"Anginayo enye," noma ingane mayelana sokuba wedwa

isizungu wazizwa entsheni sibi kakhulu. Ukukhula umuntu uqala singcofe emkhulu nabanye, ayekulindele nezimfuneko ziyahlukahluka. Inkinga: "Ngiye akekho omunye" isiba buhlungu. Kanjani ukuze usize ingane yakho anqobe isizungu? Yiziphi amazwi ukuthola?

Uma indodana noma indodakazi yakho ekushoyo, "Ngiye akekho omunye," kusho ukuthini naye, "ngiphatheke kabi." Zama ukuba njengoba unake ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ingane phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Khuluma naye kanye alifundisi ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi uzame ukuqonda. Yiba ngobuqotho, ukwabelana imicabango nemizwa yakho, izinkumbulo ukuthi usukhulile, yini ebaluleke kuwe ngaleso sikhathi. Maye, ngokuvamile ingane ayibonwa ngezinkinga zabo, futhi lukhetha ukugqoka. Noma kunjalo, kukhona amasignali ezithile. umzali noma uthisha Smart uzophawula bese uzama ukusiza.

Okokuqala sebekubeke ukugwema ukugxekwa! Khumbula ukuthi noma imibono ziqondakala nobunzima ngoba ubuhlungu obucayi kakade umphefumulo abonisa ukungavuthwa. Ngo entsheni, i-esintengayo kakhulu ukuzethemba, ukufuna bona futhi indawo yabo kuleli zwe. Ngakho-ke, uma lawo mazwi kuye: "Anginaye umngani," osabela ukugxekwa ( "Akusikho ngoba akwanele .... smart, muhle, uyathandeka, uhlobo, zama") kanye imibhalo efanayo - qiniseka oxhumana nabo ingane silahleka unomphela. Ungacabangi ukuthi amazwana wakho eyomsiza ukuba ulungise kwamaphutha ukuthi uyakusinda. Lona omunye enkulu amaphutha abazali. Kunalokho, badumise ingane kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, umnikeza uyamethemba amakhono akhe nokubaluleka kwakhe elikhangayo. Befuna ukwamukelwa nokubonwa izingane ngokuya iye esingokoqobo virtual, nenhlanganyelo labo are eqinisweni enesizungu futhi zingajabuli. Ayitholi udumo nokuqonda emkhayeni nokubafundisa babe sesikolweni, ngaleso sikhatsi bafundza bacala ukuzibheka ezinkampanini ezahlukene, akuzona onokwethenjelwa futhi ukahle kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Futhi, khumbula, futhi mayelana nendlela ngezinye izikhathi nomona izidalwa abasha ukubheka labo ontanga ngubani baba okubonakala sengathi usukhule kakhudlwana, baphumelela, enhle. Ngoba intombazane wacabanga, "Anginayo enye" ngokuvamile kuhlobene eduze isibonelo abangani kudala kukhona guys. Kuyinto phakathi nenkathi yokuqhuma kobusha ngakho ufuna ukuba ngcono kunabanye, ukuba ezikhangayo futhi ebatshazwa kakhulu. Akukho lutho esingaba namahloni ngakho - lokhu kuyinqubo evamile self-isiqinisekiso kanye nesazisi kumiswa.

Kubalulekile ukuba ingane bese umngane womuntu engcono, ukuthi ingakwazi ukwenza kube wangempela, ungazami ukushintsha. Ukuthola akukho ukwesekwa kontanga, bavame basebenzisane abadala, abadala. It kwandisa uhlobo "udumo" kwentombazane emehlweni akhe futhi ngokubona ofunda nabo. Kubalulekile njalo ukuxoxa nabantwana babo ngesihloko esithi ka kuchumana emkhatsini webantfu. Kuyadingeka ukuba nibafundise baziqonde bona ngokwabo, ukulalela izwi lakho elingaphakathi. Futhi ukuhlukanisa bangempela kusukela husk. I guy kumngane amantombazane ngokuvamile kungasiko lowo okukuye ungaba yakho eyimfihlo kakhulu, esingamethemba, futhi lowo ngifuna ukukhombisa osemcimbini abakwaziyo 'siziqhayise "nabo nomona. Nalokhu futhi, isigaba ejwayelekile ukubunjwa nokuthuthukiswa kwezinhlangano. Ngakho-ke, musa ukusheshe ugxeka ingane ukuthi ayengaqondi ukuthi abantu. Zama ukukuqonda kanye ukudala isimo ngokuzethemba. Kuphela ngale ndlela kungayisiza uthole kulesi sikhathi esinzima.