Self-kulinywePsychology

Iqhaza labesimame ngokuphila kwamadoda. Umama. owesifazane engiyithandayo. Umkakhe nendodakazi

Indima wesifazane ukuphila komuntu Sekuyisikhathi eside kwagxilwa kwengqondo. Futhi akumangalisi. izindima ubulili zabiwa phezu izigidi zeminyaka - e inqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Futhi isisekelo sokuthethelelwa ngezigaba kwakungelona ngebulili noma non-ukuqashelwa amakhono abangahle futhi ngokomzimba, zigcine lomzimba ikakhulukazi emzimbeni. Kodwa sekuyisikhathi eside washintsha ezweni lanamuhla. Nokho Psychology ibhekwa ngale ndaba.

unina

Ngakho, kufanele uqale nge eziyisisekelo. Abesifazane abaningi, ikakhulukazi omkawo, ngamazwi athi "Umama - owesifazane othile obaluleke kakhulu ukuphila komuntu" angesabi Roll kwamehlo abo. Ngiyayibona kubo! Phela, umuntu, ukubopha ifindo, bakha umkhaya omusha kwezakhe. Futhi, ngokufanele, umfazi anakho ukukhokha kunaka kwabo. Kodwa lokhu, yena ngokwakhe uye ukuqonda nonina, uma ungowesifazane smart. Futhi akusiwona mbuzo sixhomeke sobunhloko. Kuyinto abangenangqondo - lokubekwa eqhulwini kodaba lokuvulwa phakathi zala wenyusa owesifazane kanye lover. Phela, nabo basuke zinemisebenzi eyahlukene zibuye.

Umama bekhuphula. Wetfula indodana yakhe ezweni elingaphandle, amafomu ezihlobene isigamu enhle lwesintu, kugxilisa amagugu ethile namakhono eziyosisiza ukuba ukuphila kwakhe.

Kukhona omunye theory. Nakuba kungashiwo ngokuthi kunalokho ifilosofi. Ibizwa ngokuthi: "Kube sekulimala abesifazane abathathu e lokuphila komuntu." Futhi umama - ngowokuqala. Kukhona ukungqubuzana okuningi ngale ndaba. Kusukela umfana wokuqala uba nesibindi. Ngalo, uhlala kuze kube phakade - imicabango, imizwa kanye uxhumano esiyivelakancane ukuthi awukwazi ukubona, kodwa palpable. Eyokuqala njalo umphefumulo, empilweni kanye engqondweni. Wonke umuntu uhlukile. Kodwa noma yini kungenzeka umama - waba ngowokuqala.

Ekuphileni omdala,

Inqobo nje uma indodana encane, owesifazane-umama waziphatha iguqulwe ibe ilungu agcwele umphakathi. Kodwa ikhula, kukhona nenye ukuphila - lover, ephawulekayo nezinye, lapho unina ngokuvamile kusengaphambili, ngisho noma engazazi, iqala ukuba aphathe kabi. Kungani? Lapha-ke kwabangela umuzwa ubunikazi. Lona wesifazane wathi indodana yakhe - indoda yakhe, ngokuphelele. Wabuza kuye futhi okwakungokwakhe. Yiqiniso, lokhu akunjalo. Yena - umuntu, umuntu. Futhi lapho indodana ishada - ukuthi akusho ukuthi umama wakhe "kuthathwe." Wavele ngizitholele umkhaya.

Endabeni-mthetho ezimbi kakhulu kungaba bonakalise ukuphila zalowo mbhangqwana, khona ngazo zonke izindlela uzama iqhaza umshado wabo, ngoba zikholelwa ukuthi kuyindlela engcono ukwazi indlela. Kulokhu, nokunakekela onikezwe kwamahlombe abantu. Uma ungakwazi ngobumnene ithe «i» - omuhle. Ayikho? Khona umndeni akazange ukuba nendoda ayilutho futhi enesibopho. Wayehlala njalo azame ukujabulisa umama kanye izaba ethandekayo. Futhi lena indlela ngqo impi ephakathi indodakazi nonina.

Intelligent wesifazane-umama ngeke singangeni ngenkani efulethini sendodana yakhe nomkakhe ukuba enze khona yokuhlanza, ukupheka isobho futhi anikeze iseluleko ebuhlotsheni nabanye. Ngo ngisho babe ikhanda lakhe futhi wacabanga ukuthi indodana yakhe "kude." Kunalokho, yena uyokwenza konke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubudlelwano bakhe babejabule.

Eyesibili isigamu

I indima ebalulekile abesifazane emphilweni indoda eyayidla othandekayo wakhe, okuyinto ulunika amandla akhethekile, kuyingcwelengcwele kuye muse futhi ugqozi. Lapho ukuphila komuntu kukhona owesifazane - uqala ukuqonda ukuthi uyakwazi ukwenza kanjalo, kwentando elalikade kwakunzima kakhulu kuye.

Futhi kubalulekile kakhulu ukuthi kwaba nje lelo. Hhayi isisebenzi sasendlini, abangathanda geza ahlanzekile. Hhayi "umama yesibili" - njalo bayobhaka ukulondolozwa nokupheka yayo borsch. Lowo muntu, lapho umuntu ethi ehefuzela: "Lena - owesifazane engilithandayo" Kufanele nigcine umlilo uthando, njalo uphonsa kuze kube uhlobo "fagots". Bonisa impilo nesandla sakhe enhle, shayela i-adventure kanye nemizwelo ezicacile, ukufuna ukuzijabulisa ngokuhlanganyela, ulethe injabulo. ushintsho ngamunye onjalo - kungcono obuncane ukuhlanganisa izingcezu zesithombe esikhulu ngokuthi "obujabulisayo."

Ukubhekisela izidingo zomphakathi

Psychology - isayensi ezithakazelisayo. Omunye izinto yokutadisha yayo - kuba ubudlelwane obufanele. Udinga ukuthi inquma isimo kwezenhlalo yomuntu. Kulokhu, amadoda.

"Owesifazane engiyithandayo" - lokhu umuntu ezokwenza ukwanelisa ezinye zezidingo sayo sezenhlalo ngokomzimba ukuze afike ekugcineni. Futhi njengoba akukho ukusondelana kuphela. izidingo zomphakathi kukhona ngobubanzi okuningi. Kuyinto uthando, ukuqonda, ukwesekwa, ukubonisa yibobonke, nenhlonipho, ukwethembeka, ukuzinikela, uthando. Futhi konke okungenhla kumele zivela enhliziyweni, umphefumulo, hhayi ngoba "uma kudingeka."

Lokhu indima owesifazane lokuphila komuntu akuyona eyodwa emaceleni. Yena, futhi, okudingeka ukwenze konke okungenhla. Uma umbhangqwana is kukhona okungekho, mhlawumbe ubudlelwane akuyona ziphelele, na? Nokho, manje akusiwona ngalokho.

ukushada

I indima yabesifazane ekuphileni kwamadoda wayechazwa kafushane nje. Eqinisweni, le ndaba, kusekhona eziningi umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama.

Unkosikazi - kuba isimo okuqinile kuka othandekayo. Futhi kukhona inqwaba yezincwadi futhi ecabanga ngale yokuthi umkakhe kube nzima. Ngempela abaningi bacabanga kanjalo. Kodwa abantu bavame izinkinga, bese ukhala.

Udinga nje baqonde okuthile. Inani abesifazane emphilweni indoda owakhetha njengomngane wayo, kubaluleke kakhulu. Khumbula okungenani isifungo Registrar. Wayeyeke isizathu. Ukuba ndawonye ubumpofu kanye nemfuyo, e nezempilo kanye nezifo - ingabe nje amazwi? Cha Lokhu - lokho ichaza ngendima yowesifazane njengoba umngane, umsizi namadlelandawonye besilisa. Kungokufanayo uya kuye. Ingqikithi lomshado ukuthi umlingani ngamunye usulungile nganoma isiphi isikhathi ukusiza nokusekela - Kunoma yikuphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Kuyinto edabukisayo ukuthi abantu abaningi ukukhohlwa ngakho.

indodakazi

Enye indima ebaluleke. Futhi njengabangaqondakali kungase kuzwakale, kodwa okwamanje sizogxila yokuthi yilowo nalowo owesifazane osuke ngomyeni wakhe - kuba indodakazi-unkosikazi. Ngokumangalisayo, abaningi enizibiza le enye indima yakhe.

Daughter-unkosikazi - owayeseduze lapho oshade naye uba indoda yangempela, lokuketula entabeni ukuze anelise kwaneliswa nezifiso zakhe. Lo wesifazane, kungaba ngesikhathi esifanele ukukhombisa ukuba buthakathaka futhi sicele ukunakekelwa, kukhona umuzwa okhethekile. Eduze enjalo abasengozini ethambile okwazi ukudala superman bazizwa. Lokhu kuyadingeka hhayi kuphela lakhe, kodwa umzalwane - bazakhele ukuzethemba. Owesifazane ezibalulekile kuphela silikhumbule ngalezo zikhathi: "Ndodakazi" akugcini nje ecela usizo, kodwa futhi ukulalela.

abangane

Ubani ongeke bathi, kodwa indoda nomfazi kufanele bakwazi ukuba nabangane. Ubuhlobo obunjalo zisekelwe izinto zokuzilibazisa ezivamile futhi izintshisekelo, nokuningi ukwethembana nobuqotho. Kakade, ubani umngane? Labo bayakwazi ukuzwa yonke injabulo nosizi lwabo umngane ayekanye nazo njengoba ebona kubo. Kukhona isisho ezinhle: ". Abangane - umndeni, ngamunye wethu ekhetha" Umyeni - kuba abantu bomdabu. Futhi lapho futhi umngane - ke kuba kabili ezinhle.

Iqhaza senkosikazi

It is ngokuvamile ukunganakwa. Ngo abesifazane, ngolaka ungibelesela ngokuthi ubulili - awuyona into eyinhloko kukhona othandana naye, noma amadoda kabi noma ushintsha. Ubulili - uma kungenjalo Isakhi esiyinhloko emshadweni, omunye oyinhloko. Lena akuyona nje isidingo social kodwa futhi yemvelo. Kodwa iphuzu yokugcina umbono ngendaba ukuthi abantu ngeke beze. Njengoba lokhu ubuye ube ithuba ukuthuthukisa Ukwanelisa inkanuko yabo, usondela umlingani wakho futhi imenze ukuphila okuvelayo ngokucace nakakhulu. Uma unkosikazi kumele zibhekane izindima "indodakazi", "umfazi", "Umeluleki" futhi "ungumthandi" (okuyinto akunzima kangako) - ungabona ukuthi umyeni wakhe ngokoqobo blooms kanye reciprocates.

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