Unswinyo omuhle loluhlelekile nalolungakahleleki

Ngandlela-thile, ngamunye wethu incike umphakathi lapho ukhona. Yiqiniso, lokhu ngeke babonakale nesikhathi egcwele abantu abathile, ngoba wonke umuntu umbono wabo futhi umbono mayelana nodaba oluthile. Nokho, ngokuvamile kakhulu umphakathi uyakwazi ukuthonya ukuziphatha kwabantu, ifomu futhi ushintshe kwawo nesihloko ngezenzo zayo siqu. Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sibangelwa libhekene ikhono abamele ethile imiphakathi ukuphendula lutho ngokusebenzisa unswinyo.

Zingaba ezahlukene kakhulu: emihle nemibi, kokubili loluhlelekile nalolungakahleleki, zomthetho kanye zokuziphatha, nokunye. Ingxenye enkulu yale ndawo incike Kanti ziyini ngempela isenzo umuntu.

Ngokwesibonelo, i-kwabaningi bethu indida emnandi kunazo kuyinto unswinyo lolungakahleleki omuhle. Ngakho-ke yini empeleni yayo? Okokuqala, kufanele kusho ukuthi emihle kungaba unswinyo njengoba ngokwethukela, esisemthethweni. Lo mqeqeshi owake wapheka nendawo ukuba, isibonelo, endaweni yomsebenzi womuntu. Omunye kungaba ucaphune isibonelo esilandelayo: isisebenzi sasehhovisi waphetha eziningi amadili imali eningi - amakhanda ngoba wakhipha incwadi, wavusa isikhundla futhi ngawakhulisa inkokhelo yaso. Leli qiniso liye owawusekelwe imibhalo ethile, okungukuthi olusemthethweni. Ngakho-ke, kulesi simo, sibona imvume esisemthethweni omuhle.

Eqinisweni, i-unswinyo omuhle lolungakahleleki

Nokho, ngaphezu ukwamukelwa esisemthethweni iziphathimandla (noma isimo), umuntu ngeke banconywa yiziphathi-mandla asebenza nabo, abangane, izihlobo. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuzibonakalisa endaweni ukwamukelwa ngamazwi, ukuxhawulana, izingalo nokunye. Ngakho, ngo-ingxenye umphakathi uzonikezwa unswinyo omuhle ngokwethukela. Akaphishekeli thola ukubonakaliswa kwangempela, kodwa iningi labantu kubaluleke ngaphezu inkokhelo ngisho ephakeme.

Kunezimo ezinengi maqondana lapho omuhle unswinyo lolungakahleleki singasetshenziswa. Izibonelo uzonikezwa ngemuva kwalokhu.

1. Le nsizwa baphendula Isalukazi ngaphesheya komgwaqo. Income futhi isikhuthazo asithola kokubili owesifazane osekhulile, futhi kusukela abedlula ngendlela. Ngeke uzwe sibonga inkulumo yakhe.
2. Walahlekelwa ku sobudala ibhasi isikhala impi. Lokungakahleleki imvume omuhle wamukela ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngo amazwi okubonga futhi efisa ukuze zithole injabulo.
3. Umfana kususwe isihlahla wekati. abanikazi isilwane hhayi kuphela sidumise, kodwa futhi ukwaziswa mayelana izenzo zabo ezinhle kubazali bakhe. Kulokhu, kokubili kungenzeka ukwelapha itiye ingane wena nge ikhekhe, neliyoba i imvume nalolungakahleleki (naphezu ukubonakaliswa kwangempela lokuvunywa isenzo sakhe).

Ngakho, kungenzeka ukulandelela, ukuthi lolu hlobo izenzo ukukhuthazwa umuntu avame ebonakaliswa izimo ezincane zosuku nosuku.

Nokho, njengoba kwaba njalo endabeni ka-ukunyuselwa amaholo, unswinyo esisemthethweni emihle esingase babambisane akhona ne ngokwethukela. Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu lithole nendondo ngenxa isibindi empini. Kanye udumo sezikhulu kuhulumeni, izothola ukwamukelwa kwabanye, ukuthandwa umhlaba jikelele kanye nenhlonipho.

Ngakho, singasho ukuthi unswinyo loluhlelekile nalolungakahleleki omuhle singasebenza eyodwa nesenzo esisodwa.