Kanjani ukufundisa ingane ukuba Sadiq: amathiphu namasu

Ngemuva kwakukhona becabangela nobusuku obungamashumi emavikini ekucala nezinyanga wokuphila, walithanda imvuthu amakhono lokuqala, inkulumo namakhono. Futhi manje sekuyisikhathi ukuqala "ukuzwana nabantu." "Indlela ukufundisa ingane ukuba Sadiq?" - ukuthi lo mbuzo owabuzwa abazali abaningi. Phela, njengalawo ukuba indodana noma indodakazi ubumnandi sesibe iqembu.

Kufanele ukuthi umbuzo kanjani ukufundisa ingane enkulisa, kufanele uzibuze ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokuvamile omama, uphelelwe isineke, wamshaya encane imishwana ezenza enkulisa ukuze badle, ubuthongo, lalela. Noma ngisho athembisa ukukhokha ngenxa yokungalaleli ... Ukwenza lokhu akudingekile - ukufeza umgomo oyifunayo akunakwenzeka ukuba aphumelele, kodwa sigxilise ingane ukunganginambithisisi engadini kakade engekho kungaba kalula. Udinga ukutshela ingane ukuthi izingane, lapho esakhula, angena engadini (ungakwazi ukuqhathanisa nomsebenzi yezingane), kukhona ezithakazelisayo futhi kumnandi, izingane ukudlala ndawonye futhi udle, wonke umuntu uphephile futhi uhlaka. Vele musa uthole ulwazi kakhulu bahlobise futhi athembisa 'izintaba osemqoka "ukuze ugweme ukudumazeka kamuva.

Lithathelwe ingane Garden - inqubo kuyakhandla kakhulu. A izinyane ungaqala ukuba baziphathe ngendlela uncharacteristic, babe ezingezwakali ngaphezulu futhi unzima. Lokhu kungokwemvelo, ikakhulukazi uma iminyaka 2-3. Akubalulekile ukuba wamthethisa ingane, kunalokho, kufanele azungezwe uthando. Baby kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umthande namanje, ukuthi engadini - akusiwona isijeziso sakhe, kodwa ithuba ukudlala nabangani. Joint opopayi ukubuka, ukufunda ngaphambi sokulala, imidlalo, ahambisane nabantu abazali ukuze asize lo muntu kancane ukwamukela "imithetho yalo mdlalo" omusha futhi ukujwayela kubo. Ungakwazi izipho imvuthu ezincane, lezimanga ekhuphuka nge ukuzijabulisa kumnandi, pamper ke izitsha ewusizo futhi esihlwabusayo.

Ukuphendula umbuzo mayelana nendlela yokufundisa ingane enkulisa, akukwazi ukunganakwa umbuso zikhathi. Ikhambi best - ngisho izinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ngivakashe ngowokuqala engadini baqala kancane kancane bathuthele isimiso oyifunayo. Ukuze lokhu kufanele kucaciswe zasenkulisa, ngasiphi isikhathi udinga ukunikeza izingane lapho izingane ukudla kwasekuseni, kwasemini kanye isidlo ntambama, uhambe bese uya embhedeni. Uma pre-ukuhumusha umntwana mode oyifunayo, kuyoba lula ukujwayela indlela entsha yokuphila.

Ukuze ukuzivumelanisa ingane Sadiq wabe ngempumelelo, kufanele simfundise ukuzimela (Yiqiniso, ngokuhambisana amakhono ezihlobene nokukhula). Uma umntwana uyakwazi ngokuzimela noma ngosizo okuncane udle, ukuze Khumulani ingubo, kuyoba lula kakhulu ukujwayela izimo ezintsha. Angicabangi ukuthi encane lincane kakhulu amakhono anjalo: abaneminyaka emibili ngonyaka zigcina zingasaziwa ngempela ngempumelelo uliphakamisela spoon, asuse noma amabhulukwe Sula isibambo. A oneminyaka emine eside ukukhokhela ukuba agqoke futhi Khumulani ngokwakho noma ngosizo oluncane yathishela.

Kanjani ukufundisa ingane enkulisa, lapho wayegula njalo? Okokuqala, udinga ukwenza impilo. Kunconywa ukuba uvakashele Laura, udokotela wezingane Udokotela awe-aleji, uma kunesidingo, kanye nezinye izifundiswa. Futhi siqiniseke ukuba sifake ubekezele - ngisho izingane eziqine esikhathini okokuqala, qala ukulimaza kaningi. Abanye usizo isixazululi nkinga yehadiwe nezinsiza, abanye - ezihlukahlukene izidakamizwa ukuze uqinise amasosha omzimba, kodwa ngeke kuthathwe ngaphandle kokukhuluma nodokotela. Futhi uma banezinkinga ezinzima zempilo kusukela engadini kuzodingeka silinde.

Ngokokuqala ngqá kunconywa ukushayela ingane ukuba engadini "alinganisiwe": amahora ambalwa, bese dinner. Nge uthisha kanye nenesi bazane kangcono kusengaphambili bese uhlela aphoyintimenti nabo ikusasa kindergartner. Uma imithetho yesikhungo uvumele, ungakwazi ukuza nengane yakho sishaywe - ingane ngeke ukujwayela uthisha kanye ukudlala nezinye izingane.

Isimo lapho ingane akafuni engadini, akuve kuvamile, futhi akukho ongaziwa noma esabisayo. Kid kusukela maphakathi yonke iphenduka ibe ilungu iqembu lezingane, wokulamula nomama wakhe othandekayo (ikakhulu ngenxa imvuthu amahora ambalwa sengathi zithatha unyaka nohhafu), ezweni ethokomele kancane izincwadi eside ajwayelekile futhi ozithandayo namathoyizi ... Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, yini edingekayo kulesi sigaba of abazali ukuzola angikopeli wena uqonde ukuthi konke lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze nje baphile. Kuzothatha impela kancane isikhathi, nezinyane lembuzi eziyosebenza ensimini ngokujabula.