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Kanjani amandla okubhekana umhawu - Amathiphu kwansuku

Uma uthando umqondo oluyimfihlakalo kunalo lonke, uyeza kithi zizenzakalele futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuba wafayo ndawo ke umhawu babe isikhundla ucacise kanye izimbangela. Futhi amandla kanye nogqozi we zokubonisa umona ngezinye izikhathi muhle futhi ejulile nothando nakho.

Odokotela bengqondo yahlukanisa leli isimo esingokomzwelo ezigabeni: umhawu wesilisa, umhawu zesifazane, uzakwethu nemibango. Uhlobo ngalunye - kwaqala nezindlela zokuxazulula izinkinga. It kubahlanganisa siwukubonakaliswa ezivamile mshini: izinsolo abantu abathile noma oyedwa, okwamanje ngokwengqondo ukugqashuka futhi ngenxa yalokho, intukuthelo, ukucasuka, ufisa nokuphindisela imbala, intukuthelo ngisho nenzondo. Yingakho-ke kuhle ukucabangela indlela yokubhekana umhawu, okuwumthombo weziningi zezinkinga eziningi.

Isizathu umhawu

Isimanga siwukuthi kodwa umuntu angaqala abe nomhawu owesifazane wakhe, ngaphandle isizathu stroke. Isizathu ongakhonza lutho - "extra" imizuzu eyishumi intombi noma unkosikazi esho ocingweni nonina esikhundleni egijima ngekhanda ekhishini ukuxoxa ngesikhathi sokudla. Umhlangano ezingalindelekile intombi yakhe owayeyisoka lakhe noma omjwayele ubudala, futhi ingxoxo yabo, imibala friendly efudumele. Isibhakabhaka Lively imibuthano "Girly", okuyindawo ebuyiselwa ngimthole bejabule, lapho kwenzeka thukela ukusondela eduze kwakhe. Kodwa ngeke wazi! Into esemqoka lapha - umuzwa ukubenza abakho wedwa. Abesilisa ungayifihli. Bona - abanikazi ngokwemvelo, kudluliselwa kubo okhokho babo eminyakeni eyizigidi edlule wahlala nasemihumeni, futhi club eqinile ekwamukeleni ubani esondela ibanga yingozi emzini wabo, imayini noma abesifazane nezingane. Umqondo "okwami - ningathinti" Ingabe ngakho sisekelwe Psychology zabo ukuba ngingehlelwa nangeyodwa kulezi izifundo imikhuba emihle nobuntu hhayi ingaqeda ke ngokuphelele. akukho-akukho ngoba yebo futhi lurks ngaphansi yokwakha yaseGrisi imikhuba emihle e smart, efundile abahlakaniphile zasendle, yababa Othello.

By the way, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziye alalelwa lo mniningwane: umhawu besilisa izimpawu zako ngokuvamile sincike kwemizwelo. Lapho umuntu ajabule, ungalilahli elambile, belala, njll, bese ngesizotha iyaphendula ezintweni eziningi, kuyiphi kwenye isimo ngaphandle kokungabaza ukwamukela "mordobitie" imbangi izinsolo "kokuphenywa" "izmenschitsa" esicabanga ukuthi kungaqhamuka .

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ubudlelwano ngokwengqondo pair, microclimate futhi kungase kubangele umona besilisa. Ukwehla ukunakwa noma ukubanda imizwelo, ukukhangana ngokobulili, ukubukeka izithakazelo sowesifazane entsha nokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi, umsebenzi, noma ukuzalwa kwengane - nokuthi umuntu uzizwa ifa, elahliwe futhi, ngakho ... Yebo, yebo, yena uthola nomona. Futhi uma unalo ukuzenyeza, izakhiwo kanye yokuzingabaza, iholo elincane, ngisho noma iyiphi "nebubi" (okuyinto yena ikhanda futhi wabelane), le nhlabathi evundile esengeziwe izigcawu eziyihlazo zokufumbathiswa kunzima ukuthola umsebenzi.

Sebenza izimbungulu

Kanjani amandla okubhekana umhawu lapho eqala olungathunaza ubuhlobo benu nokugqwala, abhubhise yensimbi? Ngombuzo olula, impendulo elula, panacea ukuze ingekho, kodwa jikelele ukwelashwa indlela, yebo, ungasebenza ngaphandle. Kungani ekwelapheni? Ngenxa umona - uhlobo zokugula, izimpawu ukuntengantenga ngokwengqondo kwe ubuntu, ngokweqile ulaka ngamandla amakhulu elimazayo, lapho ubudlelwane igebe cishe akunakugwenywa. Futhi ezivamile ngokuhlakanipha isitatimende "nomona - kusho uthando" Sekuyisikhathi eside lidlule phakathi alogisms isigaba bese izinsalela esidlule.

Ukuze sikwazi ukweluleka nomona neengcezu zabo? Lesi sifo njalo kulula ukuvimbela. Ngakho-ke, uma wabona indoda ngesikhathi imikhuba yakhe Othello, cabanga kusengaphambili indlela yokubhekana umhawu nabathandwayo ukuqondisa imizwelo yakhe ku busebenze elinokuthula. Okokuqala, kumelwe sizame ukuba avuse kokugqashuka, wokukucima kubo empandeni, azisebenzi isizathu. It uhlakulela kumuntu uzizwe uqiniseka futhi nokwaneliswa. Umzimba kakhulu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba qotho, nokumhlonipha, siyohlanganisa naye ulalele umbono wakhe. Ngokuvamile, imfudumalo ngobuqotho ubudlelwane ngaphezulu kuphi ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ubani!

Kodwa indoda kumelwe usebenze ngokwakho, ngoba indlela yokubhekana umhawu - inkinga yakhe uma uthatha lolu umhawu. Okokuqala, kufanele uthemba owesifazane uyabathanda ngaphezulu. Ngiyaqonda ukuthi - hhayi into kodwa isidalwa esiphilayo futhi uyisidalwa khulula. Uma kuba - kuwe, kungcono ukukhetha kwakhe khulula, ukwenza bayazi, eqinile, kuyiqiniso, eyenzelwe kweminyaka eminingi ukuphila okujabulisayo ndawonye.

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