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Izimfihlo zendalo: namahloni futhi emnene ngayo. Ingabe kuhle noma kubi?

Iningi labantu abakhetha ukuthandana futhi zakhe ubuhlobo abanobuntu egqamile futhi ethandwa. Nokho, njengoba beye bathola okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila, njengoba abantu abaningi bakhetha abangane bomshado abalingani ethule, esiwusizo, enomusa futhi emnene. Zonke lezi zimfanelo sebeyakwazi ukwenza beshadile ezolile futhi uzinzile. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sihambe bahlelekela uhlu oluningiliziwe izidingo nozoba umyeni wakho noma umkakho, zama ukuqonda: yibeka - yilokhu?

Ukulalela nokuthobeka - ukuhlonishwa?

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi izinga uhlamvu omuhle kuphela ezimweni ezithile kanye nezindawo. Esikhathini nezinye izindawo kuzokwenza isithiyo kuphela endleleni eya empumelelweni nasenjabulweni siqu. Uma ukholwa ukuthi izincazelo izichazamazwi, emnene - a nezimo, ezolile, okunokuthula ukulungele ukusiza abantu babuyisane. Uma uthi nhlá, endaweni kwebalingisi efanayo akukho okungalungile. Futhi uma ucabanga mayelana - esondelene kakhulu ukuthobeka omuhle isici ezifana yokuntuleka isinyathelo. Ake sithi ukuba umfazi abamnene belungile ngempela - ukuphila komkhaya kuyoba singenakulinganiswa, akukho Amahlazo izingxabano. Kodwa ekugcineni kufika isikhathi lapho i-injabulo yabo kuyodingeka ukulwa - ukuze ubonise amakhono abo ukuze bathole umsebenzi noma yini ukuphikelela nokuthwala iyiphi inhlangano kahulumeni sokubhaliswa kwemibhalo ezifanele. Ezimweni ezinjalo, abantu abamnene elahleka, akuvamile babe ukuphikelela ngokwanele nokuzimisela.

Umsuka onesimo mnene

Akukho impendulo eyodwa umbuzo kumiswa uhlamvu. Ezinye izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi lesi sifo izimfanelo siqu futhi ukuziphatha ingane ithola esemncane, abanye ochwepheshe bathi zingaba phambili imfundiso yokuziphendukela nezici ezithile sitholwa njengefa. Siye sathola ukuthi le ndoda ethule - ezolile umuntu nabanomusa. Kungani abantu zikhula efana naleyo? Zimbili izimbangela kungenzeka kakhulu. Okokuqala - lokhu ikakhulukazi imfundo, kanti eyesibili - ukungalethembi ngokwabo futhi amakhono abo siqu. Noma yimuphi umzali abafisa kuphela best umntanakhe, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuphumela ukunakekelwa ngokweqile. amantombazane abaningi batshelwa kusukela ekuzalweni ukuthi owesifazane kufanele ngoba elalela umyeni wakhe ngokuphelele, sithobeke futhi sibe lithambe. amaphethini afanayo ayatholakala imfundo abafana - nabo bathi isimo sengqondo mnene - kuhle, kufanele ugweme izimpi, futhi umbono wabo akufanele wagomela "lomphangi" izindlela ukuzivocavoca amandla ento edaliwe. Okuvame kakhulu kulezi izinkinga imikhaya bokusungula lapho abazali abe ezingeni eliphezulu lemfundo futhi kuhlanzekile ngokokuziphatha.

Indlela ukunqoba intombazane emnene?

Naphezu passivity yakhe futhi ukungatholakali amantombazane nesizotha ngempela guys. Inkinga iwukuthi abantu abaningi abasha namuhla nje angazi kanjani ukwenza omjwayele nokuthi ubungane lezi zintokazi. Okubaluleke kakhulu - cha behave awayiphazamisi kakhulu futhi cheeky. Ngisho omuhle ejwayelekile izincomo emhlanganweni kokuqala kungase kube ukubona komuntu, omubi. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi intombazane emnene - lena inkosazana yangempela. Yena bayokwazisa romance futhi ukunakekela ingxenye interlocutor. Ukuze sijabulise lentombazane kufanele bavunyelwe ukuba amtshele ngawe, imibuzo eholela empendulweni. Bonisa kangakanani fun wena ulalele interlocutor futhi qiniseka ukumdumisa. Ukunconywa akufanele kube kakhulu, kungenjalo izobukeka ukuthopha. Linganisa impumelelo lokuqala, izimfanelo siqu futhi ulwazi entombazaneni Ngokusobala Ingaphandle ukusho okungenani. ezifanele Okuningi ukusho ukuthi umuntu okahle futhi ezithakazelisayo, kunokuba nje ukudumisa ubuhle.

Indlela ukujabulisa abamnene nsizwa?

amantombazane Modern zijwayele yokuthi guys zihlale ujwayelene kubo kuqala, kodwa ngemuva kokuzama zonke izinhlobo izindlela uthakazelisa futhi ukunqoba. Masingakhohlwa ukuthi indoda ethobekile -. Lokhu akuyona oyengela ebulilini esikhohlisayo noma 'umnqobi izinhliziyo besifazane " Ukuze wenze abangane noma abe kuthandana insizwa, ukuba nabo bazame ukuba intombazane. Into ebaluleke kakhulu - ukuba azame ukukhuluma nale nsizwa, uyaqiniseka ukuthi wajabulisa Umlaleli onozwelo. Uma kungenzeka - ukucela usizo, isibonelo, esikoleni noma emsebenzini, bakhombise isifiso ukufunda okuthile kunaye ukhuluma ephelele. Wonke amadoda angama-uthande ukuze baxoxelane okuhlangenwe nakho izimfundiso nabanye, wawudinga isibindi eseyinsizwa yithuba elikhulu ukukholelwa bona namandla abo.

Indlela ukuqeda yesizotha?

Ukuzithoba, abamnene, engazethembi, abathobekile - konke singasho ngawe, noma othile wabantu eduze kwakho? Zonke lezi zimfanelo okuthile okuhle, kodwa uma zikhule kakhulu futhi aphazamise ekuphileni, kumelwe usebenze ngokwakho. Umsebenzi main - ukuze ufunde ukuveza imibono yabo, balahle kokwesaba lapho sisebenzelana nabanye abantu abakholelwa ngokwabo. Kufanele uqale ngokuchaza izimfanelo nobuntu bakhe siqu, kusukela ongathanda ukuqeda: amahloni, passivity, ubumnene. Lokhu ukudluliswa kuzokusiza uqonde lokho ncamashi kufanele asebenze. Gqamisa nezinselelo ezinkulu: abangane abasha umhlangano, izinkulumo zeningi, self nenhlalakahle ezindaweni eziminyene. Yini uzonikwa kwakubucayi? Ziningi izindlela ukuthuthukisa yakho yokukhulumisana nabanye futhi balahle izakhiwo. Ungazama ukuqhubeka kancane, zokunqoba lwemigomo. Kukhona "ukushaqeka" zokwelapha nazo - ngokwesibonelo, bophezela ukwenza okuthile wena isikhathi eside ayikwazanga ukunquma. Ukuze athole usizo lokunqoba amahloni lungatholakala futhi zokusebenza kwengqondo professional.

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