Indlela aphendule izincomo?

Umuntu namuhla emphakathini lapho sonke isikhathi ngaphansi ubudlelwano siqu, kungakhathaliseki ukusetshenziswa langempela ngisho nomqondo onjalo, njengoba kunconywa, futhi kungaba nomphumela ofanayo ku ukuphila komuntu, njengoba esikhathini esidlule yamuva?

Igama elithi "Isipho" Uvele France esigodlweni futhi kwadingeka ukubaluleka okukhulu empilweni we zayo. Thina abantu ebusa beyiba isethi wabo olukhethekile izincomo lapho kwakuxhomeke inhlalakahle nempumelelo esigodlweni nabakhulu, yebo, abesifazane. Lihunyushwe kwelesiHeberu elithi izwi French "Isipho" lihunyushwa ngokuthi ngezinga eliphakeme wokwenama, ethopha inkulumo, ngezilokotho. Futhi-ke, ukuthi usabela kanjani izincomo abantu ukuthi iminyaka bakwazi lolungenamaphutsa, njengoba ikhono ukubasiza ukuxazulula izinkinga eziningi.

Izazi-mlando ziye babathanda ngokukhethekile ngenxa izilokotho ezinhle ukusuka eBritish Queen Elizabeth. Ngesikhathi inkantolo ukusetshenziswa nice amazwi senenziwe ezingeni yobuciko. Kwakuwusuku oluhle kunazo fashion inkulumo enkulu, kodwa inkulumo nge lusho lukhulu. inkulumo encane kakhulu njenge izimpi Verbal.

Ubani Iyakwazi art nokufakwa efanele ukuncoma, wayengase ukukhombisa erudition nokuzinikela kwakhe kumuntu ekuhlaleni kwenkosi esihlalweni sobukhosi. I yizikhonzi wayekwazi kahle ukuphendula ukuncoma, kuyilapho i-Indlovukazi yezwa kuvuna ukuthopha eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. LoElizabethi yena, nenkosi sasiyingxenye bakghone ukuphendula ukuncoma, kanjalo ekhuthaza izifundo zabo ukuba ihlanganise ngisho nomusa ukukhuluma.

Okwamanje, silulumagama zabantu sincane kakhulu, ulimi akasebenzisi eziningi amazwi eziye zasetshenziswa okuxhumana nakakhulu kamuva. Compliment esetshenziswa akuvamile, kodwa namanje efiselekayo ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu.

ngokuvamile Isipho interlocutor kuyakhathaza ezingaphezu kuka izimbangela imizwelo eyakhayo. Lize kwenzeka ngendlela yokuthi kusolakala njengoba into okubhuqa, mhlawumbe ngisho nesifiso lomunye umuntu ukuba ikulawule. Ukuze lokhu kubukeka sidumisa ihlangabezana ukuzenyeza yomuntu. Diffidence akasinikeli ithuba basabela ezinhle esifuna ukudlulisela. Yingakho ngokungaqondi phakathi kwabantu nokucindezeleka isikhathi eside.

Futhi okuphambene, uma esisebenzisa ngokufanele ukuncoma, kungaba ngokushesha futhi ngenze abangane unomphela noma azuze ukusekela kwezingxenye umuntu oxoxa obekade umdinga empilweni yakho yothintana naye. Kodwa lapho ukhetha ukuncoma kufanele niqaphele kakhulu. Council ilula - udinga nje thembeka kuze kube sekupheleni. Into esemqoka ukuthi kwakungakabi isethi esezingeni kwemagama, okungukuthi umuntu izimfanelo umuntu, ikakhulukazi imfanelo yakhe futhi isimo sakhe sengqondo maqondana nokuphila.

Esamukele imizwa yomunye umuntu omuhle, ukuthi usabela kanjani izincomo? Lapha ukusiza isimo sengqondo esiqondile ekufezeni ngokuphila nezwe yakho yangaphakathi. Ukusabela engokwemvelo iyiphi ukubonga abantu futhi Ukumamatheka ngobuqotho kutshela abanye. Esimweni esinjalo akusiyo okudingeke ukuba akucabange ukuthi ukuncoma enhle ukuphendula, impendulo yakhe kuzokwenziwa kamuva.

Kunabantu kusukela esimkhonzayo ikakhulukazi elinde izincomo, futhi lapho enziwa, la mazwi abe isisusa engcono kakhulu ekuphileni futhi sikhumbule kubo futhi kufanele alingane. Kodwa asiwazi njalo ukuthi kumelwe uphendule kanjani ukuba izilokotho.

Kudingeka ufunde esuka kubantu abanomsebenzi ikhono kalula uphendule ukuncoma, kwase kunesimo sengqondo ovulekile futhi omuhle maqondana nokuphila, abantu empilweni aphumelele. Ethonya wukuthi impumelelo itholwa kuzo kalula. Abantu abanjalo uyazethemba futhi ukuthembela kwabo angadluliselwa kwabanye. Uma umuntu onjalo kuholela iqembu, ukuthi unesikhathi umkhiqizo eliphezulu futhi ekupheleni yi kakhulu.

Indlela aphendule izincomo ezimweni ezahlukene? Ngicabanga impendulo silula! Sidinga ukuba azame ukwenza izincomo kubantu ngaphandle silindele impendulo. Khona uqiniseka ukuzwa impendulo amazwi afanayo amnandi futhi ukumamatheka kayivumanga isikhathi eside ngobuso bakho.