Nomfazi oyedwa - kuyini?

Kukhona umqondo ogcwele kubantu wokuthi abanye abantu - "Monogamous", kuyilapho abanye musa khumbulani njalo lithandana omunye. Ingabe kuyiqiniso lokhu? Kulesi sihloko sibheka into efana "kumelwe ibe nomfazi oyedwa" - kuyini? Futhi uma kukhona ngumkhuba ezingabantu?

Abesilisa nomfazi oyedwa: ukuthi kuyini nokuthi kukhona ke?

Abanye bathambekele bakholwa ukuthi abantu besilisa bekusolo futhi, eqinisweni, kufanele esithenjini, isb. A. Njengoba ezenziwa imvelo. Lokhu impikiswano ngokuvamile esetshenziswa ukuze kuthethelelwe ushintsho, kodwa kuthiwani kunjalo empeleni? Ingabe ikhona monogamous? Owesilisa kuholela "isazela eyisisekelo" ukuze abesifazane. Emvelweni ke kwenzeka kanje: abantu bahlangana futhi wakhulelwa inzalo. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi empilweni ke ukuqala nokuhamba noma "Bheka" ngakwesokunxele. Instinct isebenza, ke azizange zinyamalale. Umehluko wukuthi Owesifazane angaba ocansini namadoda amaningana, futhi ngenxa yalokho ukhulelwa ingane eyodwa kuphela. Le ndoda, nijabula abantu besifazane abaningi, ungakwazi zalisa bonke.

Nomfazi oyedwa - kuyini nokuthi kungani kudingeka?

Yebo, isazela oyinhloko uhlale uphephile, ukuze sisinde futhi sizale. Kodwa indoda wedwa ibuthakathaka. Ukuze sisinde, kubalulekile ukuba sisondelane naye nabanye abantu. Ngakho-ke, lo muntu futhi kudingeka ibe nomfazi oyedwa. Okokuqala, ukuncintisana namanye abameleli "ubulili namandla", kanti okwesibili - ukuba owesifazane wakhe wamsekela, wamsiza, wayebakhathalela kuye. Ngakho-ke, ngo- ubuhlobo monogamous zifeziwe, kokubili isazela - isifiso ukuze sisinde okuzala. Odokotela bengqondo sikholelwe ukuthi uthando - lokhu akulona izinkondlo, kodwa imfuneko edingekayo, okuyinto eklanyelwe ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha komuntu.

Nomfazi oyedwa - ukuthi iyini nendlela okusebenza ngayo emshadweni?

umshado Civil - into eyinqaba. Kubonakala edabukisayo Is kuze buyisa phezulu, eduze futhi ngandlela-thile scary. Okuningi uyindoda inketho - lapho abantu ngemuva imishado eziningana. Bengasesabi elizobhekana. Inkinga yethu ukuthi asikwazi baziqonde bona ngokwabo, ukuqonda izidingo zabo futhi imizwelo futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi esikudinga ngempela. Ngiyavuma ukuthi "dopoluchit" oyifunayo ubulili kulula emunye monogamous kakhulu kunalokho 'okunamathela' uma ubudlelwane esithenjini.

Uma umlingani abaqotho, ungakwazi uxhumeke intelligence ubuhlobo futhi udale nakho mkhulu indiza ezingokomzwelo nezingokwenyama. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukudala izimo esikhethekile lovemaking, amandla kungenziwa eyakhululwa lokudala, ezemidlalo noma emsebenzini. Ubulili kungatholakala, kodwa ukoma uthando, uthando nokuqonda akunakwenzeka ngaphandle ubuhlobo monogamous. Enesithembu monogamous ukusinika amathuba ehluke ngokuphelele, futhi okuphambene. Uma kungekho okunamathiselwe enhliziyweni ngandlela-thile kuyoba isikhala acabanga ukuthi yenza kwabanye ngosizo "uthando" izilwane, imikhaya zabanye abantu nabanye. Kodwa lokhu namanje akufani.

Thina ukwenza izinqumo. Futhi uyaqaphela. imizwelo yethu awanele ukudlula engqondweni, ngakho ungasoli nemvelo. Futhi sikhokhe inani izinqumo zabo. Ngokwesibonelo, abanye abesifazane senqabe kusukela isifiso ukuba babe nezingane futhi ukuze uvumelane ukuxhumana ubulili ezimbi, kodwa ephephile. Kukhona amadoda akhokhela ithuba ukulala nabesifazane ezahlukene kokuntengantenga kwezomnotho, ukukhathazeka nokungalondeki.