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Izigcawu kungasiza abazali bezingane

Abazali abasha namuhla bebelokhu bahlushwe inkinga efanayo. Le nkinga has izindiza ezimbili ezihlobene: 1) yini okufanele uyenze nengane, ukuze ngingasebenzisi ukugxambukela enza imisebenzi yasendlini futhi uphumule, futhi 2) indlela yokukwenza, ngakho akazange abe nomuzwa wokuthi ngilahliwe futhi ngingathandwa nazo zonke izinkinga ezingokwengqondo isikhonzi. Ngoba uSolomoni ngisho ohlakaniphile eyayivame ngayo njalo ukuthi, "Yinduku nokusola okunika ukuhlakanipha; kodwa umntwana kwesokunxele kuya yena kuletha ihlazo unina. " Induku - hhayi indlela yethu, kodwa uma uqalaze nabangane nabantu obajwayele uqiniseka ukuthola umndeni lapho izingane ngokomzimba sona ngaphezulu enamathiselwe abazali sawo kunokungenela leyo mikhaya lapho bashaywe ayifakiwe njengoba imfundo okuphambene. Kodwa akunjalo ngalokho namuhla. Into wukuthi izingane uyasala abazali nakanjani nakanye "unina amahloni."

Futhi ngakho phakathi amacala futhi izingane kudingeka afune okuhle izingane. Lokhu, hhayi uma kulimaza ibhizinisi. Ingabe uke wazama ukusebenzisa njengendlela sifinyelele lo mgomo izigcawu izingane? Thina wasungula indlela hhayi namuhla noma ngisho izolo. Hhayi-ke ngoba Akudingi isikhathi ezibizayo futhi kuchitha, eba umcabango, ukucabanga yokudala wengane futhi umzali, kuletha omunye komunye, ukuze uqonde kangcono ukuthi esinye kwesinye, futhi okuphambene nalokho. Futhi okuningi plus abanye isinyathelo elula ngokuthi "izigcawu for izingane."

Qala ukufundisa ingane yami kule mdlalo kangcono kwesokudla nokungokomoya kusukela ezalwa. yesehlakalo lwasekuqaleni, kodwa ewusizo kakhulu izingane iyahambisana yokuzivocavoca. Ukwenza umzimba imvuthu, shayela konke ukunyakaza: "It gusenichka aqala. Oh, yeka indlela esiyazisa gusenichka! "," Butterfly amaphiko wendiza. Yini uvemvane oluhle, njengoba uyakwazi zivuleka izimpiko! "," I kwakunezigqiki ezithambile lukhula ziqhubeka zithuthuka. Futhi manje esihlahleni unyakaza umoya. " Futhi cishe akunandaba ukuthi abanye ukunyakaza akuyona efuze leyo umama ubiza, ngakho ngisho kangcono, asivumeli eyeqisayo ukuze balukhulume kahle ukucabanga kwengane yethu.

Lapho ukuthi esibudisi elihlobene ne-iqiniso lokuthi ingane wasukuma ithole ngaphezulu inkululeko ngekwendzawo kunanini ngaphambili, futhi sandise ithuba intavyu. Lezi kungaba izigcawu izingane ngesimo ngonodoli ukusebenza. Izibukeli akudingeki-ke bonke abahlanganyeli. Ngokwesibonelo, kuyoba usizo ngalesi yaseshashalazini yobudala fingerling. Khuphukela imidwebo, ezihlekisayo izingane walonyaka, hhayi ngakho kunzima. Vumela ingane ukunamathela iminwe kanina, "sigqoke" e onodoli, nonina uchaza, ngokomzwelo futhi ngokucace kuka akwenzayo manje, "Vanya ufuna ukuhlangana Tosha. - Sawubona Tosh, - uthi Vanya. - Eish-aw - ihlangabezana Tosh ".

Indaba omjwayele Vanya futhi Toshi kungaba liphindwe ngaphandle kompleksuya mayelana lokuthi akukho okunye kucatshangwa phandle, nokuthi, sicabanga akusiwona funny kangaka, ngokuphindwe izikhathi eziyinkulungwane. Lena ngokuphelele hhayi scary abaneminyaka like eziphindaphindiwe, sekuvunyelwe njengoba umuntu ukuphindaphinda isenzo esithile.

Uzokubona lokhu kukhonjiswe lapho ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha - unyaka kuyokwenza ngenkani ukuba enze into efanayo kaningi. Eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu bengakakwazi sezinhlelo zakho emincanyana waseshashalazini can kakade ukuphila enemininingwane okuningi. Uma umama noma ubaba ungenalo amandla okudala kuwe ukucabanga into (Nokho kulula - khumbula nje ukuthi kwenzekeni namuhla ngesikhathi uhambo, isibonelo, bese wengeza ukuba ukuthi umbala), khona-ke abanazo abalobi izingane zokudala sika . Futhi hhayi nje izingane. Kahle umdlalo, isibonelo, cishe ukhohlwe yilesi sizukulwane Mayakovsky inkondlo "Yenza lokho okuhle nokubi."

Okungcono nakakhulu, yini "okuhle" futhi liyini 'okubi "kuchaza iBhayibheli. Nesigaba kukhona lokho. Eminyakeni emithathu, izingane bayakwazi ukuhlola nesenzo ngokwaso. Okokuqala ne amathiphu abazali bese wena. IBhayibheli kungcono ukusebenza kunokungasebenzi nhlobo incwadi efundisa Cabangisisa uswidi izisusa zokuziphatha kwabantu. Kamuva, lapho ingane kufanele ufunde indlela ukuzindla, kuyoba lula ukuba enze ukukhetha phakathi "okuhle" futhi "okubi." Ingasaphathwa iqiniso ukuthi kusihlwa asichitha nomkhaya, imidlalo kanye skits izingane - ke abunakuqhathaniswa e nangohlobo isikhathi injabulo.

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