Indlela yokwazi i-Inthanethi nomfana? Ukwazi kanjani umfana onthanethi ku-inthanethi?

Manje kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi abantu bathole kanjani ngaphambili. Ngaphandle kwezingcingo, ngaphandle kwe-intanethi ... Ukuphila kuthathe umuntu wanamuhla ukuba aphenduke kangangokuthi ngisho nabantu abasha abanaso isikhathi sokuya kuma-discos - konke ukuxhumana kuye kwangempela. Uma eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule izindaba mayelana nokuthi umngane othile othile uhlangane nomfana ku-intanethi, futhi baphila ngokujabula njalo ngemva kwalokho, bafaniswa nezinganekwane, manje lokhu kuyinto evamile. Njengokuphila kwangempela, udinga ukulandela imithetho eminingana, wazi ezinye izimfihlo, ngakho-ke le ndaba yamaphuzu iba ngokoqobo kuwe.

Izinsiza

Ngesikhathi kusihlwa emva kwezinkulumo ezifundweni bese usebenza esitolo ufika embhedeni, futhi kunemizuzu engamashumi amathathu ngaphambi kokuba umzimba unikeze umyalo othi "call-off", udinga ukuhlola okungenani i-imeyili, ugijimele ku-Odnoklassniki bese ubheka udonga lweVKontakte. Futhi kanjani ukwazi i-intanethi nomfana? Uzoya kuphi ukukhishwa ngephupho elithandekayo? Zonke lezi zinsiza ezingenhla nezinye eziningi zenhlalo zihle kakhulu zokuthandana. Kukhona izindawo ezikhethekile kakhulu lapho abantu babhaliswa khona kuphela, ngakho-ke, ukusondelana (ngokuqonda okukhanyayo) ukuxhumana.

Yiqiniso, "iminyaka" engaphenduliwe, "iminyaka" ekhona futhi "izimpawu" ezikhona ziqinisekisa ukuthi izinhloso ezibalulekile zabasebenzisi, kodwa ukulinganisa kuthatha umonakalo, futhi ngokuvamile izenzo ezithile kufanele zikhokhwe, ngomqondo wangempela, nge-ruble. Emasayini amasha, kunamabhonasi amaningi, izipho nama-cool "chips" - udinga ukunakwa. Zikhethele ukuthi uzothola kuphi ikusasa lakho, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi uzokwenza kanjani.

Izithombe

Sivumelana ngaso leso sikhathi ukuthi sifuna indlela yokwazi i-intanethi nomfana ngobuhlobo obunzima futhi obuhlala njalo. Ngoba uma ufuna nje ukuxoxa ngento ethile noma ufuna ukusondela ngaphandle kokuzibophezela, khona-ke kwanele ukuthola isithangami esihlokweni. Sifikile ukwenza iphutha lezinganekwane!

Eqinisweni, isimo sokuthandana inethiwekhi kunesidingo sangempela. Thatha i-analogue i-disco efanayo. Into yokuqala noma yimuphi umfana ozoyibheka ngayo ukubonakala kwakho. Ngakho njalo, amadoda athande amehlo, okungenani imizuzu embalwa yokuqala.

Ngakho, ukugcwalisa lemibuzo, thatha izithombe ezinhle. Bavumele ukuba benze ubuchwepheshe, uma kukhona ithuba elinjalo. Kufanele ubheke njengemvelo futhi ekhangayo ngangokunokwenzeka. Shiya ama-facetious poses kanye nokumomotheka okunamandla. Isithombe kufanele sikutshele ngeqiniso eliningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi isimo sezenhlalakahle, nokuzilibazisa, nezici zobuntu - konke lokhu kungabonakala ekukhetheni kwezithombe ezithathwe kahle. Isibonelo, uma uthanda ukupheka, yenza isithombe esitejiwe ekhishini lakho, isithombe "sokupheka" singasilingeka kakhulu, ikakhulukazi ngoba amadoda afana nawo lapho owesifazane epheka kahle ... Kodwa ungawudluli, hhayi ezingaphezu kwezingu-10.

Ifomu lesicelo

Kubalulekile ukwethembeka ekugcwaliseni idatha yomuntu siqu. Ngitshele ngawe njengomoya. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ufuna umfana for "umbhangqwana" obambalwa, khona-ke singasho ukuthi igama lakho nguLilith, futhi bheka usuka eGreece uye eJapane. Kodwa sivumelanise ukuthi izinhloso zakho ziyinto engathí sina-yothando, ngakho konke kufanele kube yiqiniso ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokufishane, empeleni, kodwa hhayi kancane.

Zama ukugcina izimpendulo zakho kumagrafu yemibuzo yemibuzo yokuqala, enomusa, ezithakazelisayo. Ngempela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini, into ebaluleke kunayo yonke owesifazane ingqondo, bonisa ukuthi unayo. Hlanganisa i-chevalier engaba khona.

Ungafaki uhlu olude kakhulu noluningiliziwe lwezimfanelo okufanele zikhethwe. Umfana uzovele esabe ukwesaba kwakho ekubuzweni noma uzokhathala ngokufunda futhi "uzobalekela". Khetha amaphuzu ayisibili noma amathathu abaluleke kakhulu kumlingani. Futhi unganezela imisho embalwa ejwayelekile efana nokuthi "ufuna umlingani womphefumulo" - khona-ke udinga ukusebenza kanzima kumazwi.

Ubani owokuqala

Uma konke sekulungele: kunemibuzo kanye nezithombe - kufanele ulinde? Okuzikhethela. Ukuziphatha kwamanje kuyinto yokuthi intombazane inelungelo eliphelele lokuqala ukuya kumfana - yilale "umdanso omhlophe". Ukusebenzisa izihlungi ezahlukene: iminyaka, izinto zokuzilibazisa, inhloso yokuzijwayeza - thatha umbuzo othakazelisayo ngokwakho, funda ngokuningiliziwe lemibuzo, ubabaze izithombe ... Ulungele? Manje sidinga ukunquma ukuthi yini ebhalela umfana ku-Inthanethi.

Imithetho yokususwa. Indlela ...

Ungaqala ngemibuzo yomuntu siqu. Khumbula mayelana ne-disco. Uza kumfana futhi ... "Sawubona, wenza kanjani? Ufuna ukudansa?"

Uma ubuza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi ungahlangana kanjani nomuntu ku-intanethi, yini okufanele ubhale, uhlelo lufana nokufanayo. Nguwe kuphela osesimweni esingcono kakhulu mayelana ne-disco - usuvele wazi ukuthi igama lakhe lingakanani, nokuthi uyayithanda kangakanani. Yilokho ekuzilibazisa okungcono ukugcizelela emlayezo wokuqala.

Ikakhulukazi kusukela wakhetha le nsizwa ngokwakho, kusho ukuthi izinto zokuzilibazisa kufanele zikujabulise. Lokhu kungukuthi, inkulumo yokuqala ingaba lokhu: "Sawubona! Ingabe ugibele ebhodini ngempelasonto eledlule? Isimo sezulu sasingumlingo nje!" Usuvele umememele ukuba adlale. Imibuzo umfana onthanethi angahluka kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuthi bamthakazelisa kuye. Okulandelayo, ukunyakaza kwakho kufanele kube mnene futhi kuqaphe ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze ungamsabisi. Ubudlelwane kufanele bukhule kancane kancane.

Yiba ngowokuqala

Akwanele ukukhombisa isithakazelo ezenzweni zakhe zokuzilibazisa. Sidinga ukuthola ukuthi singamazi kanjani umfana ku-intanethi ku-Intanethi. Isibonelo, mcele ukuthi uvote wena emncintiswaneni othile othakazelisayo. Vele uchaze uhlobo luni lomncintiswano, futhi tshela ukuthi kungani uhlanganyela kulo, ukuze umyalezo wakho ungabonakali njengogaxekile. Noma umemele ukuba ancintisane. Yebo, kuzomele sizame futhi sithole umncintiswano wangempela esihlokweni, kodwa ngubani owakusho ukuthi okokuqala kulula? Futhi ungamtshela nge-seminar entsha yesiNgisi yamahhala noma izifundo ze-parachute ezivuliwe. Kuningi lokukhetha, kumele bonke babe ngabanye futhi bafaneleke kuphela kuye. Fantasize!

Yiba yiqiniso

Indlela yokwazi i-intanethi ngendoda, manje ucabanga ngalokhu noma kancane. Kodwa nokho siphila empeleni. Ake sicabange ukuthi kokubili ukuxhumana nokuxhumana okujabulisayo kwenzeka. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ngumhlangano.

Kodwa ungasheshi. Zama ukusungula ukuthintana okubonwayo ne-interlocutor. Isibonelo, ngokusebenzisa ikholi yevidiyo. Cabanga ngesizathu esithakazelisayo sokuxhumana okunjalo. Isibonelo, uzimisele ukumbonisa inja enophole ukuthi usanda kuqeda ukuthunga, noma i-puppy ephilayo ithengwe namhlanje. Uzoba nethuba lokubona isithombe, kodwa umuntu ophilayo, isibonakaliso sakhe sobuso, ukuzithokozisa, ukuzwa izwi, izinkulumo zokukhuluma. Ngezinye izikhathi yizi "ezibalulekile" ezibalulekile eziphikisa abantu kusukela phakade. Ngemuva kwalenkhulumomphendvulwano, kungenzeka ukuthi uqiniseke ngesidingo somhlangano womuntu siqu noma ngokuphambene nalokho.

Phakathi kuka "lapha" no "lapho"

Ngingathanda ukwabelana ngamaphuzu owodwa mayelana nokuthi ungamazi kanjani ku-intanethi, ikakhulukazi mayelana nokwandisa lolwazi. Ungaphuzi ngomhlangano womuntu siqu, uma i-interlocutor imnandi futhi iyathakazelisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele unamathele emphefumulweni womuntu, futhi uyakhala lapho ehleka. Ungacabanga? Amahloni! Futhi konke kuyinkinga yomuntu siqu. Futhi ungathola ku "okwamanje" - lo mfana akasenayo intshisekelo emihlanganweni yangempela. Angakhohlisa ikhanda lakho isikhathi eside, kodwa ekugcineni uzomane ephele.

Uma ukhulumisana nsuku zonke, khona-ke isonto lokuxoxisana kwi-intanethi kuzolungele ukulungela ukuya futhi ube nekhofi etafuleni. Kungashiwo yinoma iyiphi intombazane eyahlangana nomfana e-Inthanethi futhi ihlala naye isikhathi eside futhi ngenjabulo ...