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Nini futhi kanjani ukuba abusise indodana ngaphambi komshado

Ngakho, insizwa, handsome eqinile nginqume ukushada, wathenga indandatho, wathi kusetshenziswe amagama amathathu omazisayo "shada nami", abantu basabela ngezindlela ezinhle ... Manje wena kuphela uthole imvume yabazali bazo. Kanjani imizamo indodana ngaphambi komshado, kufanele yaziwe zonke umama, njengoba lo mkhuba wasendulo ibaluleke kuze kube yilolu suku. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sibadala noma ukwenza izinqumo ezinjalo, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunzima kangakanani ngamabomu - amazwi esikhuthazo kubazali kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze umbhangqwana abanquma uzobopha elikasofasilahlane. Nazi ezinye izindlela sendlela abusise indodana ngaphambi komshado.

nge isithonjana

Ngemva indodana watshela abazali bakhe ukuthi uthembisene umshado, futhi, esikhundleni salokho, wasekela isinqumo sakhe, umama nobaba kumele ukukhomba lo mbhangqwana ukuphila okujabulisayo, ongcwelisayo isithonjana endleleni umkhaya wabo olandelayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, yenza umkhuba okulandelayo: abazali ngesithonjana ezandleni akusibekele esiphambanweni darling indodana yakhe kathathu. Uma ungazi lapho icon indodana ebusisekile, ungakwazi ukuthatha isithonjana "Our Lady of Kazan ' noma" Face Ongcwele ". isikhalazo okunjalo kuMdali ukwenza umshado ojabulisayo futhi igcwele uthando nesihe sikaNkulunkulu.

yokuvalelisa ezinhle

Enye indlela kanjani ukubusiswa indodana yakhe, silula futhi kuba nengxoxo elula ezinhle ku imiphefumulo abazali kanye nabantu abasha. Njengomthetho, abazali babe abacebile ngolwazi of wokuphila komkhaya futhi lungaholela kancane usabe, sinikeze iseluleko esihle futhi yokuvalelisa. Ingxoxo enjalo njengendlela sesibusiso indodana ngaphambi komshado futhi okubaluleke kakhulu futhi lizungezwe imfudumalo abathandi, ukuthula kanye nokunakekela. amazwi anomusa anjengokuthi ivela Umama nobaba, kukhona kuyisibonakaliso sothando lwabo futhi enothisa emhlabeni engaphakathi izingane zabo, ebanikeza nokuvikeleka nokuthatha ukudabuka ngokuphila kwabo kwesikhathi esizayo.

ulinde isikhashana

Ngokuvamile kuphakama umbuzo: "wabusiswa kanjani indodana yakhe ngaphambi komshado uma ungenawo wasisekela isinqumo sakhe, noma umane engajabule ukukhetha darling?" Impendulo ilula: Linda kancane, ukunikeza isikhathi wena nezingane zakho. Mhlawumbe nge isikhathi konke uyowela endaweni: choice equlekile ukudumaza indodana yakho, noma, kunalokho, uzobe okungenazinkinga yiwo isinqumo esifanele.

Ngosuku lomshado

Futhi, abazali akufanele bayakhohlwa phuzu esibaluleke kangaka, njengoba izibusiso indodana yakhe ngaphambi komshado ngaphambi nje kokushiya endlini ngosuku lokugubha. Kulesi senzakalo, abazali esingazilungisa inkulumo ngenhloso. Lena osemqoka kakhulu umkhwenyana, kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo kuze kube umyeni esizayo isibusiso umkhaya kubhekwa lesinqumo asemthethweni ukudalwa emndenini wakubo.

Yiqiniso, ukuze senze lokhu isiko noma cha - kuyindaba yangasese. Kodwa akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi umshado - lena umcimbi senzeka kuncike canons futhi amasiko athile. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, kwakunenkolelo yokuthi umshado ngaphandle isibusiso womkhaya osemncane esasizobhujiswa kwi bahlupha. Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi intsha wazama ukuthola "imvume" kusukela abazali kakade futhi emva komshado, hhayi ukuze asilahle ngamacala ukuphila komkhaya wabo omusha e-usizi nokudabuka. Ikakhulukazi sina umama nobaba kudingeka sicabangele iphuzu lokusebenzisa kanjani ukubusiswa indodana ngaphambi komshado, lapho yena nengoduso yakhe wanquma ukuphinde ashade esontweni, ukuhlanganisa isinqumo sakhe phambi kukaNkulunkulu.

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