Izinhlobo izingxabano futhi izixazululo zabo

Ukungqubuzana - omunye izici ezingajabulisi zokuya ezimpilweni zethu. Umuntu ngamunye uyaqaphela noma ngokungazi abafuna ukukubona, sihloniphe, abafuna ukwenza ubungani, ingcebo engokomoya nengokwenyama, nalapho endleleni izithakazelo zethu zishayisane izithakazelo zabanye abantu, it is kakhulu ubuhlungu. Ingasaphathwa iqiniso ukuthi izinhlobo ezahlukene izingxabano nangombango konakalisa ubuhlobo obuhle hhayi kuphela nomuntu ngqo kufakwe simo, kodwa futhi nabanye abantu dugimi, abahlanganyeli unwitting futhi ofakazi ingxabano.

Odokotela bengqondo ukutadisha izindlela yokulungisa ingxabano, baphoqeleka ukuba singawanyathela phansi izinhlobo. Njengoba esimweni ngasinye edingekayo indlela yayo.

Ngo Psychology yesimanje, lokhu okulandelayo izinhlobo of tembangave. Onakalisayo, okusho Isimo elimazayo futhi ezakhayo - nethonya elihle sonke isimo. Futhi ukwabelana izimpi imiphi phakathi kwazo kuphakama: phakathi kwabantu ababili, phakathi komuntu kusho kutsi lonkhe licembu. Kulesi ngezigaba zokusebenza kwengqondo engeza ukungqubuzana intrapersonal ngokwengqondo, okuyinto kuphakama kusukela umehluko phakathi izidingo namakhono, izifiso kanye zokuziphatha amagugu lomuntu.

Izinhlobo izingxabano ingahlukaniswa kuncike imvelo lapho zenzeka: zezombusazwe, ukusebenza, indima (isibonelo, phakathi komzali nengane yakhe, mfowethu nangokuthi dadewethu, indoda kanye nowesifazane).

Ngo production imvelo izingxabano kungaba ezahlukene. Yingakho division of the izinhlobo izingxabano enhlanganweni: phakathi esiphakeme futhi ilawulwe phakathi abangaphansi, phakathi kweminyango, amaqembu, futhi phakathi komsebenzi siqu futhi lonke iqembu. Eziningi zezimpi besingagwemeka uma wonke amalungelo nezibopho atloliwe, kanye ozimele zabiwa babusekelwe ezimfanelweni zabo siqu (ukusebenza iqembu akuzona labangani asondelene nabo kanye nabasebenzi okuhloswe ngazo yi Chile). Uma inhlangano yakho has a izingxabano ekhethekile ubuntu, kufanele bona "welulele 'kuwo onkhe ematiko ucabange indlela ungehlisa umthelela wabo iqembu.

Kunezinye ngeengaba eziningi (kuncike izimbangela, ngokwezinga). Zonke izinhlobo izingxabano zigqanyisiwe kuphela ukuqonda isimo futhi uthole ngendlela efaneleke kakhulu sokulungisa izingxabano. Uhlobo ngalunye ukungqubuzana has Dynamics ayo, nezimbangela zayo futhi ngokufanele isendleleni eya isixazululo. The main umsebenzi ngokwengqondo ebheke engqubuzanayo yabantu ababebazungezile - ukuletha ingxabano ngendlela enhle. Ngakho ayeke ukuthuthukiswa yayo futhi ukuqondisa amandla wokusesha lokho enivumelana ngako. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izingxabano zingaxazululeka ngokusebenzisa ebucayini, ususe isizathu umehluko futhi sokuqonda imibono yomunye umuntu.

Ngokwesibonelo, olunye uhlobo lwe-izingxabano zasemsebenzini ngokuvamile encishisiwe ngenxa yokungaboni ngaso linye izibopho zayo noma amalungelo. Kule mpi kufanele zithunyelwe nge ukucaciswa amandla nezibopho. Lokhu kusebenza kuzo zombili abangaphansi futhi abaziphethe. Gwema ukungqubuzana in imvelo umsebenzi ukusiza uchaze izincazelo umsebenzi, ukuthuthukisa amakhono abasebenzi iziqondiso ku amabhonasi kanye nezinhlawulo kanye namanye amaphepha emvume, okuyinto ngempela kumele baziswe yabo bonke abasebenzi.

Uma kwakuba khona ukungqubuzana phakathi ngabanye kanye lonke ithimba kuyasebenza - yimvelo kuhluke ngokuphelele, futhi ukuxazulula kufanele kube ngenye indlela. Izizathu kungafihlwa kulokhu kubulalana wemithetho womuntu noma zenhlalo elawula ukusebenza leqembu (isibonelo, isifiso ukuthola "Azazeli"). Futhi yokuqala futhi esimweni sesibili kubalulekile ukusebenza iqembu (igama - ngoba lowo muntu ayilungile, okwesibili - ngoba umuntu angaba neze isifiso bamsuse ayelenga ilebula).

Izinhlobo ukungqubuzana - esigabeni ezithakazelisayo kakhulu kwengqondo, okuyinto kusihlomisela ngolwazi eliyigugu mayelana nendlela uxhumane nabantu. Ulwazi izimbangela, Dynamics of the ukungqubuzana zikuvumela ukubona isimo kusuka ngaphakathi, ngomqondo ovulekile ukuhlola okwenzekayo futhi benze ngokuvumelana nezimo. Ngakho, ukuze ugweme izikhathi ezingemnandi, kokubili ngenxa yakhe uqobo nangenxa yabantu ababebazungezile.