Ukuziphelela, I-Psychology
Indlela yokuhlazisa umuntu ngokuziphatha? Bulala iZwi
Thola iphuzu elibuthakathaka lesitha
Into yokuqala okufanele uyiqaphele uma ufuna ukufunda indlela yokuhlazisa umuntu ngokuziphatha kwakhe ukubuka ukwehluleka kwakhe, kungaba ngokomzimba, ngokomoya noma kwengqondo, okungukuthi, ukuthola ubuthakathaka. Wena, njengeqembu elihlazisayo, kufanele likhululeke ngokuphelele kulokhu okungeke kwenzeke, ukuthobeka okungenjalo kuyolahlekelwa konke okushiwo. Okokuqala ungatshela lo muntu ngokuqondile, yedwa futhi ulandele ukusabela kwakhe. Uma ebhekene nokucasuka, bese uhlanganisa umphumela wokuphinda amagama afanayo emphakathini, kungcono uma kunabangane bakho ababili. Ngesidlangalaleni, akufanele ukhulume ngokuvulekile, ngakho-ke ukusola kokungacabangi akuwa phezu kwakho, ukusikisela nje kuzokwanela. Futhi, ungenza amahlaya mayelana nokushiyeka, ungabi nomuntu othize engqondweni, kodwa ukuthi usekude, futhi kwacaca kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi lokhu kuyinkinga yakhe.
Ngisho noma incazelo yehlaya lakho ingafiki kumuntu oseduze nawe, umuntu ozama ukuyihlazisa uyozizwa engu-100% esimweni esibi, yilokho okufunayo. Uma isitha sakho sibonakala silungile, futhi awukwazi ukuthola noma yikuphi amaphutha avelayo kuye, ungaphelelwa ithemba, akekho abantu abahle , umlinde, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzobona uhlobo oluthile lwephutha lakhe.
Vala umphumela
Indlela yokuhlazisa umuntu ngokokuziphatha, ukuze angakhohlwa ukuthobeka kwakhe isikhathi eside, futhi uhlale ezwa? Kulungile, wabonisa ukuthi ungumuntu omubi kangakanani, ngaleyo ndlela wamthobisa. Manje ake ucabange ukuthi weza ekhaya futhi ezungezwe abangane nabathandekayo ngokushesha bakhohlwa ngawe. Umbuzo uvela kanjani ukuhlazisa umuntu ngokuziphatha ngamagama ukuze ashiye umkhondo emphefumulweni wakhe. Indlela engcono kakhulu ukuxhuma abanye abantu. Ukuze uvele nesiteketiso esibukeka kahle esivela kahle ukubukeka noma umhlaba wangaphakathi womuntu, utshele abangane nabangane, cishe cishe bayothatha umqondo.
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