Kukhona Izincazelo eziningi amaphupho: kusukela kuphela wezobusayensi, imeschih ngokuyisisekelo amaqiniso kwengqondo, saqeda nge luyingxenye ezingaqondakali, esekelwe nakho kazwelonke, izinkolelo nezimfundiso esoteric. Bona izingxenye endaweni eyodwa - avame umuntu uba namaphupho ingozi, nakuba ayengazi yokwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi asho ukuthini nokuthi yini Imininingwane zihloselwe ukuba ngisithwale. Kuyini ecacile wukuthi bona ezinganekwane ezingokwesayensi ngokuvamile babonisa yiziphi izinhlamvu abalulekile, izenzakalo, sithwele inani elithile ukuze umuntu, futhi izenzakalo ezenzeka emhlabeni. Akumangazi ukuthi ngokuvamile kakhulu kukhona izimo lapho amantombazane ngiphuphe guys nabo ukwabelana ukuthandana.
Yini tshela la amaphupho? Kungani baphupha womfanyana? Ake sicabange ngalokho okushiwo yileli ndawonye. Kunenkolelo evamile ukuthi lezi amaphupho athembisa nankinga uma iphupho insizwa - umuntu okwamanje ukujola intombazane. Kepha uma ezala intombazana ngiphuphe guys ezingajwayelekile, kodwa nabo wayengenayise ubuhlobo ngamaphupho - lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi ngaphakathi intombazane awunazo ukufudumala ngokomzwelo futhi uthando, kodwa ngenxa ayekufuna nabo izingalo abangaziwa amaphupho.
Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi ethandekayo livela kubantu ukulala, okuyinto empilweni yangempela intombazane musa uxhumano nomsebenzisi ubuhlobo ikakhulukazi efudumele. Ngalokho angakhuluma nephupho elinje? Kungenzeka, uma dream of guys othandweni nawe, kodwa empeleni lutho ngaphezu kwabangane - kukhombisa ukuthi kuzodingeka ukuba azisole amathuba ezinganeni, noma ngokushesha Uyoya uqonda ukuthi ukuphila kwaba khona into nomuntu Balahlekelwa.
Futhi lokho kusho amaphupho lapho kukhona insizwa, akubonakali kuphi ngaphambi? Kulokhu, kufanele uhunyushwe esekelwe yayo ukubukeka ubuthongo. Beautiful, behlanzekile guy iphupho elihle. Ngokushesha kuyofika ushintsho okuhle, futhi ukuphila kuyoba uvikelekile ukusekela ubuhlobo obuqinile, noma Uyobe uzungezwe kumngane oqotho. Kodwa uma guys ngiphuphe okukhwantabalisayo, okungenamsoco futhi ugly, kuyisibonakaliso esihle. Wabuye kufakazela mayelana nezinguquko esizayo, kodwa uhlamvu bayoba omubi, futhi akudingekile ukuba ulinde usekele phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Nokho, kunoma yiluphi uhlobo ngokwanga walala insizwa ongaziwa - noma yini okuhle ngeke. Cishe, lokhu kuzoba iphupho intombazane isixwayiso ukuthi engenangqondo kakhulu. Futhi lokhu kumnandi impela ucabangela, kuyilapho nawe ungalushayi idumela lakhe.
Kufanele futhi ukhulume amaphupho nge abathandi wangaphambili. amaphupho enjalo ivamile. Uma iphupho ex-isoka sonke isikhathi, kusukela umbono kwengqondo, kuba impela ezivamile. Vele, maningi amathuba okuthi umphumela "inoveli sidle" eyayithi namanje ngaphakathi ixhuma umuntu abanye imizwa yakhe futhi, yebo, ithemba. Kodwa ngokombono iphupho amabhuku ex-isoka dream lokho maduze sibonakalise nemiphumela ongaqondile noma iziphi izenzo ezingakwenza ezenzeka esikhathini esidlule. Futhi, ngamaphupho anjalo kungase kubonise ukuthi isikhathi sokuba ngiphinde ngicabange sengqondo sabo esikhathini esidlule kanye "ukukhululwa" kuye, ngoba kukhubaza ukuthuthukiswa ecasula futhi esikhathini esizayo.