Ikhaya Nomkhaya, Izingane
Indlela ukukhulisa umfana kahle eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe
Kaningi kuyenzeka ukuthi abazali bafuna abe uyintombazane noma ungumfana. Kodwa kaningi zicabanga mayelana umehluko inqubo yemfundo, okuyinto kuxhomeke ubulili wosana? Kodwa kanjani ukufundisa umfana, indlela yokutshala ke endodeni yangempela - ndaba eyinkimbinkimbi futhi enezici.
Lokho mntwana wazalelwa
Lapho kuzalwa indodana, omunye imisebenzi yokuqala amnike igama indoda langempela. Kulokhu, odokotela bengqondo musa batusa akunika amagama kabili, ezifana Eugene, Valentin noma uJulius. Umbala oluhlaza izingubo musa ukudlala indima ekulu kumiswa abesilisa ababhekwa ngayo. Kungenzeka, isidingo sokuba abazali, zingabantu ngaleyo ndlela, njengoba kuwuphawu kwabanye ukuthi umkhaya ukhula indoda yangempela.
Unyaka wokuqala wokuphila
Boys abangaphezu kweminyaka engu-eminyakeni emithathu
Emhlabeni abazali waphawula ukuthi ingane ithola uzibuse iminyaka emithathu. Ngalesi ubudala, izinyane ukufunda ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, ukufunda ukuqonda ukuthi yini engalungile futhi okuhle. Kwakuphakathi nalesi sikhathi sikhathi, umfana libonakala sifise more ukuxhumana nabantu, kube njengoba abanesibindi, Qina, ume isibindi. Manje efaneleke kakhulu abazali abenza ezibuza "indlela ukufundisa umfana," kuyonikeza lungile hola, ukukhombisa ejwayelekile kakhulu ukuziphatha besilisa (ngokuqinisekile positive). Umama elusa ukhule ube "uyiqhawe", you bheka it, okokuqala kunakho konke, umuntu omncane, ngokukhetha isikhundla wobulili buthaka. Self-umfana kuyoba usizo uthintane naye, futhi makabe eqinile (isibonelo, abonisa ukuthi, ngaphandle-ke, nakanjani asewile). Futhi khumbula, imfundo engokomoya yezingane iqala okwamanje lapho abazali awanike aqonde ukuthi nawo angabantu amalungu omndeni agcwele.
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