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Yini kuthinta impilo yengqondo lezingane zesikole?

Kuyini zempilo yengqondo? Yeka ngezokwelapha. Okokuqala, kuba ithuba ukwakha ubudlelwano bokuzwana abanye futhi ukuzizwa oludonsa futhi umuntu aneliseke. Siyini isisekelo? isethi bofuzo noma ukuthuthukiswa kwamanye izigaba. Zofuzo Yiqiniso, engakaze kukhanselwe. Kodwa cishe noma ubani Kutfutfukiswa kwemfundvo kwesokudla uyakwazi sikhule ubuntu obunobunye kokuba nempilo enhle ngokwengqondo.

Ingabe engikukhethayo nenqubo ngawo ukucacisa degree of ngokuvumelana noma ingane? Yebo. Kunezindlela eziningana izici, okuyinto ndawonye bayakwazi ukunikeza ukuhlolwa jikelele psyche. Nazi ayinhloko:

  • ikhono lokuqonda ukuzihlupha;
  • bezibona ngokwaso njengoba umuntu omuhle;
  • i ikhono lokuphatha;
  • yokukhulumisana ivulekile ngokomzwelo nontanga yabo;
  • ikhono ukuzwelana futhi bayazwelana nabanye abantu;
  • ikhono balolonge amagugu abo kanye izinhlelo.

Kodwa kanjani ukukala impilo ngokwengqondo? Ingabe ikhona into evamile lapho ukuba balwele? Yebo. Umuntu uyakwazi hhayi kuphela avumelane nendawo ezikuyo, kodwa ukwazi self-ukuthuthukiswa kuwo futhi uthuthuke yayo, kungaba kubhekwe kuyinsakavukela sokunquma impilo social nengqondo yomuntu. Okuningi ngokunembile ukuthi lokhu: kuba indoda, ikhono lokushintsha uqobo futhi ushintshe imvelo kwabo kanjalo kubeka isimo sabo.

Uma kuziwa ukuthuthukiswa kwe-Psychology muntu, endaweni yokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhuluma mayelana nentuthuko yengane. Njengoba kuyinto ebuntwaneni psyche of ngezinyamazane ezibuthaka kunezinye futhi ebucayi njengoba ingane elula ukubhubhisa psyche, ubuthe ndawonye kuyobe sekuba nzima kakhulu. Phela, njengoba sazi, zonke izinkinga ezingokwengqondo kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba sicabangele izici ezingase zibulale ngokwengqondo impilo yezingane.

Imbangela engqondo ibhalansi disorder iba ingxabano, kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu. Ingane, owakhulela endaweni ngokuphelele ingxabano-free, ungaba nobunzima ngisho nakakhulu lithathelwe zenhlalo esikhathini esizayo, ingane nje owakhulela khona izingxabano kwesakhiwo. Kulesi sikhathi esibalulekile, ngoba ingxabano kungaba elimazayo, okungukuthi ubuntu elimazayo.

izingxabano Okulimazayo ekubeni underestimation singabantu ngabanye, ukwakheka izakhiwo ezahlukene, yokuzingabaza. Udweshu olulodwa elimazayo cishe njalo ingane ikwazi ukusinda bese ukhohlwa. Kodwa njalo okuphindaphindiwe bona okuyoholela ekubhujisweni kwengqondo yengane, ekuphileni izinkinga, ukusabela Neurotic.

Long ukusabela Neurotic angakhula abe nokukhathazeka Neurotic engqondweni yengane uma omunye phakathi kwenu uphoqelekile ukungqubuzana elimazayo. I ukukhathazeka okubangelwa yena, eminye obukela phansi impilo ngokwengqondo abafundi, okukhwantabalisayo ikhono lokwenza futhi odala singenamandla nokungabi namandla. Futhi nokukhathazeka singaliminyanisa kubonakaliswe ngokuphelele futhi Kutholwe kuphela uma ukuhlolwa kokufaneleka okukhethekile ngokwengqondo.

Cabanga izinto engaholela esikoleni ukukhathazeka ukumelana:

  • abalulekile ukuqeqeshwa umthwalo;
  • ukungakwazi ukuhambisana kukharikhulamu;
  • izimfuno anda abazali ukuba impumelelo wengane bezemfundo;
  • non-alo ubuhlobo neqembu elilodwa noma ngaphezulu othisha;
  • izinguquko kaningi abasebenzi.

Ngokuvamile, amahansi asekhulile nawo enza konke lokhu kuqakathekile ingane, ningathetheleli ngisho buthaka kancane, senze umonakalo omkhulu ukuzethemba kwakhe. Futhi lokhu isikhashana okuyingozi kakhulu. Ukugxekwa njalo ngaphandle udumo (ngisho impumelelo kulokukhulu) kubukela phansi impilo ngokwengqondo yomntwana osakhula ke inkani, ulaka noma, kunalokho, ukwehluleka ukuhlola ngokwanele ngokwabo, ngisho umphumela sibi ngokuphumelela ukuthuthukiswa.

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