Okufanele ukwenze nengane

Imidlalo eqhutshwa nengane ngendlela esifike ngesikhathi, okungukuthi, kusukela ngineminyaka engu-bokuqala, qiniseka babe yisibambiso enhle, ikusasa yakhe iphumelele, njengoba kusho okuningi ekukhuleni kwengane.

Lapho kuphakama inkinga, yini okufanele uyenze nengane, preference kangcono ukunikeza umzimba enjalo nje ukubungaza ke, nento ukufundisa, isitimela ukucabanga, ukukhumbula, inkulumo, logic. Futhi scary, uma ukudlala ngonyaka ezimbili noma ezintathu ubudala uthatha kuphela imizuzu embalwa, into esemqoka - umphumela.

Ngakho, yini okufanele uyenze nengane izinyanga 12-15 ukwenza kube kumnandi futhi ewusizo? Ngakho ingane, athanda push ithoyizi (isib umshini). Kuyinto kudingekile kuphela ukubabonisa indlela yokukwenza: "Nelinye ezintathu - push". Bajabulela wazi ukuthi bona ngokwabo baye kwabangela ukuba inhlangano kwaleso sifundvo lubuye ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthuthukisa ngendlela ukubambisana, ukuzethemba okunjalo.

Nangabe usebenta nebafundzi labadzala udinga ukudlala imidlalo ezikhula ukunakwa, futhi inkumbulo, futhi ukucabanga okunengqondo. Ngokukhethekile, ngokucophelela funa, yini okufanele uyenze nengane, kungenzeka ukusebenzisa etholakalayo kakade imidlalo yakhe, izithombe, nanoma yiziphi izinto. Ngokwesibonelo, uma kukhona ikhadi izinto ngesineke kufanele sizihambise ukuhlela kwabo baba amaqembu ukuze ezinye izici noma ususe isithombe angahambisani indaba ephathwayo. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi izenzo zabo futhi izinqumo kugomela ingane ngokuzwakalayo. Lokhu kuyomsiza esikhathini esizayo ukucabanga ngokunengqondo futhi kwezinye izimo.

Lapho ekhetha lokho okufanele ukwenze ingane ekhaya, ungahlala ngokungafanele ukhohlwe ekhaya lanamuhla yaseshashalazini. Ideal ukusebenzisa igilavu-upopayi, abe ingane ubona wakhe abagqoké ingalo, njengoba samuntu ubuntu bakhe siqu. Ekhulumela amathoyizi, kulula ukukhuluma ngemizwa yabo, ukwesaba, bonisa ohlangothini ofihliwe.

Lapho ucabangela lokho ozokwenza nengane, ungakhohlwa mayelana nezwe. Phela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi emangalisayo ikamelo umdlalo namabhuku ezihlakaniphile, azikho ngaphansi ezithakazelisayo lesikhala umntwana - kuba lomgwaqo. Noma yimuphi uhambo noma uhambo nge efanele kusukela abaphezulu bangaba Ezifundweni omkhulu futhi okucebile. Nezingane ezincane kakhulu ungenza run, ukudlala Fihla futhi afune, zozela zonke, kumazwana lokhu abakubonako. Kuzoqalwa nge-iminyaka emibili, izingane bayakwazi ukuba banake icula, umsindo umoya, izinguquko nemvelo, ezihlobene isikhathi sonyaka.

Ngenhlanhla, lo kancane has ukubambana ukuthi benzeni ingane ehlobo. Insiza kuyofika lenqwaba imidlalo ongaphandle bonke ubudala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, hhayi kuphela ukuthuthukisa ngokomzimba amandla izinyane lembuzi, kodwa iso elihle, umuzwa isigqi ikhono lokuphendula ngokushesha ukukhombisa ikhono lobubhalo, ngokunembile ukubala izenzo zabo. imidlalo Outdoor ukusiza ingane ukuthi ajoyine ithimba, funda ukuba abambisane ngenkuthalo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngokuthula ukuxhumana nontanga yabo.

Ukuze izingane ukusuka ekuzalweni kuye unyaka owodwa ubudala amakilasi ezifana anesizotha kungagcini yokuzijwayeza, ifunda ukukhasa, ukubhukuda, ume bese uhambe.

Izingane kusuka onyakeni owodwa kuya kwemibili nemnandi ukudansa kuya umculo, unqobe lo Yiqiniso isithiyo, wahlela ikamelo yezinto ukudlala "ukubamba-up", "Fihla futhi afune" e umunwe imidlalo, ephelezelwa amavesi ezithakazelisayo.

Okungukuthi, abangabantwana amadala ingane, aba maningi uhla zonke izinhlobo umzimba.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo amakilasi ukukhetha abazali, kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi lapho umdlalo kid ifunda. Ngosizo lwawo kuba a nomphumela oqabulayo ngokusebenzisa ke kuzibonakalisa ngendlela efanayo njengoba abadala bazikhulumele ngokusebenzisa inkulumo. Uma ingane basiqonda, wamukela abaphezulu, nomphumela oqabulayo umdlalo luphakanyiswa izikhathi eziningi, kukhona ekunqobeni izimpi zombango, sidlule isimo neurosis, kuyashesha ukukhula nokwakheka kwalo.