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Ukweba umlobokazi, noma ukuthi kufanele awubambe kanjani lokhu fun mkhosi?

Yiqiniso, ebhekisela nokuntshontshwa umakoti, wonke umuntu ngokushesha efika engqondweni yakho movie "Prisoner of eCaucasus". Kodwa abaningi abazi ukuthi leli siko beza kithi ngokuqondile kuleso sifunda. Nokho, ngaphambili umakoti ukuthumba eCaucasus wawungelona nje isiko enhle esishukumisayo yomshado. Kuyinto uhlobo imishado engokomthetho. Le nsizwa wathandana intombazane, ayengakwenza, kanye nezinceku zabo noma abangane nje ukweba it out futhi imenze uqobo. Uma wachitha ebusuku emzini wakhe, kukholakala ukuthi enenkosikazi esisemthethweni. Kulokhu, ingane ayisekho mhlawumbe ukuze ashade omunye.

Ngokwemvelo, kulesi simo, ukwebiwa umakoti kungenzekani ngaphandle kwemvume yayo. "Umuntu ekhetha umfazi, akusiye owesifazane - indoda" - lawa emasikweni amazwe Caucasian. Yiqiniso, kuze kube manje, lezi zindlela ziye abe nomusa ngaphezulu zokuhlukumeza abesifazane, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunezindlela namanje amacala okuthumba ngenxa yesivumelwano umshado. Kodwa lokhu kwenzeka kakhulu kuyaqabukela.

Ngokuqondene amazwe Slavic, kukhona nokuntshontshwa umakoti - kuwumkhuba enhle futhi bejabule, okuyinto waqale kwenziwe ukuze uqinisekise imizwa nomkhwenyana. Ngaleyo ndlela ukufakazela uthando lwakhe umakoti. Nokho, kuyindida ukuthi kwaba umkhuba izivakashi cabanga isidina kunazo. Lezi idatha eyatholakala ngenxa inhlolovo yezenhlalakahle labantu ezweni elaliyiSoviet Union. Ngakho sanquma ukunikeza abanye izincomo kuzo, usebenzisa okuyinto ungenza ukuze nokuntshontshwa umakoti emshadweni kuyoba mnandi futhi kulula:

  1. Okokuqala, akufanele "ukweba" umlobokazi, uma ubona ukuthi ukhulelwe. Lokhu kungaba ingozi kuye nomntanakhe.
  2. Uma kunjalo izivakashi namanje wanquma bona emkhosini empilweni, kufanele siqiniseke ukuthi umakoti nomkhwenyana musa khumbulani lokhu. Phezu kokuthola imvume izivakashi, okuyinto unomthwalo ekuhleleni "izinyathelo" kufanele nixoxe butholakala enqubweni eyinkimbinkimbi yokuthela a Umphathi wohlelo. Kulokhu, umcimbi wakho ngeke jikisa isiphithiphithi labetibambile kumnandi futhi kulula. Ekulungiseleleni ukweba nokuthi kufanele sicabangele indlela uya ledzinga isihlengo, futhi yini izimo ifakwa phambili. Njengomthetho, kungcono beveza eminye imisebenzi fun for nomkhwenyana kanye nofakazi. Khona kumnandi kakhulu ukuba seduze. Uma sikucela utshwala kanye amaswidi, kuba banal futhi ungakujabulisi. Lapho ecela imali, futhi awubukeki limnandi. Phela, umakoti abunakuqhathaniswa, futhi ngaphandle kuba - akulona lezimpahla ukuze iyithenge.
  3. Ukweba umakoti kufanele iqhutshwe ngesikhathi lapho akekho noyedwa kulabo abakhona, kuhlanganise umkhwenyana, ungalindi. Khona-ke udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi endaweni lapho amantombazane afihle, udinga ukukhetha ngaphambi komshado, ukuthi kwakungekho lokudlela futhi isikhathi.
  4. Iphuzu elibalulekile - ke kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi benzeni izivakashi uma umakoti umngane wakhe kuyoba beyofuna umakoti. Ngokuvamile, omunye amabili izinketho baye ngokwesiko ekhethiwe noma izivakashi futhi iqhaza wosesho, noma njengoba toastmaster usixoxela kubo ngosizo imincintiswano ehlukahlukene. Yiqiniso, izivakashi kufanele bazazi okwenzekayo. Kungenjalo, isimo siyoba ezihambisanayo.
  5. Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ubambe emcimbini besamukela ezingaphezu kuka imizuzu engu-15, ngoba izivakashi ngeke be bored, nomakoti kakhulu. Ingabe siqale ukuhlunga budlelwane ukuthi kungathatha isikhathi eside. A wedding ingenzi lutho okwamanje. Futhi, ngaphandle kwalokho, ukweba umakoti - elalenziwa ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu uyakuthanda okufanayo.

Into kakhulu eziyisisekelo kuleli umcimbi - perky futhi kumnandi. Futhi kuncike ngokuphelele nobunyoninco namasu iqhaza. Lokho kwaba hhayi kuyisicefe, cabanga ngayo yonke imininingwane kusengaphambili. Khona-ke konke kuyoba mnandi futhi ezithakazelisayo! Futhi mazihlazeke phambi ubani ngeke, futhi izivakashi uyokwaneliswa futhi ushiye ne nakho emnandi!

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