Iqhaza yezenhlalakahle yomuntu

Yini umcabango we indima social yomuntu? Kungani ngisho labo bayehluleka liziphathe ngendlela efanayo kuzo zonke izimo, nakuba ngezindlela ezahlukene liyeza, ekhaya noma emsebenzini, esitolo noma emcimbini. Iqiniso lokuthi amangqamuzana ethu njalo siguqula izindima zethu zenhlalo kuye ngesimo kanye isimo emhlabeni. Kuyinto ngokuphelele zemvelo wonke umuntu.

Ngokuya ngokwengqondo wesayensi nokuthi yayinjani inhlalo indima - kwakheka isithombe zokuziphatha, okuyinto benawo isethi lokuzibusa (subjective) futhi ngokuvamile obekiwe (inhloso) imisebenzi.

Kungakanani uyokwambulwa futhi indima social is baqaphela incike indlela umuntu azizwa isimo samanje nendlela ethanda naye, kulokho umphakathi okulindele kubantu umuntu kulesi simo, ubuhlobo abalingani emphakathini.

Umcabango yezenhlalakahle indima kuhlanganisa ukubaluleka ezihlukanisile nomphakathi nge zonke izici ukubonakaliswa yayo. Lokhu kusho isimo - isimo somuntu. Be kungaba professional, umndeni, ezombusazwe, inkolo yamanga - futhi lokhu kuphela buphawuleka kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sivakashela amakhasimende, iziguli, abafundi, abafundi ... Abantu angaya kumphakathi efanayo nabantu, alixhumani nomunye ngaphandle kokwazi nomunye. Bobabili basonta amaqembu amaningi, kanye nendima yabo sokunquma ukuziphatha ezinye. Ngokwesibonelo, ophumelelayo, simo esiphakeme phakathi osomabhizinisi, cishe luthathe isimo okusezingeni eliphezulu eqenjini lezihlobo. Nokho, kuyinto - isimo ozikhethela.

Iqhaza yezenhlalakahle lomuntu noma zesifazane predetermined nemvelo. Kuyacaca futhi kucace kusengaphambili indlela ukudlala indima kokulwa namalangabi, udokotela - izindima professional.

Ezinye indima social yomuntu uchayeke kalula ukushintsha, abanye izinze. Ngokwesibonelo, indima ekuchumana. Kunzima ngiziphoqe ngokuzumayo ukuthandana nendoda kubangela ukungezwani, waphonsa phambili futhi abe isigqila. Ngakho-ke, ukukhethwa kanye ukwamukelwa of ungenza okufanayo, okungaba "luyisikhumba sesibili" wakho, kudingeka baqaphele ngokukhethekile. Uma ufuna ukushiya okuwumphumela kunethonya elibi inkambo yokuphila indima social, kubalulekile ukuzama ukushintshela umsebenzi omusha, indoda entsha, ngomqondo ovulekile ukuxoxa yokuthi ukuthi lungenzeka ushintsho olunjalo ngempela bayozuza.

Asikwazi ukuhlukanisa indima okufihliwe yisikhathi - labo evelayo lapha futhi manje. Kwenzeka ukuthi kufanele benze ngokuvumelana uhlelo lwethu engavamile esimweni esiphuthumayo, thatha indima nabanye okungenzeka abakholelwa izinto khona futhi ukuthatha indawo yayo. Lezi izindima abizwa ngokuthi nokuguqulwa. Inguquko kusuka ebuntwaneni kuya esigabeni kwentsha, ngomkhaya okhulayo, enabantwana, ukuvuthwa - konke lokhu nokunye okuningi ezimpilweni zethu kuletha izindima yomphakathi futhi aqondise akhona. Kukhona ibalulekile i bezibona ezanele isimo esisha, amandla kanye ukuzimisela ukufunda ukuze ngempumelelo kudlule isikhundla sazo ekuphileni. Zonke ngesikhathi esihle, ngakho izingane kufanele uhlale izingane ngangoba kufanele - yonke imiphumela akhone kamuva isimo esisha.

Komphakathi - imfundo ngandlela-thile ezoba nendima entsha ekuphileni komphakathi - ngokuvamile kwenzeka "inqubo", ngokuqaphela futhi ulingise abantu ukuziphatha kwabanye, ukuba uzivumelanise ke "bona."

Uma indima master akuyona kahle, kungase kube kutiphatsa lokungakafaneli kuleli qembu, kanye nabanye. Ngakho-ke, indima yezenhlalakahle kufanele kube sobala njalo, kubalulekile ukwenza ngcono. Uma umuntu echitha isikhathi ngaphezulu indima eyodwa, kuka kwesinye, ngakho namuhla egomela uqobo awuseyena.