Bhala ukuthi intombazane oyithandayo ngendlela yokuxhumana.

Muva nje, abantu abasha, kuba lula kakhulu ukubheka naye ekuphileni, hhayi kokushiya indlu, futhi kalula nje kwi-inthanethi. Umbe lwanyamalala ngalezo zikhathi lapho abathandi wabhalela nomunye izinhlamvu ethinta inhliziyo nothando amanothi badabula phakathi kwababusi ekilasini. Manje isikhathi sokuba entsha ubuchwepheshe. Futhi esikhundleni sokuba wathanda ukumbona ehlupheka, lokho ukubhala intombazane kufana ephepheni, guys kukhona smskami namasevisi eziningi zokuxhumana.

Abantu akhuphuke ukunikeza ukuphola sites lapho ungathola abe ngumsizi wakhe kusihlwa, umdlalo, umngane, futhi, mhlawumbe, uthando. Manje guys ihlushwa umbuzo "yini ukubhala intombazane VKontakte nofunda nabo." Uthando olunjalo ngokuvamile nemiphumela emihle, futhi esekelwe kubo, ngisho nokuba nomkhaya. Ngakho abazikhathazi ngezithiyo, ukuthi intombazane kulobe sms noma uthinte, kube lula, lo zokuxhumana efanayo, kanye mathupha, uku kokubili kuphela uqale isiqalo ngenxa yokuthi ukuthi nomunye abakwazi ukubona.

Kunoma yikuphi, uma uthanda intombazane, ususitadishe elakwa sakhe sephrofayela, wabukela yonke albhamu ubuso bakhe elikhanyayo haunts wena ebusuku, musa ukuthi unamahloni, kumelwe sithathe isinyathelo. Kuphela siqonde kuqala ukuthi yini ongayilindela kulolu uthando - lula ukuxhumana inthanethi, ubungane obuqinile noma ukuthandana emhlabeni wangempela. Ngokusekelwe lokhu, kuyodingeka ukwakha lokuqhubeka nengxoxo.

Uma ungazi ukuthi yini ukubhala intombazane kufana ke qhubeka kuqale banal "sawubona." Akubalulekile ukuthi ube isivakashi njalo ka ezithangamini ezehlukene Pick-up ezinikeza clichés ethile ukuxhumana ne amantombazane ezahlukene, kuya ngokuthi isimo. Kungcono ukuba nje ube nguwena futhi unikele kuye kuze zokuxhumana ezijwayelekile. Uma intombazane isethwe ukuhlola, izoqala luhambisane nawe futhi ngaphandle amaqhinga zobuqili buzzwords. Kuphela incike kuwe, ngubani oyoba uyilethe ngakolunye uhlangothi kwesikrini, kodwa kamuva ungafuna umhlangano siqu. Ungazibona yini ngeso lengqondo uma ebona mathupha wayengeyena umuntu omele izinyanga eziningi. Kwezimo Eziqeda Amandla kuleli cala, it akunakugwenywa, futhi ngenxa yalokho, nawe.

Qiniseka ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwazana entsha, ulungise iphrofayela yakho. Bheka, uma unanoma iluphi uhlobo amaphutha yohlelo lokubhala - amantombazane amaningi ungathandi guys abafundile. Phinda ukuhlunga izithombe zakho, ukuqeda albhamu esibonisa zonke izinhlobo emva-dinner uthole-togethers nokuningi. Okuningi, efunda ngawe ngokubheka isithombe kusuka iholide, uhambo ezithakazelisayo noma niyikhulume oyithandako.

Uma ungazi ukuthi yini ukubhala intombazane kufana, nje rewound ke ingxoxo enobungane. Asikho isidingo ukwenza noma yiluphi kungabhekisela inhlamba lokuveza izahlulelo categorical noma uluhlaza. Inhlonipho, friendly futhi unesithakazelo. Owesifazane Buza azungeze ngokuphila kwakhe, ukwenza izinto zokuchitha isizungu, abangane, mkhakha womsebenzi, mayelana nendlela yena uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi nokunye. Mhlawumbe, uyobe ngokushesha ukuthola izinto esivumelana ngazo nabantu ukuqhubeka inkhulumomphendvulwano uya like clockwork. Uma ufisa ukuqhubeka ukuze uthole umhlangano siqu ne intombazane oyithandayo, kufanele azibonakalise njengoba umuntu ezithakazelisayo futhi onekhono elihle lokuxoxa. Futhi uma ukucela inombolo yakhe yocingo, ongakayeki ncamashi senqabe. Bese goodbye naseduze. Mhlawumbe ikusasa lakho?

Uma ungazi ukuthi yini ukubhala intombazane kufana, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukhumbule ukuthi akekho le Ukujwayelana jikelele imiyalelo ngokusebenzisa inthanethi lokho. Phela, indlela ejwayelekile ezindabeni umphefumulo akulungile. Kumelwe sifunde ukusebenzisa uzizwa omunye umuntu ukuqonda izifiso zakhe futhi bakwazi afanelekele ngaphandle kokubeka. Wonke umuntu - ukwehluka, futhi ukuthola indlela kukho, kumelwe sisebenze kanzima. Into eyinhloko ungesabi.