"Ephumelela kakhulu amakhono abantu abayisikhombisa" uStefanu Covey

Wonke umuntu esifisa okuthile ekuphileni kwakho. Abanye babe zonke kuvela, futhi ziba yimpumelelo, owaziwa. Abanye - akukho, futhi bafuna imbangela yokwehluleka kwabo ezimweni zangaphandle noma abanye abantu. Kungani kwenzeka, uchaza Stiven Kovi. "Ephumelela kakhulu amakhono Seven abantu" - incwadi esiza abantu.

ngembhali

umehluko omkhulu ezimpilweni zabantu abaningi kusukela kulo lonke izwe American eyadlalwa Stephen R. Covey. Izincwadi ku ukukhula siqu eyabhalwa lo mbhali, siye sabasiza ukubona umhlaba futhi ngokwakho emehlweni ehluke ngokuphelele. Ubizwa emkhakheni ukuqeqeshwa ubuholi, ukuphathwa kanye nezinye izici zokuphila self-ukuphelela ezaziwayo. He is nombhali wezincwadi eziningi ezikhuluma ngale ndaba.

amabhuku adumile

Edition "ephumelela kakhulu abantu amakhono Seven", ngokuvumelana "Isikhathi" umagazini ngo-2011 zibalwa phakathi amabhuku 25 engcono ngabaphathi. It ishicilelwe emazweni ayisikhombisa nantathu ngezilimi ezingamashumi amathathu nesishiyagalombili. Yezwe yokuqala wabona umkhiqizo ngo-1989.

Okuqukethwe

Incwadi ukujabulele indlela ehlelekile ukuze ukubeka amatshe, ngesisekelo ukuphila komuntu izinto eziza kuqala. Umbhali unika izeluleko ekufezeni okuhleliwe. Futhi, sikhuluma kanjani ukushintsha indlela self-ngcono. Igcizelela ukuthi ushintsho kudinga ukuzikhandla nesikhathi. Incwadi efundisa ubudlelwano ngempumelelo emphakathini ekhaya, kanye namakhono ngempumelelo ukuphatha ngokwakho. Ngokuvamile, "ephumelela kakhulu abantu amakhono Seven" - isiqondiso labo abazimisele lokuba ngishintshe ngibe ngcono.

Yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze uphumelele (kusuka incwadi ethi "The Seven kakhulu Ngempumelelo Abantu Amakhono")

1. Thatha umthwalo kwenzekani kuwe phezu. Vuma ke - kukho konke okwenzekayo okuzungezile (okuhle nokubi) basolwe wena. Iba umdali ikusasa lakho.
2. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza okuthile, unquma ukuthi uyaphi, uyini umgomo wakho oyinhloko. Dvweba sitfombe engqondweni yakho ukuthi ufuna uthole umphumela.
3. Icala lokuqala Kubalulekile ukuthi. Ngisho noma isikhathi ahlupheke, ungafaki off izinto ezibalulekile okumele "kamuva" ngokuthi "kamuva" kungase kungadingeki kufezeke.
4. Qhubeka njengoba intshisekelo yabo futhi izithakazelo zabanye. Khona-ke abantu ngeke ufuna ukubhekana nawe ngaphezu kwesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi kunentshisekelo zakho ezihamba phambili.
5. Funda ukuqonda abanye abantu, khona-ke uzoba kuqondwe. Uma kunemibono ehlukene, ngokuthobeka ubuze umbuzo yini umuntu akakuthandanga, nokuthi ubona ikhambi lenkinga.

6. Thola abantu ababecabanga njengami. Lena ngokushesha kunokuba eduze umgomo wakho. Yena nabanye ungenza okuningi.

7. Ungayeki endleleni yokuzibona ngcono. Lokhu kubhekiswe kuzo zonke izici ukuthuthukiswa yakho: ngokomoya, ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo futhi social.

isiphetho

Incwadi "Izejwayezi Eziyisikhombisa Abantu kakhulu Ngempumelelo" ubeka amaqiniso kahle aziwa abantu abaningi. Kodwa ukufunda imisebenzi umlobi uqobo, noma ezinye lutho eziningi. Ukuze kuzuzwe imiphumela efiselekayo, kubalulekile ukuba zifezeke practice, kunconywa ukuthi ochwepheshe ekukhuleni siqu. Hard, kodwa akuyona into engenakwenzeka. Uma injongo ukuma futhi - isiqhwaga ukufunda, senze futhi baphumelele.