Farewell izincwadi kumuntu ayemthanda: ziyini na?

Akubona bonke izindaba kanye nobudlelwane ukuqeda umshado nokuphila isikhathi eside ndawonye. Kunalokho - abaningi abaholayo izinyembezi namanxeba engqondo ezijulile. Kukholakala ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuvalelisa kukhona njalo iqembu olimele futhi iqembu ukuthi nguye onqobile. Yiqiniso, kuyenzeka ukuthi kokubili bayajabula ukuthi Ubuhlobo baphela, futhi womabili uhlushwa break. Kodwa lokhu kwenzeka akuvamile. Futhi iqembu elimele ngokuvamile - kodwa ngowesifazane okhiphe ayikwazi ukwamukela ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, futhi isikhundla izintokazi yakhe entsha nesizungu. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abesifazane bavame unqume ukwenza incwadi yokuvalelisa indoda yakhe ayithandayo, ukwethula ke izikhalo zanqwabelana, izimangalo, imizwa elimele, izinkumbulo. Kuthiwa leli phepha sizokhuthazela konke, kodwa umthombo bengayi.

Farewell izincwadi ukuze ethandekayo: okulotshwe kuzo?

Bhala, ngokuvamile, ukuthi akakwazanga ukufika ngaphambi, noma ukuthi ayesaba ukutshela iso. Kukhona nokwesaba enganakile ukuthi ngeke ukulalela kube sekupheleni, ukuyekisa, ukuhamba, noma ukuthi wayengenayo isibindi lokuveza konke esiye zanqwabelana. Ngakho-ke, kulula ukuba babhalele yokuvalelisa. muntu othandekayo kulezi zincwadi ngokuvamile abantu bayabona othandweni, bhala ukuthi - okungcono (noma okubi kakhulu) indoda emhlabeni, ukuthi kusadingeka ukuba azisole bahlale ngokwahlukana noma, kunalokho, simfisela injabulo. Express izikhalazo zabo hhayi lizwakalise ngokumelene naye, imizwa elimele, imicabango edabukisayo. Farewell izincwadi ukuze ethandekayo - kungcono ephelele umuntu ithuba ngaleyo ndlela ukuba nihlukane, ukuze ithe «i» noma ukuba bashiye izwi lokugcina. Maye, kodwa umkhuba libonisa ukuthi "indoda ethandeka" ngokuvamile kakhulu le milayezo abanawo ngisho ukufunda. Ngakho ingabe ikhona yini imivuzo uzama uthele umphefumulo ilandelana, uma sihlale singabanjwa? Odokotela bengqondo bathi ngazwilinye ukuthi kuwufanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izincwadi yokuvalelisa indoda yakhe ayithandayo kufanele abe awugwegwesi futhi. Nge isichibiyelo eyodwa kuphela - uyithumele akudingekile. Ziklanyelwe kuphela kuwe. Kuthiwa kuba - indlela ephumelelayo ukusinda ikhefu, ukubabulala acasukele zanqwabelana ezizwayo noma ezibonayo, kanye elalenziwa ongokomfanekiso wokuqeda isimo esingokomzwelo nasezindaweni ezizungezile.

Indlela ukubhala incwadi yokuvalelisa

Uma ukhetha ukubhala nokuthumela umbiko yokuvalelisa yangaphambili ke ukuqamba ke ukuze nakanjani ulifunde. Iphutha abesifazane abaningi - a efanayo amaqiniso imibhalo eside, dreary futhi peremusolivayuschie. indoda Jwayelekile ufunde le "izinkondlo" ngeke. Bhala incwadi emfushane, kodwa ithe juqu futhi ulwazi, esimnandi kusukela imigqa yokuqala. Musa ukuzwakalisa izikhalazo, izinsongo, ukuthukwa, ungenawo akhononde, musa hnychte. Lo muntu ungakaboni ukubuyela, futhi umbono yena zichithe phakade. Thola amandla ukubhala ukuthi umbonge konke, kodwa manje wonke umuntu umele - indlela yakho. Simfisela inhlanhla empilweni, bathi ukuthi uyohlale jabula ukukhuluma naye ngezinye izikhathi. Kodwa sipho akudingekile ukuba baqhubeke bengabangane - ezinjalo "ubungane" kuyoba buhlungu kokubili. Ngokuvamile, kufanele ugcine ezinesizotha kunikeze umuzwa nokwaneliswa yakho. Futhi yakho ethandekayo 's kangcono uzisole ukuthi wayelahlekelwe owesifazane kuka ezithokozisayo ukuhlukana amantombazane akahlanye futhi kunephutha. Elinye isu kanjani ukubhala incwadi yokuvalelisa indoda yakhe ayithandayo. Izinkondlo - kungcono okunye okukhulu nephrozi. Kodwa izidingo okuqukethwe kwabo kuyafana nalokho incwadi.