Funda ukuthi iphupho ... eyisihlobo oshonile

Ukulangazelela izihlobo lomuntu oshonile ungadlala ihlaya ongaziwa. Ngezinye izikhathi, lapho sekuyisikhathi eside yobuhlungu ukulahlekelwa kudamba, futhi imisebenzi yansuku zonke labasibekela ngokuphelele umfanekiso oshonile ekhanda, kungazelelwe, ukhumbuza yena. Kanjani, ubuza? Ngo amaphupho zethu sokuhambela njalo abantu enibathandayo bamuka. Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono nje isithombe, isithombe yomuntu, ngezinye izikhathi - izingxoxo ngokugcwele noma imicimbi iqhaza salowo oshonile. Kodwa noma kunjalo, umbono onjalo ekuseni kubangele ukukhathazeka ezingacacile. Futhi indoda ekhwelwe isifiso esingokwemvelo ukwazi ukuthi amaphupho ongasekho isihlobo?

Maqondana nalolu umbono, Isimanga siwukuthi, zonke eziqeda amandla, nina baboni bemibono nengokomoya bukhomba ku umbono owodwa: kumele ubonakale kuyisixwayiso owathunyelwa ezweni lemimoya bayohlala umuntu othile okumlindele esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kodwa okuningi ukuchaza lokho amaphupho ngasekupheleni isihlobo, nje zingenzeki - isidingo izinto ezithile ngokukhethekile: ngubani ncamashi zibalwe umphuphi ushonile. Yilokho ukubeka ngesikhathi echaza amaphupho enjalo.

Ngokuvamile, lolu hlobo amaphupho baxwayisa ngokuthi ngemva kwakho othile uphaka usongo ngokumelene nawe. Yingakho kudingeka ukuqapha ngokucophelela idumela yabo, izenzo kanye nezenzo. Futhi bheka elele ongasekho izihlobo - uphawu lokuthi uzimisele zidlule nanoma ikuphi ukuvivinywa noma ukulahlekelwa okuthile okubalulekile kuwe mathupha. Kubaluleke ngokukhethekile ukuba sinake isimo salowo oshonile, uma ngiphupha isifile funny kakhulu-ke ngawe ke kuba yisikhathi sokuhlangana usizi - baxwayisa ukuthi into empilweni yakho akanjalo kudinga ukubuyekeza futhi isinyathelo ngokushesha ukuze nginqande leso simo.

Ngakho, ake sixoxe ngalokho ukuphupha ongasekho isihlobo. Uma ubona ugogo wabo efile noma umkhulu, futhi izenzakalo ngokwabo zenzeka khona elulwimini lwabo lwasekhaya, akusiwona oluhle kakhulu. iphupho enjalo lixwayise ngokuthi umndeni wakho noma imvelo ngokushesha umuntu angakwazi igule kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kumayelana izihlobo igazi.

Iphupho oshonile umama uxwayisa umntanakhe ngezinkinga zempilo nokuthi kule nkathi ekuphileni kumelwe niqaphelisise ulalele wena. Khuluma naye embusweni amaphupho namakholi ukunqanda lo mkhuba wakhe kanzima ukubulawula, kungenjalo ungakwazi sokuqongelela enkingeni.

Uma ngesikhathi sokulala uvakashile uyise ongasekho, kuyindaba ehluke. Futhi kudingeka siqonde ukuthi ubani futhi waphupha: umfana noma intombazane? Njengoba echaza amaphupho, uyise ngasekupheleni uvele umbono yilezozintombi, uxwayisa wakhe ukuthi ukuphila kwakhe siqu waba into isithakazelo kothile efuna ngiyinake ngokuphelele. Uma futhi bedabukile noma ukukhala, udinga ukunikela isikhathi esengeziwe ekhaya nomndeni, ukugwema inhlebo. Le nsizwa ukuvakashelwa okunjalo sitshelana ukuthi kwase kuyisikhathi akhule zikhula. Angry, noma ngithukuthele ubaba efuna ngempela ukuphupha inzalo yakhe injabulo nokuchuma, futhi usikhumbuza nokuthi izingane zihlale ngaphansi kwesivikelo abazali babo.

Lapho ecabanga ukuthi izihlobo iphupho umufi ke singaphetha ngokuthi kudingeka bakulalele imvelo, ngokucophelela, futhi uma kungenzeka ukulandela iseluleko esinikezwe iphupho efile. Ngempela, mhlawumbe lokhu zinjalo ngenxa onqenqemeni sidlula imiyalezo futhi izixwayiso, ngoba thina njalo nokunakekela futhi usikhathalela.