Kanjani ukuyenga intombazane. Amathiphi kusuka ubuso sowesifazane

Kuleli zwe lanamuhla, kaningi owesifazane enezinwele ukuthwala imithwalo yemfanelo amadoda. Futhi kancane kancane lolu hlobo esikhundleni waqala ukungena ngisho uhlobano phakathi kobulili. Ngokuvamile, intsha iziphatha ngesizotha kakhulu futhi musa alinge ngisho ukukhuluma intombazane. Kodwa cishe zonke wobulili fair uyaphupha ukuthi umuntu wenza isinyathelo sokuqala ukubanjwa nabo. Kepha akusikho lokho kuphela zithinta sezokuxhumana lezi zifiso. Kudala ngabona ukuthi uhlu fantasies zabesifazane isikhundla kunalokho okusezingeni eliphezulu kwaba isifiso zothando, futhi ngosuku lokuqala. Yiqiniso, ukwenza sengathi ubulili buthaka akunakwenzeka ukuba ixazululwe. indima yakhe nezimiso zokuziphatha, kwamukelwa kabanzi netimiso nomphakathi, kanye iphupho imfihlo ukuthi ngesinye, umfana omuhle futhi kulula ukugwinya ngobumnene Owesifazane lalithe ngci yinkungu romantic. Ngakho kangangokuba, ngaphandle ngisho nokuqaphela, kungaba kuqala ngimbheka abanothando, bese embhedeni.

amadoda Mhlawumbe abaningi ngezikhathi setha umbuzo ngempela ngokucindezelwa kanjani ukuyenga intombazane. Sekuyisikhathi eside iningi namanje isalokhu imfihlakalo ezingaxazululeki, izimpendulo engeke angatsheli muntu ubuhle. Ukuze ube elikhulu lokuba umnqobi, izinhliziyo abesifazane hhayi kuphela, kodwa futhi kwezinye izingxenye engengaphansi ezifiselekayo zazo umzimba, kubalulekile kuqala kuzo zonke owayeyazi kahle le Psychology abesifazane. Mayelana-ke namuhla futhi sizobe ukukhuluma.

Ngakho kungani, nazo zonke le isifiso esivuthayo okumelwe unqotshwe, le ntombazane akazange abonise yimuphi umsebenzi? Cishe nakakhulu, noHezekeli, ngazo zonke izindlela ukwenza kucace mayelana isimo sakhe sengqondo esiphambene maqondana eduze ngemva kwesikhathi esifushane kangaka ukuphola. Kufanele kube sobala ukuthi uma indoda engena ikhanda lakho umbono kanjani ukuyenga intombazane, futhi umeleli wobulili fair ngeke ukuhambisana naye. Futhi wonke amantombazane kusuka ebuntwaneni umthetho ukuthi Okuthakazelisayo, okokuqala kunakho konke, ukuthi akulula kangako ukuthola owaziwa. izintokazi Ngakho-nesizotha coyly ukwehlisa amehlo akhe, waphupha zasebusuku ezishisayo zokuphila kwakho ngasese. Ngakho indlela kowesifazane embhedeni itholakala kwemukelwa imithetho yalo mdlalo ukuthi kwaba kufika ku kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe. Kanjani ukuyenga intombazane? Vele qhashisa wo azi ukuthi wena wazi kahle ukuthi zonke izenzo "ezimbi" kuphela wena. Ake azizwe imbali elingenacala ngakho unceremoniously, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi enhle futhi ngobuhlakani olinga indoda. Believe me, kuyafaneleka nje ukudlala kanye, ngisho inkosazana obucayi kakhulu liyancibilika ngaphansi ayiphulule yakho unethemba, uyakhululeka, edonsa amehlo akhe obuqili: "Awu, futhi, nina, into eyodwa kuphela engqondweni yakhe ...".

Othile kokubuza umbuzo kanjani ukuyenga intombazane usuku lokuqala, uthola impendulo dogmatical okuthiwa uludinga ukukhombisa nandaba yakhe. Bese kuthi-ke owesifazane uyokwenza konke. Mangisho ukuthi lena indlela labo abakhetha indima ubukele zothando. On othile, le ndlela ungakwazi ngokuphelele futhi ukudlala, kodwa kukhona njalo nobubi. Abanye besifazane abangamaRom babesizakala abekho isithakazelo yomuntu kumuntu wakhe siqu, umane selaphe bese ukhetha into entsha, okuyinto uzothola amandla charm ayinqobe intombazane. Bese hhayi ukuchaza oyingini ka ekusinganyeleni languid lokho intokazi okwakudingeka akwenze konke yena.

Enye inkinga ngokucindezela okuyisihloko "kanjani ukuyenga intombazane ngokuyanga na?". Kulokhu, zonke manje kuxhomeke ekutheni wayithanda-ke. Uma ngixoxa indoda engawuboni zama "shaqa" ngaye ngokuguqa kokuwela izingalo noma imilenze futhi elungisa izinwele zakhe, uzama qondanisa amahlombe akhe futhi ngezinye izikhathi izindebe okuhlabayo, kuba ilungelo amasignali ukuzwelwa. Cala ukunciphisa ibanga. Ake izobukeka isizathu kahle igazi elingenacala, isibonelo, zama catch okuthiwa kangcono amakha amakha wakhe, okuyinto singenziwa ukuncoma avulekile. Ungenzi yimuphi ukunyakaza kungazelelwe, bese budebuduze ubuso bakho ukwenza intombazane bathuthumela ngesikhathi umbono amnandi. Zama ke kahle fuza esandleni sakhe, okungukuthi esihlakaleni. Uma akusisusi ezindebeni zakho, futhi kancane namahloni noma saba namahloni, ungaqhubeka ngokuphepha. Bheka intombazane emehlweni, ukuphefumula ngomoya ophansi futhi ngokushelela. zoom Slow ku ubuso bakho esihlathini sakhe futhi izindebe uthinte isikhumba. Uma kungenjalo-ke khona ukusabela, ilitshe esilandelayo sokunqoba isibe izindebe.

Ungene namanje ukucabanga nendlela ukuyenga intombazane futhi ungatholi anolaka ne ukungamukeleki? Impendulo ekungilo - ungabi nje ngokwabo, futhi ezifana ufuna ukubona owesifazane. Iba hero fantasies wakhe futhi ziyinto ongenakulibaleka olunikezile.