Indlela okuhle? Sonke sidinga uthando

Ingoma "kumelwe uzijabulise" iyaduma ngaphezulu. Futhi uma kuba ethandwa kakhudlwana umbono - ushintsho libe yindawo engcono? Yebo, abantu befuna ukuba ngcono, kodwa-ke ngeshwa, abaningi ufuna akuyona umusa. Mhlawumbe yonke into ukuqonda ezingacacile igama elithi "umusa"? Kungani kwakungeyona ehlonishwayo ukuba enomusa?

Ukubaluleka kwe-Isijobelelo

Abantu ukudida imiqondo emibili: okuhle futhi Dobrenky. On kunikezwa inkulumo yokuqala kamuva, futhi manje - yesibili. Isijobelelo alulazayo ubonisa ukuthi ubuhle akuyona langempela. Abangcwele, futhi, zitholakala ngezinhlobonhlobo eziningana. Okokuqala, ababuthakathaka abantu spineless ngubani abanakukwazi ukuhlanganyela emsebenzini noma senqabe ajezise (usubonile bafundisi esikoleni). Okwesibili, abantu lazy abangakwazi ngikujezise waba yisigqila kukho, ngoba abanandaba, kulula ukuba ukumamatheka futhi musa clog ekhanda. Okwesithathu, kuba akuzenzisi abantu okubi abazishaya abantu kuhle inzuzo. Isigaba wokugcina - ezingemnandi neze futhi iyingozi.

umusa namandla

Ukuba olungile ayenzelwe ukuba buthaka. Kuphela isiqhwaga angakwazi ukukhokhela uzwela, ukufudumala nesisa. Okungukuthi, lezi ekhombisa ukwenza uhlobo lomuntu. Futhi uma kuziwa yesiqhwaga, uyazi ukuthi umusa uyini Akuveli yini ubugovu hhayi ngenxa yokuntuleka uhlamvu. Yiba nomusa - ngakho ngikulungele ukunikeza ngaphandle ngilindele reciprocity. Abantu ezinhle ngempela ukuhlonipha nothando. Khumbula umfanekiso Melanie kusukela "Gone Nge Emoyeni." Ukuze ukubukeka ukucasha nesisa wema ngokungaxeki ubuntu namandla, ke kwaphawuleka ngokukhethekile lapho kuziwa izindinganiso zokuziphatha.

Qala nge ngokwakho

IBhayibheli libiza uthando abanye njengoba sizithanda thina. Qala nge yokuthi uzithanda wena. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ungakwazi "ukucisha" bonisa ukuzithiba, futhi wehlise ibha ngokwakho. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kufanele wabelane ngokomzwelo nabanengqondo "Mina". Ngakho abantu abaningi bathi bafuna ukuba "wakhahlela" kumphumela. Eqinisweni, bafuna impendulo. amaningi kakhulu noma ungenza sengqondo okubi ngakuyo ngoba kungenjalo kunzima ukuze unakwe. A isilinganiso rat ilimale isikhumba obukhulu kakhulu. Cabanga ukuthi unayo umngane owenza amaphutha. Ngakho, lokhu ngumngane omkhulu - wena. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo namaphutha, udinga efudumele futhi asekelwe ngokomzwelo. Iba kangcono ngobuwena kunzima, kodwa kuvela isidingo ukuqala indlela eya ubuhle.

Uma ukholo kungaqali uvalo

Ungase udinge ukusekelwa abantu futhi ufuna ukuba okuhle. Kulesi simo, ubheke ezithembekile ihlelo lapho ukuyiphi. Kunoma nezinkolo zendabuko isihe nomusa intengo, thola amakholwa aqotho phakathi abangane babo - futhi ufunde. Ngokuvamile, okholwayo livela ubuhle ukunakekelwa kuye futhi baqonde ukuthi kwenzekani umphefumulo. Kufanele nifunde, mhlawumbe, ukufunda imisebenzi eyisisekelo yoBaba oNgcwele, isibonelo, "Philokalia" noma "isitebhisi".

Ngisho noma ungazizwa ithalenta yemvelo ngomusa, abe enomusa zingafundwa. Vele sizame ukubheka okuhle kithi nakwabanye - futhi bayawujabulela. Lokho okuqala kuyingxoxo ezingqondweni zethu, njalo kwenzekani empeleni. Futhi akusiwona "imfihlo", kodwa iqiniso okukhulunywa ngabo eBhayibhelini. abantu ezinhle baphile bajabule kakhudlwana.