Kuze kube manje, omningi abesifazane enabantwana ngaphandle kokuba nishadile. Kulokhu, umthetho ayivumeli nje faka igama upapa ku Isitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane. Ngakho-ke, le nqubo wenziwa ukusungula ubuyise ezinkantolo noma njalo yokuzithandela. It has ezinye izici futhi ukuhamba komsebenzi.
Ngakho, inqubo ubuyise yokuzithandela eyenziwa isicelo mutual kokubili abazali ingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungaba zisebenza kuphela emva ingane ibhaliswe emahhovisi lokubhalisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, yena angakwazi ukubhala la mazwi kanti kwakungekho nobaba begazi ingane, uma engeyena umyeni wakhe, futhi eshadile. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo kuyodingeka ukuya enkantolo. Khona-ke isicelo ungahambisa noma unina noma uyise.
Inqubo enkantolo lide futhi igcwele nobunzima, ezifana enifeza luhlolo zofuzo. Ngokwemvelo, usemkhankasweni wokusungula ubuyise iqala nokufakwa isimangalo ngumuntu ofuna ukuthola iqiniso. Le ndlela kungenzeka ngisho noma oyedwa kubazali is ehlatshwa noma efile. Bekanye isitatimende kwesimangalo owesifazane unelungelo ukuhambisa isicelo sokukhokhwa kwezimali ukondla obushade naye emuva kwesehlukaniso nge ummangalelwa, uma ubuyise yakhe is neshaya.
Ukuya enkantolo, uzodinga namanye amadokhumenti: ikhophi yesitatimende kwesimangalo, okumele ufunde ummangalelwa, ikhophi ingane isitifiketi sokuzalwa (original etholakalayo emhlanganweni), i-kokuthola lemali wokuhlengwa we Imali isimo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele uthathe usizo endaweni wengane uhlala kulo, kanye ubufakazi kungenzeka ukuthi zingaba isisekelo e usemkhankasweni wokusungula ubuyise. Kungase kudingeke ukuba ubambisane emizimbeni ye-Trusteeship. Emva kokuhambisa yonke imibhalo futhi bacabangela begceke wabeka nosuku uma kuzokwenziwa yokuzwa ukuthethwa kwecala. Kulesi sigaba isinqumo ekufezeni yokuhlolwa kanye search for ubufakazi obengeziwe.
Test ukusungula ubuyise kungase kwenziwe ngaphambi kokuqala kuzwa on izinzuzo. Examination Lwenziwa laboratories ezizimele. Njengoba ungase ube izinto eziphilayo azithathe zithathwe igazi noma smear kusukela ngalo ingaphakathi ngomlomo wengane nobaba kusolwa. Njengoba ungacabanga, lokhu inqubo ikhokhelwa Nokho, uma ubuyise is neshaya, indaba imfucuza kungenziwa wabeka phezu ummangalelwa. Nokho, ukuhlola angeke kwenziwe compulsorily. Kulokhu, ijaji kwenza isinqumo esisekelwe obunye ubufakazi: izincwadi, noma ibuphi ubufakazi obubhalwe ngobuhlobo abazali ngesikhathi ebamba noma ukuzalwa komntwana. Ngakho, ngemva ukulalelwa eziningana futhi ukucabangela wonke ubufakazi obubhalwe imithetho enkantolo.
Ngaphambi kokuqala ekuqhutshweni ukusungula ubuyise, qiniseka ukuba uhlole "kochwepheshe" futhi "nebubi." Iqiniso liwukuthi kuleli cala, ingane ingakha ahlupheke, kusukela engqondweni yakhe akuyona isilungele kucindezeleka. Ikakhulukazi uma umuntu sebekubeke ayiboni ubuyise yakhe futhi akafuni ukuba lutho ingane.