Indlela ukuhlangabezana "ukuxhumana" intombazane. Thola ukuthi yini ukukhuluma entombazaneni: "VKontakte"

Ingabe ufuna ukufunda indlela ukufunda "ukuxhumana" intombazane, ukugwema ukuphoxeka, kanjani ukuze nidonse ukunaka kwakhe kuwe futhi ikhasi lakho okulotshwe lomyalezo wokuqala nozakwabo ezikhangayo, ukuze akusho engaphenduliwe? Ngakho uqiniseka ukuthola isikhathi ukufunda lesi sihloko kuze kube sekupheleni.

Online manje Izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu sezithandwa kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu. Kuyindlela enhle elula kakhulu ukuthola umngane noma ngisho umngane womshado umphefumulo. Kodwa abantu abaningi abasha kuyo yonke lula yokuxhumana virtual nobunzima ikakhulukazi lapho bezama ukumisa inkhulumomphendvulwano intombazane abawuthandayo.

Yiqiniso, ngaphambi kokuba akuyona ezinemininingwane okufundisayo ngokuhlangenwe isitembu ku amakhuphoni yesiqinisekiso, njengalezo esikhishwe uma uthenga izinto zasendlini. Kuzoya kakhulu ngokuthi wena. Noma kunjalo, izimiso ezilandelayo eziyisisekelo kanye nemithetho kuzokuvumela sifinyelele lo mgomo kalula.

Sifuna intombazane, noma kuphi aqale ukufuna "contact"

Ake ucabange ukuthi wena kakade kahle mayelana nendlela yokuthola umuntu ngokusebenzisa "Ukucinga" in amanethiwekhi omphakathi. Manje sidinga ukuthola indlela ukuthola intombazane, "In Touch" ukuthi bazobe sebecela ukuthi nokuthi uzokwazi kubangele imizwa mutual. Lapha ungakwazi ukunikeza iziqondiso ezilula ezimbalwa.

• Ukuze uqale, isinqumo okudingayo, lokhu amaziyo, kunalokho iyoba ngawe: uthando lula, uthando oluqotho noma ubungane. Kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda futhi yini uhlobo amantombazane ukhangwa imvelo romantic kakhulu, i ukhombise impilo party intombazane kwenhlakanipho noma kwezinto Cabangisisa. Ngempela, esimweni ngasinye ethize, uzodinga ukusebenzisa isu ethize (kodwa indlela yokufinyelela "ukuxhumana" nentombazane, kuye ngokuthi hlobo yayo uhlamvu, tshela kamuva kancane).
• Isinyathelo esilandelayo - yokusesha. Buza nemingcele ezidingekayo (ubudala, idolobha), vula ikhasi bese uqhubekele cwaningo kolwazi ukuthi uzokutshela bani ukukhetha, futhi lutho ukukhuluma mayelana nentombazane "ukuxhumana".
• ongakhetha Esinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu futhi cishe win-win - search ngeenqhema izithakazelo. Ngemva kokuqala ukuxhumana nomuntu eninganambithisisani izinto zokuzilibazisa ezivamile, njalo lula kakhulu.

Qaphela, inkohliso, noma Ubani ngakolunye uhlangothi kwesikrini qapha?

Ngeshwa, okuheha web zokuxhumana - akukhona okungavamile ukuba likhithike. Ngakho-ke, kufanele sinake zendlela yokuthola ntombazane "Oxhumene", zishaya ukuthandwa Phantoms.

5 izimpawu bekhasi inkohliso:

• Ukuba khona kwamanzi, ngokuvamile Imininingwane engenangqondo ekwenzekeni "Mayelana Nami" sigaba. Ukuswelakala kokusebenza ngokuhlanganyela idatha "Okuthandayo" sigaba.
• I overabundance yokukhangisa odongeni ekhasini siqu.
• Inani elincane labangane nezithombe.
• Ukuguquguquka isithombe ecacisiwe ubudala noma siqu izithombe, ebonisa amantombazane efanayo kodwa ahlukene.
• Izithombe bemvelo esikisela ucansi ngekholi ukuba bathuthele kwelinye isayithi amaziyo olwengeziwe.

Sisebenza ekhasini lakho

Ngokuvamile intsha ukubuza imibuzo esezohlangana kanjani "ukuxhumana" intombazane, bengakunaki ikhasi labo. Kunephuzu iphutha elikhulu. Ikhasi lakho ungasho okuningi ngawe ukwakha isithombe esifanele. Indlela ukulungiselela kahle?

• Thumela isithombe sakho akuyona retouched isithombe ukukhanya kahle modulated, lapho uzobe kahle ayibonwa. Kungcono uma ubuso bakho kuzovula smile (njalo ayimkhangi). Ungazami anqobe intombazane ngokushesha kwabo ngezandla chested noma ukubonisa impumelelo yabo nge abesifazane ngokusebenzisa izithombe ezithathwe ebusuku.
• Susa ividiyo nesithombe namanxusa ubulili fair (ngisho noma lokhu udadewenu noma osebenza naye), cishe ngeke kukusize ukuqala ingxoxo le ntombazane "ukuxhumana". Ladies bathambekele elithile laba nombono ophambene Ukukhetha okunjalo, ngokungazi niqonda nabanye besifazane njengoba izimbangi yimpumelelo.
• Nakani amazwana odongeni. Akufanele yini "uyisigebengu". Okuthunyelwe izinkumbulo rapturous i kusihlwa wachitha nawe, equkethe isithuko noma obonisa uthando lwakho kakhulu uphuzo oludakayo, ngokusobala eziphindaphindekayo. Shiya ukubingelela iholide, izincomo izincwadi, ogawuthola, noma ukuhamba, ukusebenza nezindaba uhlamvu.
• Lebula izincwadi zakho ozithandayo kanye movie, izithombe zakhe, usitshele oyithandako.

iposi lokuqala

Sizé isigaba kubalulekile - iposi lokuqala. Ake sibone, ukuthi yini okufanele ngowokuqala ibinzana uthando ne intombazane , "In Touch"? Umlayezo wakho wokuqala - umkhondo ezinkulu. Futhi kudingeka aphumelele. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele ube yokuqala, singafani nabanye futhi uqaphe futhi umcabangele.

amantombazane amahle ngokuvamile ukuzwa izincomo ayethule. Ngakho-ke, intshiseko izithombe cool, ingubo amangalisayo noma amehlo okumnandi ushiye ngabandayo wakhe. Okuhle kakhulu, ukuthi nje ukunibonga banal, "Ngiyabonga."

Ungezwa eziningi izeluleko zokuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani bajwayelane intombazane "ukuxhumana". Izibonelo ezahlukene kakhulu. Esinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu - akuvamile ukubuza umbuzo okuyinto nokuphoqa impendulo eningiliziwe, okuyinto kahle eshaya iyiphi into ikhabethe bememezana wakhe yinto emnandi ababengayilindele. hook Omkhulu singasebenza njengesisekelo esiqinile sokufinyelela isilwane noma isithombe wathatha uhambo.

Kunoma ikuphi, ngaphambi kokuthi ubhale umyalezo wakho wokuqala, ukufunda izithombe lesihambi enhle. Bazakunazisa kanjani ukuqala inkhulumomphendvulwano intombazane "ukuxhumana".

izindlela ngempumelelo

Oholela kumanethiwekhi kwasemoyeni namanxusa isigamu enhle lwesintu, kubalulekile ukunikeza abanye izindlela eziphumelelayo, kahle kungase kutholakale izincwadi zeBhayibheli ongazijwayele.

• Amahlaya sicasulwa. Abanikazi of ukuncokola njalo kukhanga amantombazane, futhi embethe ifomu playful umlayezo ebangela isifiso uxabana, cishe never zishiywe.
• Lapho unquma ukuthi yini ukukhuluma entombazaneni: "Ngo-Touch", sebenzisa ulwazi lomongo enikeziwe kwi-albhamu isithombe, amavidiyo, uhlu lwemibuzo. Mhlawumbe usanda wavakashela umbukiso efanayo, funda incwadi efanayo noma wabelane izintandokazi yakhe umculo. Nakuba ukhetho "ukukopela" unelungelo eligcwele khona. Into kuphela ukuthi kufanele kubhekwe: umlayezo wakho kwaba yisicefe futhi banal. Yiba nje kancane - kanjalo nemizamo yenu ngeke ingaphendulwa.

Izihloko imiyalezo. Isebenza!

Kafushane kufinyeta ngenhla, kukhona izihloko eziningana ukuthi amathuba evulekile yokuxoxisana "ukuxhumana" intombazane. Bonke bangabangasokile ulula futhi asidingi wena ulwazi kwemvelo.

• Izehlakalo ezimanje (izenzakalo, amakhonsathi, izinhlangano, izinkambo waqondisa).
• Izilwane ezifuywayo (isibonelo, izingxoxo othandekayo wakhe "Fluffy" noma sikhangise izithombe zakho kitten ukuthintwa noma umdlwane ngezingalo zakhe).
• Ezemidlalo (uma ungomunye ungachithi wakhe).
• Umculo (isibonelo, i-club ebukhoneni isithombe kusukela amaqembu), izincwadi, amabhayisikobho.

Litseistka noma intombazane party

Ngaphambi ekugcineni banqume ukuthi yini ukubhala uma behlangana nentombazane "ukuxhumana", ukulalelisisa isimo sabo emphakathini, uhlobo uhlamvu wakhe futhi ububanzi ungachithi.

Litseistki - umfundi izikole zemfundo ephakeme, izikole, izikole zemfundo ephakeme, aphansi umfundi wasekolishi izifundo. Ngalezi amantombazane guy isilinganiso nje ngoba kwenkululeko izithakazelo zabo uyabikelwa uma uza futhi sihlanganise indawo ebanzi kakhulu. Njengomthetho, sikhuluma mayelana disco, uthole-togethers nabangani endaweni cafe, ngokuvakashela ebhayisikobho, edolobheni uhambo futhi namanye esake sawenza sisendleleni esifubeni nemvelo. Impumelelo ngokwanele ukuba bazi ukuthi kule ntombazane lobu kumnandi kakhulu futhi uqale izingxoxo futhi ukusekela isihloko enikeziwe.

Party intombazane - lover ukuchitha isikhathi kuma-nightclub nasezindaweni disco. Yasebusuku isisusa sabo esiyinhloko, umthombo wamandla omuhle futhi isithakazelo sokwenza abantu babe munye. ababamele - guys onamileyo. Ngakho-ke, uma sithembele reciprocity, umyalezo wakho wokuqala "VKontakte" kufanele avuse isimo sengqondo esihle futhi amahlaya incendiary.

nengoduso lwakho - i bokusungula

Uthande le ntombazane betadisha semfundo ephakeme, njalo emihlanganweni yezobuciko, unesithakazelo imidwebo, uthanda umculo we-classic, izinkondlo, imidlalo yaseshashalazini? Halala! Ukhethe bokusungula yangempela.

Mayelana isu eyamukelekayo lapho sisebenzelana litseistkami neqembu intombazane, kuyodingeka ukukhohlwa. Kulo mhlangano kufanele kube beat, Chivalry, ngezilokotho, romance kanye namahlaya ezicashile. Le ndlela ukuletha inhlanhla uma, phezu izincwadi ezifanayo ukufunda arsenal yakho akugcini izincwadi, futhi "Garri Potterom", futhi uhla izithakazelo kuhlanganisa Amabha ezemidlalo hhayi kuphela.

Siyaqhubeka inkhulumomphendvulwano

Umyalezo wokuqala, uthola impendulo enemininingwane (kungaba nesithakazelo - lokhu kuyinqobo lokuqala elincane, nawe nakanjani kudingeka ukuthuthukisa). Indlela ukuxhumana intombazane "ukuxhumana" sendlela uqhubeke ukwazana?

Khetha noma yimiphi ezithakazelisayo yakhe, bonisa ukuthi awukwazi kuphela ukulalela kodwa futhi ukuzwa. Uyoba yithuba elihle ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana wakhe, uhlamvu uncamela. Zama ukubheka izinto ngombono ngokwakho, musa ukugqoka ngokwakho, ungazami ukudala umfanekiso umnikazi akuyona eyinqaba kuwe izinzuzo. Yiba ngobuqotho, ngoba amanga kwaba kakade sobala emhlanganweni wokuqala empeleni.

Ukuphendukela inkhulumomphendvulwano eduze "VKontakte", ukuthatha isinyathelo esilandelayo - ucele inombolo yocingo bese wenze aphoyintimenti. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ukunikeza izinketho eziningana for indawo ngosuku lokuqala (ipaki, cinema, cafe ethokomele), enikeza intombazane isinqumo esifanele.

Amathiphu ambalwa

• kukhathazeka Away! Ukuxhumana ngezincwadi Umphikisi akhathazayo bangathandi iyiphi intombazane. inkhulumomphendvulwano lakho akufanele abe inqubo njalo akusho ukuvusa lutho kodwa ukucasuka.
• Wugcine umuhle. Shiya eceleni isitsotsi isitsotsi amazwi, musa ukubhala imisho abstruse, uzama kubonakale ngobuchule kunawe.
• Nakani kufundza nekubhala. Okuthunyelwe equkethe indawo emaphutsa esipelingi kuzokwenza kuphela ukumamatheka.
• Musa bayobuna isikhathi eside futhi musa ukuzindela isigaba we nengangibajwayele ebonakalayo. Uyoze ulinde senzo.
• Uma intombazane kukunika inombolo yakhe yocingo, ngimbiza ngokushesha. Ulindele ucingo lwakho. Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka ithuba ezingaphendulwanga.

Afterword

Kusobala ukuthi impendulo ejwayelekile umbuzo ukuhlangabezana kanjani "ukuxhumana" intombazane, lapho konke uzobe zibekwe phezu emashalofini futhi unika izincazelo isenzo alikho. Futhi lokhu akumangalisi. Ubuntu ngenkathi akekho kukhanselwe.

Ukuze amashumi namakhulu amathiphu, funda naningesiso ukwaziswa okungasizi lutho, ufunde indlela ayilalele, ukuqaphela izinto kancane ezingasho lutho Uma unganakile, umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama, zama ukuthola olunye ukuzethemba. Phela, kwakungeke kudingeke isinyathelo ngawe!