezehlukene. Empeleni, kungani kubaluleke kangaka ukuba abantu bakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo? Ukuze ukuthi kuyini, ngoba ubani, ngayiphi indlela, kungani abantu abaningi abanhliziyo siyesaba ukukhombisa izwe ubuntu bakho futhi lokhu nakho ukuhlupheka ngempela eziphathekayo? Ekugcineni, lokho kufanele baqonde ukuthi ngaleli gama elithi "inkulumo ethi"? Ake sizame ukubhekana sezinkinga.

Yokuzibeka - yini lokhu?

Ngithanda ukuchaza e umusho owodwa, kodwa kusobala ukuthi ngeke isebenze, ngoba ngisho izichazamazwi emfushane ngokuvamile emifushane, ebhekene nale umqondo, ekubeni winded.

Singasho ukuthi inkulumo ethi yomuntu - lena umzamo zakhe ukuze zibonise ukuthi izwe lakhe elingaphakathi e ezinye zezindlela zangaphandle. Lapho ngokusebenzisa izenzo, amazwi, nezenzo, nokunye. E. Kukhona actualization sangaphandle ongabonakali okuqukethwe yangaphakathi (siqu izinkolelo zakho ngabanye, imizwa, izimo zengqondo kanye nokunye. D.). Futhi ngokuvamile angase abe umlingisi ucingo noma umbhikisho (ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka intsha esikhulakhulile). Ukubonakaliswa Komusa ubuntu kuyisenzo inkululeko, izinga layo ebalulekile akuyona ukuqaphela okunengqondo kanye spontaneity.

Kungani kunesidingo yokuzibeka?

Siphila ezweni oyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Life ziwumthwalo eziningi imikhawulo umuntu: .. Zokuziphatha, ngokwenkolo, ngokwenhlalo, njll Uma bekungenjalo, isintu, cishe ngabe kade abasekho. Kodwa abantu ayikwazi uguqulwa abe mass inert salezi grey, izinkinga ukukhathazeka kuphela okusinda yabo. Ngenhlanhla, sanikwa ubuntu elenza ngamunye esiyingqayizivele, alifani nelamuntu. Kuyamangaza-ke yini ukuthi abantu abaningi bafuna ukubonisa abanye okwakhe yabo.

Kukhona umbono wokuthi le nkulumo - ke ingenye yezindlela ezingabizi kakhulu futhi enamandla ukuze ngijabule kanye khulula, ukutshela umhlaba mayelana ukhona njengoba into ukugqama isixuku esikhulu zazo siqu, ukuze kwembuleke esivela ezingaba zokudala. Yokuzibeka uyakwazi enikeza osenyameni evela ukukhathala negative imizwa, ukukhulisa ukuzethemba, ukwakha ukuzethemba, lungadambisa umlingisi futhi ithuthukisa ngokuzimela imibono yabanye abantu.

Izindlela ezahlukene kanye namafomu yokukhuluma

Mhlawumbe, ngeke kwenzeke ukuba uhlu zonke izindlela lapho abantu ungakwazi ukulisebenzisa okwakhe zabo. Sizozama ukugqamisa ezivamile, amafomu ejwayelekile yokukhuluma ezikhona esikhathini sethu:

1. Self-Inkulumo kwezobuciko. Kunezinhlobo eziningi lokusungula, lapho usukwazi ukuveza "Mina" yakho yangaphakathi:

• ubuciko (imidwebo, udini, ukudweba, KaMose, njll ...);
• ifomu zomculo yokukhuluma (vocals, i-ballet, umdanso zanamuhla, umculo lokuqamba noma ukusebenza kwawo);
• umsebenzi wokubhala (temibhalo yephrozi netindzaba kanye izinkondlo, ukugcina Diaries siqu namabhulogi kwi-inthanethi);
• Okunye izinkomba (mime, imidlalo yaseshashalazini, nokunye. D.)

2. Self-Inkulumo kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi:

• impumelelo ezemidlalo;
• yokufunda;
• umsebenzi okhokhelwayo;
• ukuqaliswa yimuphi imiklamo yayo siqu (imibono ibhizinisi).

3. izindlela sangaphandle yokukhuluma (ifomu, eyinqaba kakhulu intsha kanye intsha):

• izingubo ome njengeqanda;
• Tattoos;
• izinwele umbala ngemibala engavamile, zezinwele zokudala;
• Ukubhoboza;
• scarification;
• engavamile, ukushaya enze-up;
• ukushintsha ukubukeka ngosizo ukuhlinzwa isikhumba.

Isengezo entsheni

Ingena usakhula, izingane eziningi ukuba izihlubuki abangalawuleki. Abazali phezani ukuqaphela izingane zabo. Ngokuvamile intsha uqale egqoke izingubo iwubuphukuphuku ngokuphelele, ukuphoqelela i Kusaphazwa izimonyo, iziphethe ngesibindi futhi bethukuthele.

Olunye uhlobo nobuntu nkulumo intsha esikhulakhulile - lenye subculture (amapunk, goths, emo, roleplayers, Tolkienists, njll ...). Abantu abasha ukujoyina umphakathi practice kulo emzimbeni nasemphefumulweni angahlala ifilosofi tenhlangano zama zonke ukulingisa ngaphandle kulona. Wayekanye yalezi zindlela yokukhuluma kubonakale engenangqondo, akunangqondo, akunangqondo, kodwa intsha uzizwe ngempela ukhululekile e izindima zabo.

Njengomthetho, lezi izinkanuko ngokwabo zidlule, njengoba kwasho insizwa egama esakhula kweminyaka embalwa, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi isifiso sokuba okwakhe kungathatha zishintshe engathandeki.

inkulumo esiyingozi

At ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko thina wabhala ukuthi yokuzibeka - lokho kuyinto okufanele ijabulise, okuqukethwe ngokomzwelo. Ngeshwa, lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi kwenzeke. Umuntu angathola i-bazikhethele ifomu yokukhuluma, okuyinto iyingozi ukuze asindise ukuphila kwakhe futhi ukuphila kwabanye.

Ngokwesibonelo, kungase kube nogqozi kakhulu sekukhomba. Abantu abasha abawazi ukubaluleka kokuphila, bangakwazi ukwenza stunts yingozi ngesikhathi ngokudubula nomunye kufoni ikhamera ephathekayo bese owendlala izithombe kanye ividiyo ku-inthanethi, afuna udumo emphakathini virtual.

Izidakamizwa kanye notshwala - kwabanye liphinde ifomu yokuzibeka. Mhlawumbe lokhu kukhetha, okuhloswe ngaso self-ukubhujiswa, kungase kubonise sengozini ngokweqile noma ubuthakathaka bobuntu, ukungakwazi noma ukungazimiseli ukwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi okwakhayo.

Izinkinga yokuzibeka

Izwe ligcwele abantu egwema ngokucophelela yokuzibeka. ubuntu babo kusulwe futhi ungaqondakali. Ikhanda indoda inhlonipho nabanekhono ngomsebenzi nozakwabo - nice and friendly, inkampani - engabonakali futhi buthule. Uwugqokele ngebunono nangesandla unobtrusively, ukhuluma ngendlela efanele. Ngomqondo onabile, hhayi indoda kodwa ingelosi ... Kodwa yena e enjalo? Kungenzeka ukuthi wayengakuqondi. Izwe kwangaphakathi, ukukhohlisa komuntu onjalo kungenzeka ukubuyisa futhi ugcwale ezihlukahlukene imizwa nezifiso.

Kepha efihla ngokucophelela kubo kwabanye. Inhliziyo yakhe babezizwa sefilosofi omkhulu noma umculi, kodwa umbukiso iyathiyeka nokwesaba ahlukahlukene: ukuzwa liphansi, hhayi ukuphila ngokuvumelana okulindele, ukwesaba nokungazwisiswa. Lokhu kubonisa ukuntula inkululeko kwangaphakathi, mayelana ngokomzwelo khama kanye isitokwe izakhiwo. Cishe, lesi isimo elisuka ebuntwaneni, lapho abazali ezibucayi kakhulu lembuzi, asizange uqaphela ngokunqoba kwakhe kancane, hhayi ukunconywa ngokubekezelelana izimpumelelo zabo. Indoda esekhulile, wayesemshadweni a "Wasinghamela". Ngenxa yalokho, ukuphila kwakhe bancishwa imibala eminingi nemizwelo, onikeza abantu ithuba lokuveza imibono yazo.

inkulumo lokuvala

Inkulumo yethu kufanele kube nenzuzo kokubili thina nalabo abayizitha eduze kwethu, kuphela ke singajabula ngempela futhi kuyayijabulisa nezwe elibazungezile. ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle ubuntu njalo ibonisa lokho egcwele umphefumulo wethu. Makube umhlaba wakho kwangaphakathi amahle!