Ukubhula ngokufunda intende: ulayini umshado phezu isandla

Isayensi ukubhula ngezinombolo imigca izandla elisuka endulo. Ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka adlule, "ukukhanyiselwa" baye bakwazi ukubikezela ikusasa noma ukuze usakaze esidlule womuntu, indlela yokuqala enjalo. Kamuva kwaba igama isayensi - ukubhula ngokufunda intende kufika kithi evela amaGreki. Ekuqaleni wasebenzisa igama elithi «cheiromanteia»: ifake amagama amabili ngesiGreki, "cheir» futhi «manteia», okusho ukuthi "isandla" futhi "lokubhula ', ngokulandelana. Kunengqondo, yini ukuhlobana okukhona phakathi izici ezifana ajwayelekile kanye kuyinsakavukela entendeni, futhi ikusasa lawo indoda? Kungani ingqondo umugqa, umshado umugqa ukuphila isandla? Uma esikhathini esidlule, abantu abaningi babengajwayelene othambekele hoaxes ahlukahlukene, lendoda wanamuhla kunzima ngempela ukuba sikuthathe njengokungathi sína yikuphi ukubhula.

Kodwa, naphezu kwayo yonke imiqulu ngesikhathi izwi zokungabaza, ngayo ukwazi ukuthi abantu izenzakalo ezifanayo ekuphileni ngempela nobuntu izimpawu ezifanayo ezandleni zakhe. Hhayi lutho ukuthi okhokho bethu wanika mshini idatha kubaluleke kakhulu. Phela, ngamunye wethu ufuna okungenani ukubukeka kancane esikhathini esizayo ukwazi ukuthi ukulungiselela, noma ngisho zama ukushintsha ikusasa. Ngazo zonke izikhathi abantu bakufuna futhi ngifuna indlela yokukwenza, futhi ngokuvamile ukuthela iba ukubhula ngokufunda intende. Phakathi kwezinye zezinto eziphilayo eyaziwayo ukubhula akuyona ngaphezu kwanoma yimuphi omunye kubonakala sengathi isayensi sina, ulwazi kuwo ngendlela ehlelekile, futhi nencazelo yabo lesifanele kuchazwa ezihlukahlukene izincwadi. Ukuze nezinsizakalo zabantu, uye wanquma ukuzama ukubikezela ngokudweba ku izintende, okubonwayo ekhulwini wawobaba.

umshado Line phezu isandla

Lolu phawu itholakala emaphethelweni isandla sakhe, kulula kakhulu ukuthola. Udinga ukubheka endaweni engaphansi kumila umunwe kancane, phakathi kwakhe umugqa inhliziyo. Kuziwa yonkana, kodwa bakwazi ukuba eyehlelayo ehlukile noma amagatsha. Ngakwesokunxele bese ngakwesokudla umdwebo kungahluka kakhulu, eziningi kangaka abaqondi, ngoba abanye babo kufanele enze isibikezelo. umuntu yeqiniso kubhekwa kwengalo zokusebenza, okungukuthi, ngakwesokunxele-hander line ebalulekile emshadweni esandleni sakhe sobunxele. A sokudla, ngokulandelana, kubalulekile ukubheka ngakwesokudla. Ucwaningo ezinemininingwane eminingi idinga ukuhlola esibonelweni izandla zombili, kodwa nge ukunemba kuphela uchwepheshe uzokwazi akhiphe ke. Line umshado ususondele akukwazi eziningana, kodwa akuwona wonke ngempela umshado. A indima enkulu udlalwa lapha ukuma nendawo uphawu.

Nokho, okhokho bethu, kubhekwe yonke imininingwane kule nsimu ngomshado, kodwa lonyaka wesimodeni, ukuziphatha yayo esinophawu lwesehluleki, umugqa enjalo kungasho civil union noma kudingeka ube nothando olujulile. Lokhu kuyohlanganisa kungenzeka angene ukuba nobuhlobo obungathi sina, eye yasetshenziswa cha.

A uhlobo kwendawo ngaphansi kwalapho kumila khona umunwe kancane libizwa eGqumeni Mercury. Lokho-ke uphetha ngokuthi emgqeni ngishade yesandla somuntu, okuyinto kuyofika noma isivele inyunyana esemthethweni (futhi ingasho isibopho esiqinile ngokomzwelo). Kahle kahle, uphawu Kufanele ibe mide, kahle ichazwe futhi iyunifomu phezu kwawo wonke ubude, kodwa isibonelo esifanayo kwenzeka njalo. Kunezindlela eziningana esihle, kolayini ezicashile kungase kubonise khona abantu abathanda ukuphila noma intombi eseceleni kanye womshado olusemthethweni.

Izimpawu kanye mshini

Uma ezincane, izimpawu emifushane kungamathuluzi buqamama, abakubonisayo uxhumano ibingaba eyesikhashana ngempela. Kunoma ikuphi, kusobala ukuthi le zinde futhi zithinte izinto uboniswe umugqa ngomshado phezu uhlangothi, kunokwethenjelwa futhi Ngeke lezi ubudlelwane. izici eziningana eside uphawu nemishado eziningana ekuphileni kobuntu. Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuphakama efanayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Maphakathi komugqa wokuphila umunwe kancane esithathwayo njengenhlangano engu-eminyakeni engaba ngu-22-25. Ngenhla ubudlelwano yamuva nje, futhi ngezansi - ngaphambi. Kodwa lokhu ukushiyana kwezidalwa eside osebenza ku intsha, njengoba nasenkathini endala, le ndawo ku entendeni ingahlanekezeka futhi ilahlekelwa ukuqagela yayo ukunemba.

Zibe mhlophe futhi elicwengisiswe ekupheleni komugqa umshado lithi ubuhlobo yokugcina imizwa izoyenqaba. Emthambekeni umugqa inhliziyo kungasho ukuthi umngane womshado kuba umfelwa (noma ngokuphelele ashaye ukuthi lover yakhe yokuphila yangaphambili nokuphilela). Ukuma mihlobiso umemezela izingxabano njalo futhi spats. Line womshado, ukufinyelela khumbulani umugqa, wathi mayelana isihluku omunye abashadayo. I-plug ekuqaleni noma ekugcineni isitshela nokungafani kwemibono. Kuye indawo, kuba ukuxoxa ngazo ukuba ubuqede ubuhlobo noma ukugxeka kwabo ekuqaleni. Cross wakhuluma ngesimo izithiyo, kungaba ukugula, ukulimala noma sokukhaphela. Bobunjwa be-Jomethri (isikwele, unxantathu) kusho umshado engalingani, kungenziwa ukuyiveza omunye abalingani. Inkanyezi elifanekisela sokukhaphela.

Kodwa kuwufanele ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu kuba khona ulwazi eyisisekelo kuphela, angeke akuqinisekise ukunemba okuphelele. Phela, zonke uphawu kancane, dash ngamunye obonakala ungelutho Ungashintsha ngokuphelele zonke bokubikezela.