"Uthanda kimi!" Noma akhuluma ngalo kowesifazane

On iplanethi enguMhlaba, kunezigidi zabantu, futhi wonke ehlukile. Ezinye eqinile, ezethemba, siyaludinga. Abanye - nesizotha, namahloni, unamahloni. Kodwa wonke, ngaphandle kokukhetha, ufuna ukuzwisiswa, obathandayo, ujabule.

Vele emashumini ambalwa eminyaka edlule, ukuphola lungelo kanye nokuthuthukisa ubudlelwane endabeni yomuntu wesilisa, amantombazane futhi Kwakudingeka sibe nesineke futhi ulindele ukuba banake. Kodwa nge kusungulwa feminization emphakathini ngokukhulu ukushesha isithombe Kuthi ezahlukene. Yebo, amantombazane zonke njengoba umxhwele bangase babheke ababamele, bebubula kancane ngazo, ukukhathazeka ukuthatha "omdala" isixha yakhe yokuqala. Kodwa baye baba pragmatic futhi onomqondo ontanga yayo okuningi izolo, funda wonke ancike ngokwabo, luvula indlela empilweni yengalo yakhe, ngisho ukwamukela izincomo kalula.

I ungcono kunabanye ngenxa yabantu phezu kwabesifazane irrevocably kunezimpande esikhathini esidlule. Futhi amadoda ngoba uzame ukunqoba le ntokazi, ukunakekela kwakhe akusona iyaphumelela njalo. Oma phambi le nsizwa umsebenzi nge angaziwa eminingi: indlela asebelazi intombazane? Futhi uma kuphela ukuhlangabezana nawe! Futhi kanjani behave fana ukukhuluma intombazane futhi ngalokho, lapho, ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo? Yini eyofika lokhu? Uma ngaphambili ezimweni 90 100 guy babengaqiniseka kangaka ngokuthi, ekuphenduleni ngamazwi akhe le ntombazane eyelashes ngobumnandi ta nangentshiseko ulalele konke akushoyo (ikakhulukazi ezindaweni lapho owesilisa uba ukusweleka ecacile kanye bazoba ngabelusi ngothi), kodwa manje izinto zihlukile . Man kalula "otshit" ngaphandle ilungelo umzamo wesibili ngesikhathi ukwazana.

Ngalokho abelusi baka Loti: Yena Yena. Uthanda ke. Noma, okungenani, unesithakazelo. Ungakhuluma kanjani intombazane? Lapha ngeke sikwazi ukunikeza zimo ezimbalwa.

I simo sokuqala - khona nabajwayelene nabo ezivamile

Lapha, yonke into ilula: ukuvumelana kusengaphambili, cela ukuthola, okwethulwa komunye nomunye. Man kudinga esiphezulu sokuthakazelelwa, okukhululekile, libe yifa ezifiselekayo, ngakho njengoba angakhathali injabulo yabo. Futhi isimo main - smile. Hhayi ngokumamatheka, hhayi ukugigitheka silly noma wethukile futhi enobungane, ukumamatheka uhlobo. Lokho enendawo abantu omunye komunye, aphule ice bokuhlukaniswa Ukungathembani nokunganaki. Isimangaliso smile womuntu Exupery wabhala - khumbula amazwi akhe!

Eyesibili simo - Improvisation umhlangano

Yiqiniso, kulesi simo, zikhona ezinye ubunzima, kodwa inqubo mnandi imnandi kunezinyosi ngokuwina yi.

Ngakho, le nsizwa inendaba iso intombazane. Wabhekana amahlandla amaningi ezindaweni ezahlukene, futhi isikhathi ngasinye inhliziyo yakhe waqala ishaya ngamandla e isigqi ekhethekile kakhulu, enjengamakhiwane ukucula, "Nakho-ke, kuphelile-ke manje, lokhu-ke!" Ungakhuluma kanjani ukuba owesifazane kulesi simo? Izinketho ulwandle.

Uma umfana ngokwanele isikhathi khulula, ungadlala umphenyi - isikhashana ukubuka owayekhethwe: uhlala kuphi, izifundo noma imisebenzi, okuyinto umzila uya ukuthutha, okuyinto uya yezitolo, ngisho ukuthi icabanga, isibonelo, imikhiqizo. Futhi-ke, isibonelo, esitolo, ungakwazi baqamekela yakhe ukuza sengathi ngengozi, futhi funa ubuze ngokuphathelene umkhiqizo isivele eyaziwa ukwazi. Sicela ayinangozi ngokuphelele, yena uxwayiswe wakhe, kodwa enze inkulumo yakhe. Besabela kuleso simemo, ungakwazi ukubonga, khuluma kahle mayelana izincazelo nokuqaphela intombazane futhi ukuqhubeka amaziyo okwengeziwe, ukubuza okuthile okwengeziwe imikhiqizo wazicelela - ukuletha ukuthenga, njll Into esemqoka - .. avulekile, akukho isikhathi. Ziphatheni ngokwemvelo, futhi ntombazane umphakathi lokhu umfana ngeke uzizwe ukhululekile, ekhululekile, kulula.

Uma kukhona into ethile, kodwa nje ufuna romance kancane, kukhanye up isizungu - kokubili bahlangana amantombazane kulesi simo? Futhi kukhona ezinye izindlela. Ifanele ezokuthutha zomphakathi. Yena, ngeshwa, ngokuvamile aminyene, kodwa kusimo evamile lapha ngisho isandla. Licashe Ukugcwala kungaba buthule asondele nomfokazi, ukusekela ngayo Shake ku imigodi, uma uhamba emi, noma ukuhlukanisa kusukela abagibeli esilawulayo uma ihlala. Ukubona ukuthi "into" uyagijima - phambili, nyakazisa izandla, ukusiza ukuthola. Endleleni, ngamangala ukuthi unayo stop Imininingwane, bese - yiya isikhashana lapho, ukubeka esiteji for nengxoxo elula. Kufanele abazama ukujabulisa umuntu waya oxhumana naye. Sitshele kancane mayelana ngokwabo ngendlela bayazidlalela, kodwa hhayi overdoing hhayi ukwakha umbono levity. Cela intokazi ngaye, zama ukufunda izithakazelo, kunambitheka. Uma isikhathi sivuma, umeme cafe, ice cream uswidi noma isiphuzo. Futhi ashiye kuphela lapho osenethemba yena, ishiya isithombe esihle. Unika kuye efonini, futhi ngokuqinile uvume ukuhlangana.

Ekugcineni, indlela yesithathu ukubona, mhlawumbe, kulula kakhulu ukufinyelela kuwo futhi ethandwa njengamanje - kuya ku-intanethi, amasevisi, ezifanele emabhodini, izinkundla, izingxoxo. Bese akudingeki ibe indlela yokuxoxa intombazane - zokukhulumisana inethiwekhi Isula imingcele lubandlululo kanye ngokwengqondo futhi kwenza interlocutors ukujwayela, ukujwayela nomunye ngaphambi okwamanje senzakalo siqu. Isimo esemqoka yalolu uthando - ngobuqotho, ngoba uma umhlangano kuhlelelwe emhlabeni wangempela, umfana intombazane ngokushesha sibone ukuthi ngamunye wabo limelela, futhi bazinqumela ngokwabo isiphetho uthando lwabo ebonakalayo.