Ngokuhlakanipha Iwusizo umama osemncane yesimanje

kwekhulu lamashumi amabili nanye - isikhathi kolwazi, ngezinye izikhathi kakhulu kangangokuba Ngifuna ukukhala futhi akhohlwe, ungazi ukuthi yini okufanele bayikholelwe.

Futhi yini okufanele uyenze konke lokhu umama osemncane, owayesanda nje abelethwe up in ezingalweni zakhe ndoda omncane? Kuyini into ebaluleke kakhulu, futhi lokho akufanele sikhohlwe unina, ukunakekela lembuzi?

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kulesi simo kuyinto sihlale sizolile! Jabulela imizuzu wachitha nengane. Phela, lezi zikhathi kungukuthi okuphindaphindiwe. Yingakho uvumele uphumule futhi ujabulele ukuba ngumama.

Njengoba sekunama-indlela yengane komkhuba ukuphila siyashintsha kakhulu. Ekuqaleni wayehlala impilo efanayo, futhi manje umama osemusha uqalisa esinye isipiliyoni ukuphila elikhanyayo egcwele. Futhi ukuhlakanipha lokuqala sifundeka kanje: ". Ungalindela kuphela amandla abo" Futhi alungele yokuthi akubona bonke umngani wakho omkhulu noma intombi uyoziphonsa izinto zabo bese bebalekela aid yakho. Akuwona wonke umuntu usulungile ukushintsha ajwayelekile comfort zone, bayeke izindaba zabo kuze bo khe detriment. Ngakho-ke, ichaze ngokwakho onjani ongazenza ngokwakho nengane, futhi lapho kufanele badlulisele kumyeni wakhe, umndeni nabangane. Mhlawumbe okokuqala, ngeke ujabule, kodwa ingane zizoshintsha umbono nesimo sawo sengqondo emhlabeni.

Ukuhlakanipha ababili: "Ngaso sonke isikhathi khumbula ukuthi ungowesifazana ukuthi umama, nomfazi, inkosikazi, futhi inkosikazi, nendodakazi, futhi umngane ..." Akulona workhorse! Futhi uma esithile yamshiya, uzithathele esandleni. Kuphela wena ngokwakho ungaqonda, ukwesekwa futhi zishukumise.

Kule elandelayo ukuhlakanipha lwesithathu: "It is asathuthuka njalo kanye nokwenza ngcono." Ngenxa ubuchwepheshe ulwazi ngeminyaka, ukuthuthukiswa liphenduka umdlalo emnandi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, konke free. Asidingi okuningi imali, konke ku-intanethi noma izincwadi. Excellent master emakilasini ngoba ukunitha, efekethisiwe, ukuthunga, ibhuku elethusayo, ukufaneleka, yoga, nokunye okuningi.

Ukuxhumana nomphakathi kanye izinjini balinde wena nje uthayiphe umbhalo olufunayo. Futhi konke lokhu kungajayezwa ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya. umntwana wakho uhlale khona, ujabule ukuthi unina eduze kakhulu. Futhi uma saba ngomzuzu khulula nithanda ukufunda, vakashela manje abasebenzi emtatsheni wezincwadi wendawo uzama ukugcwala ezincwadi emisha zakamuva. Mhlawumbe ungathola into ewusizo for ingane yakho nawe. Ngokwesibonelo, kusimangaze enkulu yobuciko Culinary kusukela incwadi yokupheka, athatha umtapo.

Ukuhlakanipha wesine uthi: "Ngiyeke wena kufanele asolwe." Lapho umntwana ekhala, ungenawo amandla okuqhubeka, futhi uzibeka icala ngalokho? dirty laundry amanga azungeza izinsuku eziningana, ngigeze izitsha ungafuni? Futhi ake. Zinike ukuphelela, kodwa nje owesifazane ababuthakathaka ubani ofuna ukuba yena. Uma zeviki abahlulwa, uthole amandla ukuzama ukudlulela umculo, ingoma zakho ozithandayo ngisho noma akusiyo a static, futhi kusihlwa kuyoba mnandi futhi kuwusizo ukugeza ngamanzi afudumele nge amakhandlela olunephunga elimnandi.

Futhi umkhandlu yesihlanu ubuke umzimba. umsebenzi wansuku zonke, kuyokunikeza nokuzethemba okwengeziwe, uzokwazi ukubuyela kuyaqina zomzimba wakho ngemva kokubeletha babe obuqinile. Ingane encane idinga kakhulu ukunakwa, kungcono nenjini ukuthi ungalokothi uyakhathala. Yingakho kufanele ube i-generator enamandla ukuthi uzokunakekela nigcwalise amandla abo bonke abathandekayo babo

Futhi ukuhlakanipha zokugcina, ulalele okushiwo yinhliziyo yakho. Akubalulekile ukuba baphule izifiso zabo, zihlatshwe bebodwa, ngakho-ke ulindele ukuthi umuntu ngeke imizamo yakho. Khumbula: "Akekho bayokwazisa." Wonke umuntu imatasa kakhulu nge ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke, thatha isikhathi ngokwakho. Ubusisiwe wena, obathandayo bajabule.